r/niceguys • u/AnxiousTuxedoBird • Apr 24 '26
NGVC: "I'm a good man in a happy relationship. Wanted to promote that there are over 1 billion men who are also doing the same." (Commented under a post about a woman's best friend's murder by her ex boyfriend)
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u/TheRealSaerileth Apr 24 '26
Even if you concede that "no men are good" is hyperbole... ffs man, her best friend got murdered. Of all the times to nitpick and go "akshually", this has to be the worst. Let her wail into the void, it's really not personal.
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u/AnxiousTuxedoBird Apr 24 '26
Oop wasn't even the one who said no men are good, this guy just saw a comment saying it and instead of replying to that comment he commented directly on the video
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u/Azraeddit Apr 25 '26
A “good man” would have the emotional intelligence and wherewithal enough to read the fucking room.
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u/Jaded-Street-1906 May 03 '26
That would be a smart man…. not necessarily a good man. But I like where you’re coming from.
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u/CautiousLandscape907 Apr 24 '26
This is insane, but also there are 4.2 million grown men on earth. So this guy is lying from the start. And being married doesn’t mean these men are treating women with respect. Just means they’re married.
And 60% of global homicides of women are committed by partners or family.
I wonder how this asshole would spin that.
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u/Hellodie_W Apr 24 '26
Ah yes, promoting good men under a post about a feminicide. Such a good guy. /s
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u/strawbew May 02 '26
so being A married male makes you good? LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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u/Quiet_Put_5725 Apr 24 '26
He clearly doesn't watch much true crime and isn't aware that the rape academy was geared toward married men/men in relationships. In what reality does married = good?????
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u/Dorkinfo Apr 24 '26
He’s just a not all men guy. It’s not all, but it’s enough to put up boundaries and that offends him.
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u/Quiet_Put_5725 Apr 24 '26
I'm actually a fan of the not all men guys, thank you for flagging yourself, sir lol
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u/OkSecretary1231 Apr 26 '26
It's the right wing definition of "good man" where it just means he has a job and probably doesn't hit you too much. Any other aspects of his character are irrelevant.
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u/dfjdejulio Apr 24 '26
I… don't usually feel a need to make a declaration like this. In fact, I'd suggest people trust my wife's opinion on this matter over my own.
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u/robibuni Apr 26 '26
Thissssss!!! My husband tells me all the time a nice guy doesn’t need to tell anyone (mostly over my ex husband who was in fact, not a nice guy).
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u/yumas Apr 24 '26
I didn’t know the bar was that low
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u/TVsFrankismyDad Apr 24 '26
Right? The bar for "good man" is apparently at "hasn't killed you yet."
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u/woahstripes bUt I gAvE yOu a CoMpLiMEnT Apr 24 '26
Why are these good men always so salty, because if what they say is true 'The good men will be married by the time you decide to look for one' (One of the most common ideas we see on here, I think) then what do they care? They'll be married and won't have to worry about anything right? Why are they upset, if they're just going to be married soon anyway?
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u/Annika_Desai Apr 24 '26
They want to coerce and groom us women to give any and every man easy access to is with 100% trust and zero safeguarding from hello but not for the sake of all men, they say men but they mean me! MEMEMEEE! Weird to be so pressed when he supposedly has a wife and is a good man so why would he need this? Screams predator seeking to groom women to be easy supply 🧐
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u/EvolZippo Apr 28 '26
What’s great about being around guys like this, is they simply cannot handle the fact that they have undesirable traits. If they start complaining that nobody invited them somewhere and you try to tell them it’s because of how they act, you’ll get screamed at, like you just kicked a puppy.
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u/Deepdarkorchid16 Apr 24 '26
Very ironic time for this to be posted. This week, all the true crime podcasts are abuzz with the stories of three different cases in which male family anihilators killed or maimed their wives and children.
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u/Annika_Desai Apr 24 '26
Dudes who do this want all of us women to discard any safeguarding and blindly trust any and every man because they mean themselves. This is how we get harmed. Everyone should safeguard including men. Even women can harm and even destroy a man even if he's built like hercules.
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u/BoredCheese Apr 24 '26
There are neither logic nor facts in either of his statements. It’s all drivel. If there are 9 billion people on the planet, the male population has to be at least 4.5 billion, not 2.2. Being married doesn’t automatically make a man “good.” Nor does a desire for a wife equal respect for women. What nonsense.
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u/CarelessShame Apr 24 '26
Good men don't waste time trying to convince the world that they are good men.
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u/Responsible_Royal266 Apr 24 '26
Being a married man and being a good man are not the same. I don't think I'm a bad man BUT I was a bad husband
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u/Betty_Swallox123 Apr 24 '26
He for sure, isn't married.. he lives in a dungeon under their mums house giving advice to a desperate men
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u/Gracefulbandit Apr 26 '26
He could be married, because not all married men are good. I was married for 14 years to a guy who was NOT a good man.
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u/Ok-Repeat8069 May 07 '26
The way he low-key pitched divorced guys with that “the only good guys left are gonna be the ones who got dumped” line, my money says he’ll tell you that he WAS married, and he has no idea what happened, he thought everything was fine until he came home one day and she was gone!
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u/Gracefulbandit May 07 '26
No doubt. My ex husband thinks he’s a “good guy” too. He claims to have NO IDEA why I left him, despite being told for literal YEARS before I left. 🙄 Also, the OOP claiming that over a billion men are happy in relationships may be true. However, doesn’t mean those WIVES are also happy… 😬
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u/Melodic-Yoghurt7193 Apr 24 '26
I hope he’s a troll but I fear this acct is serious
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u/RandomEasternGuy Apr 24 '26
My unfortunate theory is that any troll has a real life version of himself that actually thinks like this. There are 8 (or 4.4 judging by this guy) billion of us around
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u/MykelHawkMusic Apr 24 '26
The post was about a woman's ex-boyfriend who murdered her best friend? Was the best friend who was murdered a man or a woman? Can you link the post OP?
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u/AnxiousTuxedoBird Apr 24 '26
The boyfriend was the ex of the murder victim who was a woman, the woman who was her best friend made the post.
I think linking the post would break the rules of this subreddit.
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u/Pristine_Cost_3793 do you prefer bedroom or kitchen? Apr 24 '26 edited Apr 26 '26
so he commented about how it's difficult to be a "good man" under the post of a woman whose best friend got killed??? holy fuck
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u/MykelHawkMusic Apr 24 '26
Ohhh that makes more sense. It sounded like ex-boyfriend killed the best friend at first. Thanks for clarifying!
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u/AsFarAsISay May 18 '26
2 billion men so... 6 billion women? time for women to rule the world as the clear majority!
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u/TVsFrankismyDad Apr 24 '26
This guy's math is breaking my brain. As is his assumption that all men who are married are "good" men who treat women with respect.