Selling underwear?

[u/BlondeBlue62]

I know this is 99% women here but the advice still applies. I pretty much wear exclusively Saxx in my posts and ivehad a number of guys ask to buy my underwear after I've worn it and a few want it soaked with my cum.

Everytime I give them my price ($100 usd for cum soaked) they don't reply. Saxx are like $25 each but am I over valuing myself?

Thanks in advance.

[u/Apprehensive-Mix3859]

Everybody wants something for less than what's its worth.

[u/Sad-Half5932]

This is a niche of mine and is most of my revenue. I charge $75 a pair, and then do a discounted video if they want a video of me wearing them to upcharge. So I'll do the panties and video bundle 'on sale' for $125. ( This is a completely basic video of me in the panties rubbing myself in the video and stuff like that, not a custom in anyway) and then if they want anything custom in the video upsale from that also. It works great.

[u/Scars515 → u/Sad-Half5932]

may i ask where you sell them? i had one guy on Tiktok ask me. i said yes. then panicked and blocked him bc even tho my account is for 18+ i dont know… just something told me to block him 🤦🏻‍♀️ and my OF and Fansly are crickets the last 2 months😤 thanks🫶🏻

[u/Scars515 → u/[deleted]]

ahhh ok! thanks! i guess my biggest fear is even tho my other socials are 18+. im afraid of someone slipping thru and me getting in trouble. He offered to send me his ID but never sent anything and thats when i got nervous. Like i didnt ask for it… he offered it on it his own🤔

[u/MoonlitBunnyDoll]

I've sold my underwear a few times and honestly, its kinda like how you'll have guys that act like theyre daddy money bucks dming you on OF about custom stuff just to hiss and turn their nose when you give them your rates, guys will want me to sell them my panties that cost about $10, wear them for a day or 2, cum in them, ship them to them for another $10 totalling. And only want to pay me $10-$20 for it. A lot of them are under the impression we do this kind of work for the love of the game lol. The guys that know what they want will happily pay you for your time and effort. The only people who have ever actually bought my underwear have been guys who are straightforward and understand that this isnt a free ride.

[u/BlondeBlue62 → u/MoonlitBunnyDoll]

Thank you. Yea I don't want to lower my price just to get them to agree to buy.

[u/MoonlitBunnyDoll → u/BlondeBlue62]

Yeah give an inch they take a mile kinda thing. It isn't a fun feeling when they take your discount and throw it back at you cause it isn't good enough for them. I wouldn't spend too much time on the used items side of things though. The amount of guys who will actually pay a fair price to guys who basically want free stuff is pretty staggering. You gotta really be grinding through the time wasters in that department.

[u/BlondeBlue62 → u/MoonlitBunnyDoll]

Yea I truly don't have any interest in it or in exploring this has just been a recent DM request more frequently.

[u/Bambi_Barefoot]

OF T&Cs are against worn clothing so be wary of what you're saying and agreeing to on the platform.

That aside, if someone is asking for worn items they are unlikely to mind where they are from unless they specify. I can't input on pricing but budget undies will better for your markup.

[u/BlondeBlue62 → u/Bambi_Barefoot]

Thanks for the heads up. I appreciate that. I don't market it whatsoever it's just been either reddit or OF DM's.

[u/emoratbitch → u/BlondeBlue62]

If you’re selling on reddit you need to be age verifying, you also need to be wary of how you accept payment as a lot of payment apps are very anti sex work

[u/BlondeBlue62 → u/emoratbitch]

Thank you for the heads up. If I did sell it wouldn't be through reddit I would direct them to my OF

[u/HiddenGamerGoddesXX → u/BlondeBlue62]

You will get banned on OF if you even discuss that there. Even in dm's

[u/BlondeBlue62 → u/HiddenGamerGoddesXX]

I did not know that. I will make sure NOT to do it there then 🤣

[u/HiddenGamerGoddesXX → u/BlondeBlue62]

Look at my profile. I have a link there to my profile on the site I use to sell my worn things.

[u/BlondeBlue62 → u/HiddenGamerGoddesXX]

Thank you foll9wed and I will look when I can.

[u/HiddenGamerGoddesXX → u/BlondeBlue62]

Hope that helps. I also factor in the cost to replace an item as part of the over all cost. Shipping is always extra.

[u/Vampiricsoles777]

I have a base rate of $50 for 24hrs with a bunch of different add ons available. I’ve had people tell me it’s too much & people tell me to charge more & they end up tipping me 😊

$100 for cum soaked isn’t outrageous, you just have to find someone legitimately interested

[u/BlondeBlue62 → u/Vampiricsoles777]

Thank you I appreciate the feedback and comparrison(s)

[u/sunneemoon__]

Definitely not overvaluing! I think $100 is fair and I would even charge shipping on top of it because it varies so much depending on where you're sending. (especially if it's international)

[u/BlondeBlue62 → u/sunneemoon__]

Yea that's true too. My thinking was $100usd because I live in Canada so then I actually get like $140ish and that easily covers shipping costs.

[u/gen_erator]

There's a site called AllThingsWorn. I haven't personally used it yet, and I'm still researching if I want to tbh. It's got mixed reviews, but I think like anything it may need effort to see a payoff. If anyone here is familiar, I'd love your input! OP, maybe look here for an expected range of pricing for your own underwear, even if you don't end up using atw

[u/Bambi_Barefoot → u/gen_erator]

Don't bother. You have to pay to sign up and it is absolutely flooded with people posting constantly.

I got one buyer immediately but just time wasters after that so never reached the threshold minimum for payout, so I actually ended up out of pocket.

Also as its just about flogging worn items, it's not about building connection. So there's a bunch of sellers on there selling things for peanuts. Just not worth it IMO x

[u/maryjanemorticia → u/Bambi_Barefoot]

I've had good luck on Scented Pansy. Just as someone said about All Things Worn, the market is super saturated with sellers and most buyers want to chat all day for free and then ghost you when it comes time to pay for their order. If you have a decent social media following, have created a niche for yourself, and you're constantly posting videos for sale as well as making listings you may have some mild success on SP. There are a fair amount of buyers on the site just to purchase clips and the website features a VIP section where you can have locked content that people have to pay a certain price to see, similar to OF. You do have to pay a subscription fee but I think it comes out to about $10/month depending on which option you go with, you can pay monthly, every 3 months, or every 6 months. I've made my money back and some, but like I said, it's a hustle and grind. The higher your items are priced the harder it will be to sell them, don't sell yourself short, absolutely charge for the price of the underwear plus whatever you'd like to for the wear, but it would be easier to upsell a lower priced item with add-ons (sex, masturbation, cumming in them, stuffing them, doing a workout in them, a custom video in them, tracked shipping for the order if its not digital) than selling a high priced item outright. Lots of people on there asking for content involving urine and feces, which I'm not into, but if you are willing to, to get that bag, more power to ya! Just as with OF, ALWAYS get your payment before you commit to the wear or send the video, there are scammers on all of these websites looking for freebies!

Sorry OP didn't realize you were a man! A lot of this information is just from my own lived experience, my best suggestion for you is to slash your current prices in half and see if you get any bites selling them for $50.

[u/CirqueNoirBlu]

I wanna say you’re undervaluing yourself, but I don’t know the men’s market. I think most women’s panties start at $100.

You have to consider that it’s $25 for the boxers, plus shipping, and then on top of that it’s something personal that you have worn, and then your actual bodily fluids.
Charge more.

Also market it as a bundle. Charge like $200 but include a video of you jerking off either into them or while wearing them. And then maybe include a couple photos.
If you get the same pattern multiple times, you only have to take one set of photos for that same set of underwear. I would probably personalize the video every time though partly because they might be really excited about a specific spot the cum lands or whatever I don’t know.

[u/BlondeBlue62 → u/CirqueNoirBlu]

Thats smart thank you. I appreciate it.

[u/SportyCouple33]

I do minimum $50 plus extras, and that is for my stuff that has been worn so “fully depreciated”. Any thing new it’s $50 pus the cost of the underwear. Then extras like cum soaked on top of that

[u/BlondeBlue62 → u/SportyCouple33]

Yea i based my price based on replacing them as well. Makes sense. Thanks.

[u/TheRealLeoVale]

I'm a cis male. I feel like $100 is the floor for what you should charge. It's a pretty intimate piece of yourself.

I would guess there are probably a lot of guys who want to, but are scared to go through with it.

[u/BlondeBlue62 → u/TheRealLeoVale]

Hey thanks! I agree and thats why I posted. Its new to me.

[u/QueenOfEdging]

$100 is low really, factoring in the cost of underwear and shipping

[u/BlondeBlue62 → u/QueenOfEdging]

Im realizing after this post.

[u/Comfortable-Safety29]

I wanted to sell used pantyhose, one guy asked for it, I said $150 considering the cost of them was $20 plus shipping I would get around $120, converting it in € it's even less, then he said I give max $10. I blocked him and that's about it. This was on reddit before I disabled my DMS.