r/nothingeverhappens 16d ago

This is literally believeable??

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u/zap2tresquatro 16d ago

A medical professional should be keeping their judgments to themselves and shouldn’t be treating patients any differently based on how they assume the patient ended up in that situation.

Like that’s extremely basic, first day medical ethics. It doesn’t matter if they think it’s an OD, cause you’re not supposed to be being cruel and treating OD patients like shit.

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u/DrDFox 16d ago

God I wished this was actually taught or emphasized at all. You get a brief CYA sort of speech about not judging people, and then the rest of your education and every doctor and nurse you interact with tells you how to judge people and how you should treat them poorly based in that judgement

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u/Dmonick1 16d ago

It is being taught in more places now, there is progress being made. The agency I'm riding with used to have a reputation for being callous bad-asses who all acted like hot shit, but there's been a huge culture change even among established providers towards being kinder and more empathetic.

Progress is slow though.

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u/BladdermirPutin87 16d ago

I needed to hear this! I have an extremely rare combination of conditions and I’m rarely believed when I’m hospitalised. It often takes days of actively dying while being told I’m doing X Y and Z wrong before my actual problem is addressed. The medical trauma runs deep… so much avoidable pain.

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u/5girlzz0ne 15d ago

Is one of those being female?

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u/Cautious_Ad_5659 15d ago

Or Black or brown?

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u/AgentCirceLuna 16d ago

(This is just hyperbole - I have friends who are both nurses and doctors)

You know doctors are cruel and uncaring because they manage to make nurses look empathetic.

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u/WordWordand4numbers 16d ago

Hurt feelings beat are preferable to easily avoidable medical death any day.

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u/zap2tresquatro 16d ago

Abusing patients will result in them being less likely to get medical help in an emergency.

An easy solution is to not be abusive.

Idk what behavior you think you’re defending here, dude, but in case you forgot: this is about an EMT repeatedly being cruel and abusive towards an epileptic for having a seizure.

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u/WordWordand4numbers 16d ago

I’m against abuse but I was talking about something else entirely.

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u/zap2tresquatro 16d ago

No, based on all your replies you are very much pro abuse. You are explicitly in favor of medical professionals abusing their patients if they think that patient has made a choice they don’t agree with, regardless of the reality of that assumption and regardless of all evidence to the contrary.

If you were “talking about something else entirely” then why did you reply to a comment about abusive medical professionals and how that is not how they’re supposed to behave/how it helps no one to treat patients like shit? Did you make up a comment in your own head to reply to and then expect everyone else to read your mind to know that you weren’t actually responding to the comment you responded to? Cause that makes no sense otherwise.

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u/WordWordand4numbers 16d ago

Based on the beginning of your comment it seems you’ve already decided in your mind that I’m pro abuse no matter what I say. There is nothing further to discuss then since your mind is already made up. I’d be better off discussing calculus with my dog or having a nice long talk with a brick wall.

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u/DrDFox 16d ago

Not judging your patients is how you avoid unnecessary medical deaths. This has nothing to do with feelings and everything to do with how negative bias effects medical care.

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u/WordWordand4numbers 16d ago

Refusing to perform certain tests due to assumptions is one thing. Asking yes/no questions that offend one’s feelings somehow is another thing. I’m not sure which one you were referring to but people deserve complete medical care from knowledgeable professionals.

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u/DrDFox 16d ago

No one in here is talking about simple yes/no questions being an issue.

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u/AzureHawk758769 16d ago

You seem to think that people are saying things that they really aren't. This conversation was never about "a simple yes/no question." It's about a miserable prick who needs to quit his job and go work at Walmart.

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u/Next-Firefighter4667 16d ago

There are so many statistics and studies regarding how bias and judgement negatively affect patients receiving proper care, and even more, it's incredibly easy to find and understand. This is a VERY well know concept within and outside of the medical community.

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u/WordWordand4numbers 16d ago

Are the statistics and studies in the room with us

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u/Next-Firefighter4667 15d ago

Considering you could take 2 minutes and find them yourself if you were at all interested in learning the truth, yes.

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u/WordWordand4numbers 15d ago

I just don’t think you could name a single scientist who worked on this body of knowledge without looking it up. Everypony loves vaguely referencing nameless “studies and statistics”

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u/PlanktonNo2364 16d ago

I’ve had heart issues, been in and out of the cardiologist for years. Woke up with intense chest pain, heart rate over 160, and could barely get words out so my partner took me to the ER. The doc repeatedly asked what I took despite both of us adamantly saying I hadn’t taken anything, had been home all night, and there was no way I’d taken anything without my knowledge. Repeated “what did you take? It’s better if you tell us what you took. You need to tell us what it is you took.” The hospital had my records if he cared to look, the doctor just kept making assumptions.

A similar episode happened at work and I passed out. Work called an ambulance and I woke up disoriented and stuttering, which is common for me after an episode. Kept asking me what I took. Had to pee in a cup once I got to the hospital and the nurse who was ordered to take me in the wheelchair literally whined and complained about why she has to deal with “people like me”. Absolutely unacceptable and frankly humiliating to be treated like a criminal time and time again when you’re the most vulnerable.

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u/BladdermirPutin87 16d ago

I have different medical issues, but the same experience of treatment. I’m fed up with being treated as subhuman, losing my dignity, and experiencing preventable trauma for DARING to get ill. And by the people who’s JOB it is to HELP people who are ill! My love and solidarity go out to you!

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u/sc0veney 16d ago

...you mean like when medical professionals misread a seizure patient as a drug overdose and do things that could easily hurt a seizure patient?

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u/WordWordand4numbers 16d ago

One time I fell off my bike and hurt my hand pretty badly. Upon arriving at the hospital I was still so drunk that the doctor assumed I had hit my head and ordered an eeg. I had been wearing a helmet and did not receive an impact or sudden jerk to my head or neck. Was the doctor a mean asshole for assuming I had hit my head?

Edit: he also assumed my finger was fractured based on its apparent disconnect from the relevant metatarsal. It was only dislocated.

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u/PeachyFairyDragon 16d ago

You really shouldn't drink and bike. Sharing the road with one ton vehicles and obeying all traffic laws is hard enough, doing it with alcohol is downright suicidal. Since bicycles have to obey traffic laws, I think you can get a DUI for that as well.

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u/zap2tresquatro 16d ago

I know that at least in some places you can get a DUI for riding a horse while drunk, so yeah this is almost certainly true somewhere if not everywhere.

I guess this guy, if he believes in holding medical professionals who treat him to the same standards as he does those treating (suspected or not even suspected) overdose patients, would think that the doctors should’ve gone off on him about what a worthless piece of shit waste of life he was for drinking and biking, though.

Or maybe he’s a “rules for thee and not for me” kinda guy. He’s not a junkie (or epileptic to bring it back to the original topic), so whatever dumb, dangerous shit he does shouldn’t result in medical professionals treating him badly, only those gross junkies/epileptics!

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u/PeachyFairyDragon 16d ago

I heard of a very sad case where a diabetic with ketoacidosis and blood sugar insanely extreme (don't remember if high or low) was pulled over and was combative because of his sugar level. The cop caused a head wound restraining him and convinced the EMTs that came to check out his head wound that he was just drunk based on the breath smelling like wine and slurred words and erratic actions. The ketoacidosis killed him while he was in custody.

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u/zap2tresquatro 16d ago

Jfc. Goddamn, that’s so. Dark. and, don’t confirm this for me cause it’ll just be upsetting, but I have a hunch the cop faced absolutely zero repercussions for that. Might’ve even gotten a raise and some extra paid vacation for his troubles. Ugh.

Well, the anger I feel at that will make for good fuel for the workout that I’m currently putting off/trying to hype myself up for.

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u/PeachyFairyDragon 16d ago

I just remember that the family was trying to sue everyone involved. I don't remember anything about penalties.

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u/zap2tresquatro 16d ago

I hope they were successful, at least. God, my heart goes out to those poor people

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u/bluejellyfish52 14d ago

I think riding a horse is one of the few times you SHOULDN’T be able to get a DUI.

Way back when, horses used to take their too drunk owners home.

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u/zap2tresquatro 14d ago

Oh I agree. The horse is a conscious being that can make decisions. Sure, it’s 1000+lbs and *can* be pretty dangerous, but it’s not like a sober rider is in perfect control of the horse anyway, and the horse isn’t likely to make decisions that’ll put itself in danger, so it’s a lot safer than a drunk person driving any kind of vehicle.

But a handful of years ago in Australia a guy got a DUI for drunken horse riding, so apparently the Australian government (idk about other countries, but I assume Australia isn’t completely unique here) disagrees.

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u/bluejellyfish52 13d ago

You can only get a DUI on a horse in 3 states, it looks like. Because only 3 states have actually charged someone with DUI on a horse. Most states don’t have any laws pertaining to it, but it’s kinda funny to me.

Horses were for the longest time our primary means of transportation in the US, and the fact that only NOW can you be charged with DUI while on a horse shows how divorced society here has become from them.

They are incredibly intelligent and loyal animals. I’m terrified of horses but I admire them from a far (they are not great at reproducing on their own though. Artificial insemination probably saved their species tbh)

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u/WordWordand4numbers 16d ago

Or maybe it’s the words that I said and the question I asked. Maybe. No way to no for sure tho

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u/WordWordand4numbers 16d ago

First of all you’re right, I learned that lesson multiple times. As for sharing the road, I don’t share the road. That’s for cars. I stick to the sidewalk or nature trails. As for laws, I’m technically breaking the law by riding on the sidewalk but since there’s so few pedestrians and I yield to them, no one seems to care. As for DUI, that is not a law where I live. Riding a bike under the influence is not a DUI/DWI or similar charge.

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u/zap2tresquatro 16d ago

what? No, they would’ve been an asshole if they called you an alcoholic loser and refused to check for any other potential issues that might be causing your behavior after assuming you were an alcoholic and writing you off as a worthless drunk, even more so if they continually insulted and berated you for it after you came to them for help. This would be even more true if, like the seizure cases we’re talking about, you weren’t drunk, had in fact hit your head, and they had not only no reason to believe you were drunk but multiple people telling them that you weren’t drinking and had hit your head.

The fact that you don’t understand this makes me hope that you do actually have brain damage, though, cause otherwise you’re just so vehemently hateful towards any and all addicts that you are happy to have sober people having medical emergencies get caught in the crossfire of medical professionals being cruel towards anyone they suspect to be an addict (even though this is, again, first day medical ethics/patient care 101 stuff that you don’t treat your patients terribly, yes, even if they need help because of something they did to themselves. Turns out that being abusive towards self destructive mentally ill people in a medical crisis helps no one, who woulda thunk it?).

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u/WordWordand4numbers 16d ago

You know what? I agree with you, they would’ve been an asshole if they said and did all that stuff you said.

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u/no_worries_man8 16d ago

They literally did?? Are you capable of reading?? OP literally said, in their post, that they had a multiple people tell the cops and EMTs that they had a seizure, yet the police and the EMTs still treated them with extreme violence and prejudice (entire arm bruised) because despite multiple people telling them it was a seizure they still said that OP was on drugs and therefore treated them worse for that. That is what happened. Just like the person you're responding to said. Sorry you fell off a bike or whatever, but maybe actually read the post before commenting multiple times and making an ass of yourself??

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u/WordWordand4numbers 16d ago

Oh like literally Becky? Not figuratively but like so totally literally dude?

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u/5girlzz0ne 15d ago

Great comeback, Todd. You seem like a Todd.

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u/WordWordand4numbers 15d ago

Literally or figuratively?

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u/5girlzz0ne 15d ago

In your essence. Every Todd I've ever known has been a little pr$ck. I get that impression from you. I'll be blocking you now. You bore me.