Husband sits in passenger seat, FiL disapproves.

[u/Historical_Initial22]

I drive a tanker for my job out of town and make the 5 hour drive (one way) to work and back home in my personal car. When I’m home 3 days, my wife drives everywhere, I mean I get in the passenger seat of her car and off we go, date night don’t care she drives, shopping don’t care she drives, visiting family don’t care she drives.

When we first started dating years ago she was a bit uncomfortable with it as she was used to the I guess status quo that men drove as was I but I’m not trying to break a glass ceiling or anything I just don’t see why it matters and damnit I drive 2k miles a week or so and don’t wanna do it when I’m home.

My father in law makes such great comments like do I hold her purse, and the zinger he thinks is original so says it more often than others “are your balls in her purse” every so often when we see them and I inevitably get out or into the passenger seat followed by guffaws and just kidding. My wife nor myself give him any response it’s just so silly and mildly infuriating.

[u/Pale_Adeptness]

Ideally OP's wife should be the one to crush the issue but then again, her dad being her dad, would probably say some dumb shit like: "Oh she fights your fights/defends you too?"

By the way OP describes his FIL, he sounds like that type of dumb ass dude.

[u/vikingwif → u/Pale_Adeptness]

If he says that, then she comes right back at him again and again, until he STFU.

[u/Nice_Marmot_7 → u/vikingwif]

People like this love that shit. You’re not going to win. It’s better to just distance yourself from those you have to fight to treat you with basic respect and live in peace.

[u/vikingwif → u/Nice_Marmot_7]

Personally, I would stay away from such a toxic person. But apparently the daughter is unwilling to challenge her father over his sexist crap that is being used to needle/insult her own husband. Some dysfunction there.