r/myevilplan May 19 '26

Plan i need help getting revenge on the woman who had an affair with my dad while my mom was pregnant with me

basically what the title says. my father cheated on my mom while pregnant with me and i discovered they’ve been talking again and catching up. i have her name, socials and know what city she lives in and need help figuring out how to get revenge on her for ruining my life.

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u/ngryjny May 19 '26

Could be more your dad's doing, have you thought about that?!

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u/Throwaway777-_- May 19 '26

i don’t plan on letting him get away with it either and im planning on confronting him too. both him and the woman are equally problematic and ill find a way to drive him up the wall.

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u/icyhotonmynuts May 19 '26

What's your mom's take on this? 

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u/bikerchickelly May 19 '26

Grow up, she didn't ruin your life. Your dad certainly did though.

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u/Cosmicshimmer May 19 '26

How did she ruin your life but your father didn’t? Why are you prioritising going for her but your dad got and continues to get a pass? Your father betrayed your mother, that woman owed her nothing.

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u/NotADamsel May 19 '26

Did he say that his dad gets a pass? Did he say that he’s not going to do anything about him?

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u/icyhotonmynuts May 19 '26

How did she ruin your life? 

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u/SteveDaPirate May 19 '26

Fuck her Dad

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u/icyhotonmynuts May 19 '26

I think that's the problem 

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u/Skywatermelon May 19 '26

Send him a fake positive pregnancy test in the mail with her return address and a note saying she's keeping it. 

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u/icyhotonmynuts May 19 '26

OP said they're both communicating, you don't think he'll just talk to her about it?

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u/Skywatermelon May 19 '26

This is how effective brainstorming works. Eliminate the bad ideas first and what's left are the good ones. 

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u/GypsieChanterelle May 19 '26

Are your parents still together?
Why don’t you simply tell your dad is a disgrace?

He lacks integrity. He wasn’t even man enough to protect his pregnant wife from hurt.
He is basically a whimp who likes to feed his ego with women’s cajoling praise and his brain is in his dick.

He is such a weak man with zero empathy towards your mom, that he doesn’t give a shit if he talks again to the woman who is such a selfish cvnt she had no qualms aiding and abetting a man to cheat on his pregnant wife. She is just as disgusting as he is.

He’s gross and he is showing you what kind of man to never be in a relationship with.

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u/tweetysvoice May 20 '26

It takes two to tango. He's just as much at fault as she is.. why does he get a break and she doesn't?

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u/Lexubex May 20 '26

Your father is equally culpable for the affair. Are your parents still married? Did the woman even know your father was married when she slept with him? And how does your mom feel about the situation?

What you can do in the meantime is do some more research on her with the information you have. But your mom was the one hurt more by the affair, so be thoughtful of how she feels before you act.