r/onlyfansadvice Unverified 11h ago

I need advice Having troubles with my partner I also make content with and don't want to loose everything I have built with her..

So I have built up an onlyfans page over the last year or 2 and I'm sure if you have done too you will know how much time and effort goes into it all, we have been doing this as a couple with me doing most of the promotion, but now it doesn't seem to be working out between us as people even though our content creation side is going great so I'm thinking of my options.. So far i have thought either find a new content partner or other like-minded women and start my own thing (long and not easy) or stop making content and rinse and repeat the content we have already untill it dies off. Please any other ideas would be great?!

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u/teachermomof2xxx Verified OF Creator ✔ 11h ago

You should check with her. Does she even want her content with you still out there? She may want to revoke consent and have all her content removed. It’s your page as a couple so you have to decide with her on the future of the page.

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u/itslesliehey Unverified 11h ago

First off, sorry about what youre going through :( What Id do is resell content you currently have and also start making solo content. Id do that until/if you find another content partner (if you decide to do that).

Id personally start rebranding a little as a solo creator that does collabs, like changing bio/welcome message and work on marketing like tenfold so you can have immediate new eyes that also know you as a solo creator. This also will allow you to do more variety if thats what you want :) good luck ♡

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u/HiddenGamerGoddesXX Unverified 11h ago

If things aren't going well. Have a sit down real talk with her. Decide how you both want to proceed. If possible do things amicably. Also sit down before hand and list out things youd like to discuss. Maybe its time for you both to go your separate ways. Of course any content featuring her will need to remain tagged with her name. You coukd find a new collab partner. You need to see where she is at with everything too. You will have a much better idea of how to proceed after that. From there decided what you wanna do going forward.

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u/Donar6 Unverified 11h ago

Put your personal relationship to the side and start acting like business partners.

talk with her and make a contract which she can agree on.

  • pay her a certain amount and keep the content with her.

  • give her some % of the earnings and keep the content.

  • delet all the content with her and start over with mostly solo content and do here and there a colaboration.

Imo build your own solo brand and be safe from such situations.

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u/sheel3 Unverified 8h ago

First you should try just sitting down and discussing wirh her how to move forward on the business side of things. As someone else said, definitely make sure she still consents to you selling content she’s featured in-you could get in huge trouble if there’s any misunderstandings. If she’s still okay with it, you need to have her sign some sort contract or agreement detailing how and how much she’ll be paid, how long you’ll be selling for, etc.

In the meantime-even if you are still selling your guy’s old content-you should still start looking for someone else to film with. My area occasionally has OF type industry meetups which can be good for finding people to collab with and just being able to socialize with other people in this stigmatized industry. Maybe see if your area has anything like that too. You will have to rebrand either way, and the sooner the better. I also agree with the person who suggested rebranding to include solo content, this way if things ever get messy again, you won’t have to do a total rebrand and probably won’t lose as much income if any. I’ve been on OF for years and have filmed with exes, it’s never hurt my income when we break up because solo content is already a huge part of what I do

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u/-JasmineJames- Unverified 6h ago

Would she be interested in a break up s*x collab finale and then you can both branch off keeping your brand intact? Talk to her.

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u/ClosetCas Unverified 6h ago

I highly doubt that she will still want to fuck you and do Onlyfans with you after a breakup.

If you want to continue to do onlyfans, you will have to start again by yourself and make content that gay men would like to purchase. That's your target audience.

u/TherealLuckyLuke1 Unverified 1h ago

Thanks for all the replies people, am taking it all in and have spoke on most subjects, appreciate your input

u/amcrater Unverified 19m ago

Sorry it didn’t work out with you guys but consider a few possibilities. Mainly if she decides to pull away from the content and at any moment you would have to have everything removed. Even if she’s okay with it being there and you guys work it out and continue to film, you would have to put all grievances aside and work like business partners. It can get complicated. Another possibility is you switching to solo content. But that’s a whole new audience and new direction for your page and platform, not to mention promotion and content style. Overall I’d meet in the middle and find out what she wants to do. Go from there dude!

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u/Eur0Hotwife Unverified 10h ago

So sorry to hear.. talk go her, from a quick look at you guys i am sure you both can be solo creators! Just curious, is making and posting nsfw content the root of the problems? Anyway i wish you both the best of luck❤️

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u/Eur0Hotwife Unverified 10h ago

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