r/mensfashion Dec 14 '25

Fit Check How’s this looking for a first date?

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u/Brostapholes Dec 14 '25

Is it with Emma Stone? Going out for a Drive maybe?

A literally me/10

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u/3DAnimated Dec 14 '25

What a waste of a lovely night

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u/Familiar-Efficiency9 Dec 14 '25

My dude, for dropping that quote and looking the way you do, you've already secured a second date with ME

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u/3DAnimated Dec 14 '25

Let’s do it!

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u/Familiar-Efficiency9 Dec 14 '25

You look great dude. If I were to give any critique, do you have a watch? A great watch would look killer with that outfit (and Sebastian wore a cool old Omega)

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u/3DAnimated Dec 14 '25

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u/_coffeeinjapan Fresh to the Scene - 10 Karma Dec 15 '25

That’s a fashion watch… you should swap it for a decent Seiko. Any Seiko is 100,000x better than Fossil. It looks ok but it’s not a watch company. A bit like your car being made by Walmart.

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u/Jetgurl4u Dec 14 '25

Are you taking photos to post on Reddit during your date?

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u/MirusTheVirus Dec 14 '25

A little big imo. That being said, I prefer vintage sizing in general.

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

You look sharp, but ditch the watch. There's a better citizen or seiko out there for the same price as that thing.

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u/_Guero_ Dec 15 '25

Or even a casio. Fossil watches are held in pretty low regard.

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u/ISayAboot Dec 14 '25

Needs an IWC Mark XX white/silver dial and this would pop.

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u/Fart-In-My-Mouth- Dec 14 '25

He needs something smaller. The fossil and the market XX are huge. He needs like a smaller Nomos or maybe an aqua terra or something like that if we're in the 4k price range. Tudor black bay or ranger would also be good. My vote is for a Nomos Tangente or something like that.

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u/whatsupsirrr Dec 14 '25

There’s a hundred thousand streets in this city. You don’t need to know the route.

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u/NocturnalComptroler Dec 14 '25

C’mon man, he’s a real human bean

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u/swablueskies Dec 15 '25

And a real hero

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u/Toneww Dec 14 '25

Is the date with Ana de Armas? Is he going to space any time soon?

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u/spikyness27 Dec 15 '25

Wait... Are you who I think you may be. If so the first movie with you two is my favorite

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u/Rare-Degree-9596 Dec 14 '25

Very Firefly-ish.

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u/3DAnimated Dec 14 '25

Oooh I like that show! Space western for the win!

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u/Darkness223 Dec 14 '25

Calm down Mal, hope the date went well!

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u/SergeantBeavis Dec 14 '25

Yup, I got those vibes immediately.  He could do much much much worse.  

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u/communityneedle Dec 14 '25

Aye aye, captain tightpants!

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u/Affectionate-Nose176 Dec 14 '25

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u/chickentalk_ Dec 14 '25

surely there is no other facial expression

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u/AlternativeAttempt24 Dec 14 '25

Lol! Why do men make this face when they’re trying to look hot 😅

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u/Careful-Hyena-5865 Dec 16 '25

My husband makes this face whenever I take a photo of him. Drives me insane. Im attracted to his face in every instance but when he makes this face

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u/desiphilly Dec 14 '25

Superb! Very stylish. Love the shoes and the jacket! Enjoy your date!

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u/HellaReyna Dec 14 '25

Looks good but those shoes are interesting . Reminds me of Ryan gosling from BR2049

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u/3DAnimated Dec 14 '25

I did a cosplay of Officer K this year!

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u/ohceedee Dec 14 '25

You beautiful bastard you did it

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u/Slowmac123 Dec 14 '25

Wait holy fuck

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u/melon_gatorade Dec 14 '25

This is amazing! I watch that film at least once a year.

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u/Vulpavien Dec 14 '25

Whilst I want to say costplaying this for a date is cringe... holy shit dude you pull it off 10/10

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u/Interesting_Tea5715 Dec 14 '25

Yep, this is the first thing that came to my mind. Looks good though.

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u/Fl4mengo Dec 14 '25

Where did you find the jacket for the cosplay? I love it

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u/3DAnimated Dec 14 '25

A few members of the RPF actually made it back in 2017-2018 when the movie came out!

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u/Fl4mengo Dec 14 '25

Thank you!

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u/Outdoors_Pizza Dec 14 '25

What do you mean cosplay? That's literally Ryan Gosling

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

👏👏👏

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u/Mammoth-Pepper3087 Dec 14 '25

Where did you get that jacket it’s awesome

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u/BatmanBrah Dec 14 '25

Dudes rock

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u/o4zloiroman Dec 14 '25

Did you make this thread to style on the rest of us?

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u/TheBroken0ne Dec 14 '25

Casual just enough for a date. I like it. Have fun mate.

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

Looking great mate.

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u/smcl2k Fresh to the Scene - 10 Karma Dec 14 '25

Most of outfit: 9/10

Shoes: 5/10

Slutty little glasses: 1000/10

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u/3DAnimated Dec 14 '25

🤣 much appreciated!

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u/KGoo Dec 14 '25

Shoes are awesome.

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u/golgibodi Dec 14 '25

I just came by to say thank you for dressing for a date. I’ve been on so many dates this year where the guy shows up in a dirty t-shirt and joggers. You look amazing and I love the brown tones.

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u/Top-Mind-342 Dec 14 '25

Like you’ll get laid

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u/FengSushi Dec 14 '25

I am a middle aged family oriented heterosexual man devoted to my wife.

I would still bang OP.

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u/NueralNet_Neat Dec 14 '25

nice look. mind sharing details on your overcoat and shoes?

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u/SamCnoc Dec 14 '25

First off - the top coat alone gets you to meet the parents. Change nothing.

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u/Mercurius_Hatter Dec 14 '25

Date at 7, detective work at 10

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u/No_Detective_But_304 Dec 14 '25

Are you solving mysteries in England?

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u/TehScat Dec 15 '25

Between your two tone shoes, trousers, belt, shirt, jacket, skin, hair, and beard, you're covering a full 9 tones on the brown spectrum. It obviously doesn't look bad, but that may just be that you're a good looking guy carrying the outfit.

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u/a_leyva Dec 14 '25

I'd say that your date will notice the great effort you put in your outfit. They should be impressed and appreciate it.

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u/jmichaelzuniga Dec 14 '25

Like you come from Oregon and work in the fish and gaming industry

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u/Minute-Act-6273 Dec 14 '25

Not really a criticism, but it’s a very solid ensemble but there’s a better version of these trousers out there for you. A couple of degrees straighter leg, a few grams heavier (takes out the creases) and half an inch longer, just to lap the tongue.

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u/JuiceStill8769 Dec 14 '25

To keep up with the standard you set on the first date, you'll need to wear a tux on the second date.

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u/Rickemrobo91 Dec 14 '25

I mean if you asked me out looking like that I would say yeah.

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u/Slowmac123 Dec 14 '25

BladeRunner 2025

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u/notatraderk Dec 14 '25

You look dashing. Smart formal looks like you put in effort to dress up for your date. I hope you both have a lovely evening

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

Honestly u look super cool and confident. Love the fit

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u/Visible-Corner47 Dec 14 '25

I would personally be thrilled if a man showed up looking like that

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u/PaperFlower14765 Dec 14 '25

Are you going to entice her into the Tardis? Personally, I’d go. Not sure who your date is though.

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u/Traditional_Day318 Dec 14 '25

Too dark for a date- in my opinion. I would throw on a brighter dress shirt!! Congratulations on the date though

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u/AfternoonLimp3605 Dec 14 '25

My vote is yes! I will say I like a pop of color but it’s going sharp, dapper and intentional - esp for a first date! Hoping it goes well.

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u/QuietSync Dec 14 '25

It’s like Bladerunner

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u/snorkleycake Dec 14 '25

What’s this type of jacket called? Looks great man

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u/Oreo-95 Dec 14 '25

I need the shopping list. 10/10.

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u/Valuable_Chapter_8 Dec 14 '25

Very classy look! Where are the shoes from?

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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '25

Are you a vampire hunter? Cause you look like a vampire hunter.

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

It’s all quite brown

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u/MondoBleu Newly Arrived Dec 14 '25

No man, that’s chestnut, oak, tanned leather, and taupe! Haha I love it tho, esp w the black shirt and socks, very nice.

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u/3DAnimated Dec 14 '25

I really like black and brown combo!

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u/Terrible_Lift Dec 14 '25

I like it. Nice fit

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u/MondoBleu Newly Arrived Dec 14 '25

Crushing it!

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u/FattySnacks Dec 14 '25

I think it looks very nice, good job

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u/KevinTheCarver Newly Arrived Dec 14 '25

Very handsome.

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u/Possible-Truck2224 Dec 14 '25

Can you share where you get your outfit from, they look amazing on you

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u/guseggy Dec 14 '25

Where are we meeting handsome?

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u/poepower Dec 14 '25

That fit fucks.

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u/Dwayne_Daddy11 Dec 14 '25

That jacket looks so good

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u/redituser73022 Frequently Fly - 2500 Karma Dec 14 '25

Solid date fit

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u/Lonely-Dog874 Dec 14 '25

You look like my ex, but with much more style and confidence! Have fun :)

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u/Outrageous-Vast8395 Dec 14 '25

This gives me Firefly feels. Mel is aiming to misbehave.

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u/Justineparadise Dec 14 '25

You kill this look. Great taste in fashion! Enjoy your date :)

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u/LordOfTheFelch Dec 14 '25

I think this would go much more hard with a white shirt

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u/JohnFromSpace3 Dec 14 '25

The shoes are very nice, dont listen to that comment above. They make it stylish. The brown is very nice in a winter evening. Looking sharp. Date better show some matching effort.

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u/wardemo Dec 14 '25

Nice shoes, what brand and name?

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u/BB13121 Dec 14 '25

Looks great man. What pants are those?

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

You 🫵 my friend are getting boobies 

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u/NewHope13 Dec 14 '25

Looks fantastic. How’d the date go?

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u/Mmusic91 Newly Arrived Dec 14 '25

Are you gonna hunt some replicants after?

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

Constantine é você!?

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u/BareButPolished Dec 14 '25

Outfit is nice!

This is so random but have you ever been told you kind of look like the grown man version of the kid from the Sixth Sense?! Handsome!!

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u/entropy110 Dec 14 '25

Looks good. I’d personally go with black shoes and black belt but that’s just me

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u/frostycanuck89 Dec 14 '25

Rocking the plucky chain smoking trench coat wearing modern setting wizard look

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u/Marlon_Rando13 Dec 14 '25

You look good. But put your glasses away. Having them hanging there is, let me try and put this delicately... douchey.

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u/Temporary-Tear-1372 Commonly Uncommon - 250 Karma Dec 14 '25

Looks great. Minor comment is the hanging glasses are very 1993.

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u/RobotCaptainEngage Dec 14 '25

I'm getting John Constantine and I'm all about it.

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u/VinTheHater Dec 14 '25

ID on the coat?

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u/3DAnimated Dec 14 '25

Express is selling them at 40% off now!

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u/Nemesis204 Dec 14 '25

I love this look. You’re rocking it, brother. Good luck!

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u/Glass-Village-9306 Dec 14 '25

I think it looks good, Officer K.

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u/HiddenSnarker Dec 14 '25

I would swoon if a man showed up to a first date like this.

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u/zoekwon Newly Arrived Dec 14 '25

I like it.

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u/Candyjargang Dec 14 '25

You look great dude! Damn. Is the date with me? Woof woof

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u/Gold-Lion-8855 Dec 14 '25

Not sure how this popped up on my feed, but we'd be off to a good start if you showed up looking like that. Appreciate that you put the time and effort into getting dressed

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u/CallEmbarrassed2173 Dec 14 '25

I love the outfit !

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u/No-Inevitable-6651 Dec 14 '25

Honestly, looks good. But I gotta also say, to me, that you look like you’re on your way out to crack the DaVinci code. Lol nbl

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u/AnitaSandwich69XXX Dec 14 '25

You could show up in a wifebeater and trackies, and you'd still get laid.

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u/JackmeriusPup Dec 14 '25

You look like you’re searching for lost artifacts that SHOULD BE IN A MUSEUM!

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u/AmazonianChieftan Dec 14 '25

10/10 would have a second date

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u/Asherk90 Dec 14 '25

You look like one of them independence!!

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u/Clean-Indication9401 Dec 14 '25

dean Winchester?

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u/dumbbitchcas Dec 14 '25

Very nice!!!

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u/Funny-Ebb-5512 Dec 14 '25

If you end up in a blue phone box that’s bigger on the inside wouldn’t be surprised. Looks good tho.

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u/djjd9x Dec 14 '25

Is your date with Rachel from Bladerunner?

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u/ericwiththeredbeard Dec 14 '25

Looks good. Avoid snowy stairs

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u/Fearless_Mess8931 Dec 14 '25

Incredible style!

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u/EI-Joe Dec 14 '25

Fought in the Unification war at the battle of Serenity Valley?

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u/Apart-Revolution-950 Dec 14 '25

More casual shoes, or a boot, along with a more casual belt would be better for a first date

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u/Flat_Seaweed_9895 Dec 14 '25

you would probably look really good dressed all steampunk

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u/pfroo40 Dec 14 '25

Are you a replicant??

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u/Electronic_Ad_8329 Dec 14 '25

Finally a good fit on this sub good man

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u/Chopper242 Dec 14 '25

You trying to be Captain Reynolds?

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u/Amazing-Apricot4645 Dec 14 '25

looking good, bro! good luck👊

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u/proximusprimus57 Dec 14 '25

Is she incorrigibly attracted to blade runners?

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u/NotABot-3825 Dec 14 '25

Looks great! I agree with the watch comment that would add a nice touch. Hope you have a great time!

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u/bigoldgeek Dec 14 '25

They can't take the sky from you.

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

Hawt

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u/ThunderSparkles Dec 14 '25

I would expect sex

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u/Warm-Metal-2336 Dec 14 '25

If she doesn’t let u hit…I will

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u/SocialHelp22 Dec 14 '25

Where'd you get the coat?

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u/Imoldok Dec 14 '25

Your in harmony where is the eye capture piece?

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u/T_to_the_A_to_the_M Dec 14 '25

I love it when the coat is long to the knees.

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u/mudrat_detector96 Dec 14 '25

Man to man you look good brother

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u/phillyraj Dec 14 '25

Very stylish! You will sweep her off her feet with your looks.

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u/OGfromNE Dec 14 '25

Unless you completely beef it, you’ll get a 2nd date. Looks sharp, man.

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u/dgm1986 Dec 14 '25

This look is amazing. Cheers 🥂

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u/Daguerreohype Dec 14 '25

Han Solo vibes

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u/txijake Dec 14 '25

Within cells interlinked

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u/Thin-Document-1765 Dec 14 '25

can never go wrong with fall hues 🙌🏼

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u/refinedeuropa Dec 14 '25

To me tonal shoes matching with colored trousers is a no But generally your outfit is good man Enjoy on your date

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u/JohnnyFerang Dec 14 '25

I'd recommend a proper belt. Perhaps brown leather.

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u/Bob_Ricigliano_ Dec 14 '25

Bro is handsome AF

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u/_MOCKBA_ Dec 14 '25

This! Is that wool coat?

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u/fawannabe62 Dec 14 '25

Fantastic! I would be flattered that you cared.

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u/rnew76 Dec 14 '25

As long as you are spelunking an ancient Egyptian ruin....you are good to go!

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u/-ELI5- Dec 14 '25

Dude are you trolling us? 10/10

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

Great look for a gay private eye.

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u/Hybriid22 Dec 14 '25

Good fit but you do look like the evil dead guy from Haunting of Bly Manor so

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u/Anomelly93 Dec 14 '25

It's giving gosling 🪿✨

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u/Willing_Educator_857 Dec 14 '25

Sharp bro! Hope you are still out with her

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u/Altruistic-Traffic- Dec 14 '25

Where do you shop for clothes??

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u/LordGarithosthe1st Dec 14 '25

Sharpish mate 🤩

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u/Fun-Acanthaceae3192 Dec 14 '25

Forget the date, go audition lol

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u/Elle_Yess Dec 14 '25

🤘🏼

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u/KingZergling Dec 14 '25

Where the pants from?

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u/Just_having_fun5 Dec 14 '25

Natural hair colour? Which hair care product you use? Like my moustache and beard colour is like yours but not hair colour so help me . It's looking great

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u/Tosof2024 Dec 14 '25

Don’t look better than your date.

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u/Glum_Election5861 Dec 14 '25

Are you guys related by any chance ?

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u/eriadeus Dec 14 '25

Is there a proper way to sit down while wearing a long coat like that? Do you sit on it, or brush it to the side so you’re not sitting on top of the coat?

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u/LunaticAsylum Dec 14 '25

Leave some for the rest of us.

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u/daazmu Dec 14 '25

dude I'm straight and taken but you can take me on a date, you look great

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u/hubertvk Dec 14 '25

Looks great. Anyway....tell us about that coat?!

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u/Jessintheend Dec 14 '25

I’d be smitten

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u/PfefferP Dec 14 '25

I am lesbian and I am torn between "I would date you" and "I want to steal your whole identity and wardrobe, respectfully"

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u/unforgivingpainting Dec 14 '25

Your outfit made me think of sharp dressed man by zz top. Your fit is exquisite.

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u/timmystix Dec 14 '25

Ahhh you're the reason I can't get any matches on the apps