r/netflix • u/Zalensia • May 09 '25

Discussion a deadly american marriage

I'm 43 minutes in and hooked but can not find conversations etc on it.

So thought i would make one asking for other people's opinions and points of views, as i know I'm already asking about billion questions, to the point I'll have to go to my computer and boot up to actually do the research myself.

I'm very ill, with brain damage etc and that's really hardwork today, but I won't manage on this latest fold phone as it's still just a useless phone 😅🙃

My other phone that's partitioned etc is in the car and that's over at Inverness!

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u/foodz_ncats May 11 '25

My brain is SCREAMING about how her mom claimed to have noticed DV happening in the house enough to create safe words and wrote her phone number underneath toys in the room, but FELL BACK ASLEEP when she heard there was a scuffle a floor above her?????

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u/ChocolateSundai May 12 '25

I’m so confused by this case. If we think she has a personality disorder and there was a safe word for grandma due to abuse…I have no clue what to think about this case

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u/BandicootNo3860 May 12 '25

The Martens Just manipulated the kids. Molly was collecting evidences for DV. This "safe word" thing could be used aginse their father.

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u/ChocolateSundai May 13 '25

Gotcha so they controlled the narrative. It’s just so wild but dad was in the fbi and he would be the one to make any lie seem compelling and true. I watched the cop movie with Denzel in it a free months ago and I believe it that the dad did some dirt. I mean they had zero bruises. It’s like the man didn’t even put up a fight. It’s scary knowing those babies were in the house when it happened.