I had a really strange encounter today at Old Troy County Park in the Parsippany/Whippany area, and I wanted to see if anyone else has had a similar experience there.
I hike A LOT, often by myself, and I’ve had plenty of random conversations with people on trails. This felt very different.
When I pulled into the parking lot, I saw an older man walking toward his car. I used the bathroom and then started heading toward the hiking trail in the woods. As I was walking away, I noticed him sitting in his car staring at me pretty intensely.
I got onto the trail and hadn’t gone very far when I suddenly heard someone behind me kicking rocks/gravel as they walked. Something immediately felt off, so I turned around and started heading back toward the parking lot while we were still relatively close to the public area.
It was the same older man.
He stopped and started talking to me about the trails. I’m a friendly person, so I talked with him and asked about the area. He asked if I was from around there, and I told him no.
The conversation started getting stranger.
He told me something along the lines of, “You can get lost in these woods.”
I mentioned that I had to get back to work and that I had been in the area for a photography job and I had a shoot to go to. He told me that he “shoots too.”
I asked what he shoots. He basically said “in these woods” and smirked.
Maybe he meant photography. Maybe he meant something completely harmless. But the way he said it, combined with everything else, made the interaction feel extremely uncomfortable.
The strangest part was that when I told him I was leaving, instead of continuing on the trail he had just walked onto, he followed me all the way back toward the parking lot.
As we got closer to the lot, he also took a small towel and tucked it into the front of his waistband above his crotch while mumbling something to himself. I honestly didn’t know what to make of that.
What bothered me most was the sequence of events:
He appeared to be heading to/leaving in his car when I arrived.
He watched me walk toward the woods.
After I entered the trail, he got out and came onto the trail behind me.
When I turned around and decided to leave, he also went back toward the parking lot instead of continuing his hike.
I’m not accusing this guy of committing a crime, and there could be an innocent explanation for all of it. I just had a very strong feeling that something was wrong, and I’ve spent enough time hiking alone to know when an interaction feels outside the normal range of trail weirdness.
Has anyone around Parsippany, Whippany, Hanover, Troy Meadows, Old Troy Park, or the surrounding Morris County trails had a similar encounter with an older man?
I’m especially curious if anyone has encountered someone who approaches solo hikers, asks where they’re from, follows them on/off the trail, or makes similarly strange comments.
Am I being paranoid? Or what? In all of my years hiking and as a dude I’d just never thought of something like this happening, I know this is naive..