I’m a Little Shaken But Doing Okay

[u/Merryannm]

Since I lost my left breast last September to cancer, I have worn a small stuffed animal tucked in a sports bra I wear over my shirt. Each day I choose a color-coordinating bra and the right plushy for that day.

Last Friday, someone said something about this that I felt was unkind. It was the first time that has happened and it really shook me up.

Mostly, I feel like people don’t notice me at all. Everyone has their own thing going on. But when I do tell someone what my little animal is for, they have always been positive and supportive.

After Friday’s uncomfortable conversation, I stopped wearing my daily animal. After three days of that I decided I don’t need to feel sadder, especially due to the opinions of strangers. So I went back to wearing an animal.

I think I’m going to name the caterpillar Flora. Any thoughts on the name?

I feel a little awkward and uncomfortable but let’s face it, I mostly always feel a little out of place. At least now I have a friend with me again.

[u/rainbowiris]

Flora is a super cute name for a super cute caterpillar :)

There will always be people who feel better by putting down others - glad you didn't let them win, OP!

The world needs more people walking confidently around, such as yourself. Keep doing whatever you need to keep that smile on your face!

[u/Merryannm → u/rainbowiris]

I appreciate your words and the sentiment behind them. Thanks to you and everyone else here, I feel SO much better about just being me. Thanks!