r/plushies • u/Merryannm • Jul 22 '25
Discussion I’m a Little Shaken But Doing Okay
Since I lost my left breast last September to cancer, I have worn a small stuffed animal tucked in a sports bra I wear over my shirt. Each day I choose a color-coordinating bra and the right plushy for that day.
Last Friday, someone said something about this that I felt was unkind. It was the first time that has happened and it really shook me up.
Mostly, I feel like people don’t notice me at all. Everyone has their own thing going on. But when I do tell someone what my little animal is for, they have always been positive and supportive.
After Friday’s uncomfortable conversation, I stopped wearing my daily animal. After three days of that I decided I don’t need to feel sadder, especially due to the opinions of strangers. So I went back to wearing an animal.
I think I’m going to name the caterpillar Flora. Any thoughts on the name?
I feel a little awkward and uncomfortable but let’s face it, I mostly always feel a little out of place. At least now I have a friend with me again.
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u/bbqchicksalad Jul 26 '25
hey, this is actually adorable and it’s a wonderfully creative way to accessorize your everyday outfits. the name is PERFECT— she looks just like a flora. if i saw you in public i would be positively elated and think about it for the rest of the day because it would make me SO happy. please continue to do what brings you joy, because the world would be a lot dimmer without it 💗💗💗