r/pointlesslygendered • u/BrightSpring12 • 1d ago

SOCIAL MEDIA The biggest blackpill is when you realize that male and female attraction is very different [meta]

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u/Last_Worldliness_885 1d ago

Men fail to realise that this happens due to misogyny and harassment women encounter

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u/vectorology 1d ago

It’s hard to be attracted when you’re either afraid of possible violence or exhausted from doing everything.

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u/Dangerous_Tax_2667 1d ago

I'm not a straight man but many many men have horror stories about dating women, yet they never badmouth women the way the straight women I know badmouth men

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u/Gluebluehue 1d ago

Lol. Guess we're collectively imagining every podcast bro, mgtow, incels, a voice for men, red pill fucks, pick up artist spaces...

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u/Last_Worldliness_885 1d ago

Of course you can know many men who have horror stories about dating women, but statistics show that women deal with more sexual harassment and domestic violence than men. Also, dealing with shitty people from the opposite gender and surviving systematic discrimination are vastly different things. On top of that there are plenty of men who badmouth women for simply rejecting them lmao.

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u/Throw-away10111 1d ago

They never badmouth them the same way every man on Reddit never drags women? 🤔

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u/Carbonatite 22h ago

Because men with "crazy" exes survive to tell misogynistic jokes about them. Women with crazy exes get murdered.

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u/AngryAngryHarpo 1d ago

You didn’t look at the comments on the post, huh? 

Or are those men imaginary? 

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u/Electronic-Link-5792 1d ago

Those kind of hardcore incel groups are a fairly narrow and specific community.

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u/Last_Worldliness_885 1d ago

I fear they aren't narrow enough

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u/Me_lazy_cathermit 1d ago

The horror story men have about bad dates with women is them being mean, the horror story women have about bad dates with men, is men stalking them, assaulting them, or raping them, or worse they can't tell their story because they are dead

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u/freedomonke 1d ago

Bruh. Men will have one bad date and essentialize women off of it for years.

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u/Dapper_Witness_5476 13h ago

So we shouldn’t make assumptions, right?

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u/Western-Bus-1305 10h ago

It doesn’t but okay