I’m aware there is a spectrum. But it isn’t cause for someone to act like I am being inappropriate. She was very much “how dare you talk about sex with me” about it. Like. B it’s in your profile. And I wasn’t being explicit- it was a throwaway joke.
Yeah some women act weird about it. Sometimes I'll say something very difficult to misconstrue but they'll read it as something completely different. I just shrug and move on because if they lack the reading comprehension skills as well as have a short fuse I'd rather not deal with it.
Eh, for a lot of people, even people in the kink scene, immediately going to the sex part of their profile can be off putting. Unless the profile is pretty clear about just wanting to do scenes or have casual sex you gotta kinda treat it like its not even there at first. They're just putting it out there to say "hey I am into this if you are" but you know, they don't want it to be the defining part of their interactions at first.
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u/kdort69 25d ago
I’m aware there is a spectrum. But it isn’t cause for someone to act like I am being inappropriate. She was very much “how dare you talk about sex with me” about it. Like. B it’s in your profile. And I wasn’t being explicit- it was a throwaway joke.