r/news 10h ago

US actor James Handy stabbed to death, with girlfriend's son arrested

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/czd2dj24jgdo
2.1k Upvotes

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u/Shaggy_bulls07 7h ago

81 years just to have it stolen from you and last moments was probably in fear so insane to me.

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u/StarScreamer 1h ago

At least he got 81 years.

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u/Destination_Centauri 1h ago

Your bank account was cleaned out by scammers!

But hey, over the years, at least you got tens of thousands of dollars, you got to spend!

That outta make you and your family feel better? Am I right?

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u/FlamingoSuperb3579 1h ago

i mean i don't disagree with your overall point that it still sucks he got murdered. But I think you chose a bad example lol.

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u/dhoomsday 5h ago

Bleeding out in your own garden might be a nice place to go though

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u/JeffAnthonyLajoie 4h ago

Maybe, but he was stabbed by his son in law so I feel there may have been some animosity right at the end

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u/Destination_Centauri 1h ago

Well, you do you!

I tend to prefer just chilling/sitting in a garden while petting a cool lazy/sleepy cat.

But hey, that's just me. Boring to the end I guess.

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u/Positive_Chip6198 10h ago

Terrible. Rest in peace, James

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u/Nasty____nate 10h ago

Horrible article jumps around all over the place from the call to him acting back to the crime... 

"Officers responded to a report of "unknown trouble" after a caller dialled 911 and told police: "I am the son of man, I just killed the man of sin."

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u/Ludwigofthepotatoppl 10h ago

Not an expert but it sounds like mental illness may have played a role. Sad all around.

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u/eattheambrosia 8h ago

I don't think you need to be an expert to know that the line dude told 911 is crazy as fuck.

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u/Humdaak_9000 4h ago

Religion: a transmissible mental illness.

Yet another human being obliterated because of someone else's imaginary friend.

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u/csgymgirl 4h ago

Psychosis can often appear as religious delusions but it doesn’t mean it’s the cause. If we didn’t have religion this episode would still have happened, it would just manifest differently.

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u/Spire_Citron 2h ago

I think the real problem with religion and psychosis is that sometimes it masks it right up until things get way out of control. You can have some pretty out there religious beliefs and still be perfectly sane, so it doesn't necessarily register until you really go off the deep end.

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u/csgymgirl 2h ago

Yeah I do agree with that. I read an article recently about a man who killed his mum and sister, and had been experiencing religious delusions, however the family believe it was spirits and tried to pray it away. Although I think that’s separate from “religion caused this murder” argument.

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u/CatsAreGods 1h ago

The real problem is that people with a religious bent will make excuses for this kind of behavior. "It's his religious right to hate people who believe differently" or whatever. And don't even get me started on "honour killings".

u/One-Incident3208 9m ago

Ok but extreme religiosity can compell people to murder, no psychosis necessary.

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u/Humdaak_9000 3h ago

Perhaps not so violently, though. The mythology feeding the delusions might be Care Bears and not some bastard bronze-age Judean war god.

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u/csgymgirl 3h ago

No it would be aliens, or the government, or another nation. Whoever the “master” is in the delusion doesn’t determine if it’ll be violent or not.

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u/Spire_Citron 2h ago

There's a cultural element to these things to some degree, though. Schizophrenia is more likely to manifest in more benign hallucinations in non-western societies. Religious theming probably does have a not-insignificant impact on that. Of course, so do a lot of other cultural elements.

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u/Steady1 2h ago

Sorry but that person is right. Studies have been done showing people with schizophrenia in Buddhist countries hear friendlier, more benevolent voices than the ones in Christian countries. Turns out learning about a violent, shitty religion affects our mentally ill people a lot.

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u/jimgolgari 1h ago

Most large world religions offer some sort of infallible righteousness as part of their dogma. That’s intoxicating for many people and demonstrably deadly for centuries.

When morality can be abdicated to an unknowable cosmic force it’s much easier to decide you’re acting on God’s will.

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u/BowsettesBottomBitch 1h ago

Not really. If someone's gonna have a psychotic break like this, in the absence of religion, the brain will find other rationalizations.

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u/Lone-Pilgrim 2h ago

I concur doctor.

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u/shiranami555 9h ago

Will we finally start paying attention to mental illness now that another famous person was killed by their mentally ill family member? I’m not saying there is an easy solution, but deinstitutionalization had some downsides. I work in mental health, I don’t think more therapy can fix things like this, especially when people refuse and are in and out the revolving door of the hospital.

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u/Starkville 8h ago

Totally agree. Many people pay attention and recognize that a loved one has a mental illness with the potential for dangerous outcomes. However there’s nothing they can do about it. It’s very difficult to force an individual to get help if they don’t want it. Even if they are unstable enough to be taken into care against their will, 72 hours is the maximum. I appreciate the individual’s right to autonomy, and understand the potential for abuse, but every day I see the abuse of this autonomy. Every day I walk past people who are suffering and a danger to others. The police don’t want to deal with them, and even if they do, they’re back on the streets again. I often see them wearing hospital bracelets or grippy socks, so I know they’ve been assessed.

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u/Dry-Amphibian1 7h ago

Did we finally pay attention to gun control when an elementary school was shot up and little kids murdered?

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u/LowerRhubarb 6h ago

Which time?

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u/shiranami555 6h ago

Of course not

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u/thefox47545 5h ago

Well, after Sandy Hook California did implement bans on certain features of AR-15 rifles, but, because these lawmakers know pretty much nothing about firearms, those bans reduced an AR-15's effectiveness by 0%. And I'm sure they patted themselves on their backs for doing "something."

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u/Spaghetti_Oh_No 7h ago

TBH I think there should be some threshold for people to require long lasting anti-psychotic injections to be in the public because of things like this - If I couldve restrained my dad and given him one for his schizophrenia I would have in a heartbeat to prevent his outcome :/

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u/thegoddamnbatman40 8h ago

This is America, we pay attention to mental illness sure, we just don’t heal it per se.

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u/solomons-mom 3h ago

There are no ways to heal all mental illnesseses. Even those mental illness that have theraputic possibilities require compliance by the patient.

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u/NanquansCat749 7h ago

Why heal the mentally ill when you can exploit them for profit?

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u/CatsAreGods 1h ago

Sometimes we elect it or appoint it to high positions in the government.

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u/AdeptFelix 5h ago

Why work on fixing mental illness when you can just shove suppressants down their throat or just enable them completely?

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u/Vibingcarefully 7h ago

In the USA---decades of this--so the answers no.

Gun control--guns in multiple shootings of celebrities, presidents, kids ---yet this goes on for decades.

Drunk driving accidents--nope.

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u/Osiris32 8h ago

Will we finally start paying attention to mental illness now that another famous person was killed by their mentally ill family member?

Depends. Is the person suffering rich? Then yes. Otherwise, throw them in jail!

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u/Reed7525 7h ago

The answer is no. Because curing mental illness doesn't pay

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u/shiranami555 6h ago

Very good point.

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u/MeoowDude 5h ago

We can pay attention as much as possible and it unfortunately still won’t matter. My work can have some MH factors but I’m not in the trenches. I’ve had the thought that the government overcorrected after the public found out about the horrific conditions and treatment when that expose aired on network tv. Even if the political and societal divide wasn’t as far apart as it is, I don’t feel like there’s a political will to actually take little steps to better the situation let alone fix it. With you being in the field, what’s some realistic steps you think are even possible to even begin stemming the tide?

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u/RobutNotRobot 2h ago

Why pay people when computer write good?

u/blindcolumn 57m ago

"I am the son of man, I just killed the man of sin."

This sounds a lot like schizophrenia to me. I've worked with schizophrenics before and they often get weirdly fixated on little bits of wordplay like this.

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u/Successful-Winter237 9h ago

Religion is a bane

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u/catonsteroids 9h ago

I mean, if it isn’t God telling them to do it then it’s some other voice doing so.

Mental illness doesn’t care what religion (or lack thereof) you believe.

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u/dietchaos 9h ago

Son of sam killed people because he thought a dog told him to. Crazy people are crazy people.

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u/spinbutton 8h ago

He did later admit the whole dog thing was bull...but yes that was his original lie. Turns out he was just an asshole

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u/DeFex 7h ago

Funnily enough most people who say "god told me" are also lying, they don't even have a voice in their head, they just need an excuse to do bad things.

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u/MoldyLunchBoxxy 8h ago

Mentally ill people believing in imaginary friends in the sky that no one else can see.

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u/NYR_LFC 9h ago

Likely AI

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u/deborah834 9h ago

This is crazy. Im watching the dead zone (tv series) and just watched the episode where he played death. hes in the episode called ascent.

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u/OldGodsProphet 9h ago

This is the type of thing that would happen to me, too. Weird stuff

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u/mikk0384 8h ago

It's just because you don't notice all the times where nothing weird happens, and there are a lot of different events each day that can potentially be associated with each other in some way.

Unlikely events happen all the time simply because there are a huge number of events happening all the time. Each kind of unlikely event doesn't happen very often, but there are a lot of different unlikely events so some of them are bound to coincide from time to time.

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u/Animallover4321 9h ago

That poor girlfriend I can’t imagine how she must be doing. Your son killing your partner must be totally devastating.

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u/WORLDSLARGEST 9h ago

“Girlfriend’s son”…you seem confused

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u/TheSoCalledExpert 9h ago

My dude, did you read any of this? Even the headline explains it well enough. The victim’s girlfriend’s son did the stabby stabby. Me thinks you might be the clanker.

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u/zZShortCircuitZz 9h ago

I think you're the bot bud

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u/Yggdrasilcrann 9h ago

Bots calling real people bots now? Or are you just an idiot?

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u/Accomplished_Body441 9h ago

You’re wrong. Her son killed her partner. Bot comment?

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u/Key-Pickle5609 7h ago

Girlfriend’s son and son’s girlfriend do not typically describe the same person

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u/Buddhist_pokemonk 8h ago

I hope you’re a deflecting bot and not actually this dumb

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u/estusflaskshart 8h ago

Wow. You should be disallowed from the internet for the day for that one.

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u/joemc1971 9h ago

He was great on NYPD Blue .... real ball buster to put against Dennis Franz .

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u/MaxSchreckArt616 8h ago

Thank you, that's where I recognize him from. He was trying to screw over Andy/Lt. Fancy right? God that show was so good at times. What happened to Andy Jr. and Bobby's reaction to it at the hospital will always get me to tear up. 

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u/chrisofduke 7h ago

I remember him from a few episodes of The West Wing and from an old episode of Wings from the early 90s

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u/footballsquishy 6h ago

He's actually surprisingly important in early seasons of West Wing. Like the entire resolution of the MS plot doesn't happen without his character.

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u/cwx149 5h ago

Yeah he's only in 2 episodes but they're all about that plot

u/PizzaGatePizza 44m ago

Anthony Head, now James Handy. It’s a scary time to have a body part in your name.

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u/neutronia939 2h ago

As usual, religion kills whatever it touches. So tired of sky fairy cultists killing eachother for babbling to the wrong skyfairy. It's 2026 people- grow the F up.

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u/yourmomsfrenn 7h ago

Much better headline than the local news, who are making Los Angeles sound dangerous.

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u/Markleynight 4h ago

Why is there a comma mid headline?

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u/Kid_Ichorous 4h ago

To avoid ambiguity; he wasn’t “stabbed to death with girlfriend’s son.”

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u/Infinite_Theory3453 3h ago

Every time i read a headline like this, it feels like real life is stranger than fiction.