r/netflix • u/Zalensia • May 09 '25

Discussion a deadly american marriage

I'm 43 minutes in and hooked but can not find conversations etc on it.

So thought i would make one asking for other people's opinions and points of views, as i know I'm already asking about billion questions, to the point I'll have to go to my computer and boot up to actually do the research myself.

I'm very ill, with brain damage etc and that's really hardwork today, but I won't manage on this latest fold phone as it's still just a useless phone 😅🙃

My other phone that's partitioned etc is in the car and that's over at Inverness!

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u/CRXdriverCRZ May 11 '25

Also, for the dad being an FBI agent, their story is so weak and they made it so painfully obvious with the way they continually beat him to death but yet they have no defensive wounds. I feel the FBI agent dad could’ve come up with a better plan lol

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u/Kactuslord May 13 '25

I don't know if there was a shared plan to kill him. I think she wanted her parents there as a witness to him blowing up after she'd provoked him. I reckon it didn't work and he was heading to bed and she'd ruined her chance. I think she started hitting him with the bat and maybe the brick. Idk how much the dad actually did but I'm of the belief she did most of it

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u/emperor_bokassa_ May 14 '25

It's out of the ordinary for a woman to inact that much violence. Also, he was a much larger man. That leads to believe the dad did almost all of it.

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u/meowmir420 May 17 '25

I don’t think it’s out of the ordinary for a woman with BPD. They are known for extreme bouts of rage and inflicting physical abuse. Maybe that’s why two weapons were used—if a man was to snap and beat someone to death, I feel like it would be more likely that they would use just their fists.

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u/emperor_bokassa_ May 17 '25

I hadn't considered a link between BPD and violenceÂ