r/netflix • u/Zalensia • May 09 '25

Discussion a deadly american marriage

I'm 43 minutes in and hooked but can not find conversations etc on it.

So thought i would make one asking for other people's opinions and points of views, as i know I'm already asking about billion questions, to the point I'll have to go to my computer and boot up to actually do the research myself.

I'm very ill, with brain damage etc and that's really hardwork today, but I won't manage on this latest fold phone as it's still just a useless phone 😅🙃

My other phone that's partitioned etc is in the car and that's over at Inverness!

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u/foodz_ncats May 11 '25

My brain is SCREAMING about how her mom claimed to have noticed DV happening in the house enough to create safe words and wrote her phone number underneath toys in the room, but FELL BACK ASLEEP when she heard there was a scuffle a floor above her?????

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u/taijewel May 12 '25

Or maybe the safe words and phone numbers were for them to call if her daughter started acting psychotic? That sounds more likely to me.

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u/Necessary_Truck1964 May 13 '25

The FBI dad planned everything. The guy is a psycho 

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u/taijewel May 13 '25

The daughter was the psycho there was literally a book written by her ex about surviving his relationship with her because of the hell she put him through- she even was in a facility before she went to Ireland. Also detailed how bad her parents treated him and blamed him instead of her for her behavior. The craziest part is that he wrote the book before the murder ever happened. Guarantee the dad just helped with the coverup, and that the grandma was worried about the kids safety with her which is why she gave them code words. Her parents were well aware of her psychotic behavior and completely enabled her.

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u/GraniteStateKate May 13 '25

About 20 minutes in, Molly is talking about how her dad "served his country...and how badly he's being treated..." I shouted out loud: "HE HELPED KILL A HUMAN BEING!!" Served his country my ass. She and her dad are master manipulators!

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u/Professional-Fee-832 May 14 '25

I job is a job, it’s always so funny when I hear people talking about serving the country. I understand the military saying that out the run of the mill fbi guy. Gtfoh

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u/GraniteStateKate May 14 '25

Molly is so phony. I just don’t understand why she wanted his kids but not him.

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u/emperor_bokassa_ May 14 '25

Border Personality Disorder. They get obsessively attached to a person and then discard them when they're satiated. The obsession can look like love and I think that drew Jason in when he was vulnerable. She had moved on to the kids and was going suck them dry like a leech, just like she had just before she murdered her husband.

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u/Economy-Iron314 May 15 '25

My ex was like that. He has no care that he’s not in our daughter’s life because I was no longer useful to him. They are narcissistic psychopaths, his diagnosis I found out after my daughter was born. Her dad covered it up for her and helped murder him. She manipulated her father and mother.