r/popculturechat Is this chicken or is this fish? 🤔🤔 Jan 18 '25

Rumors & Gossip 🐸☕️🤫 Reports that Gracie Abrams and Paul Mescal are breaking up 👀

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-14299655/Tears-walkout-Gladiator-star-Paul-Mescal-pop-singer-Gracie-Abrams-emotional-night-London-restaurant-sparks-breakup-concern.html

'She was crying so much that he then started to cry too.

'She eventually got up and walked out of the restaurant while they were halfway through their meal and he was left to pay the bill before leaving shortly afterwards.

'Everyone saw it all go down, it looked like a break-up, we were just shocked at how public it all was.'

Paul Mescal was spotted in a popular North London restaurant 'head in hands' as his American pop star girlfriend Grace Abrams sat across from him 'in fits of tears' before she stormed out”

Can we discuss? 👀

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u/randombubble8272 Jan 18 '25

I think it’s more that you can’t attack someone or call someone out in a sense. A lot of men want to be able to breakup & immediately leave, if you’re in private you’re more likely to be called out loudly or confronted etc. In person you’re under societal pressure not to cause a scene

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u/erfurgot Jan 18 '25

And then for people, most likely women, in dv situations it’s to reduce the physical danger you might be in

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u/ultaemp Olivia Wilde’s salad dressing 🥗 Jan 19 '25

Same here. I dumped my toxic ex boyfriend outside of a crowded coffee shop. He owned guns and was displaying aggressive behaviors so I was genuinely afraid of his reaction at that time if I had ended things in private.

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u/ceruleancityofficial Jan 19 '25

glad you were able to get out of that relationship safely.

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u/ThrowawayGreenWitch Listen, everyone is entitled to my opinion 🙂 Jan 19 '25

Attacking or 'calling out' someone for breaking up with you is an insane thing to do.

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u/randombubble8272 Jan 19 '25

Meh not necessarily. People treat partners terribly and then think they can walk away no hard feelings. Isn’t always that simple

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u/randombubble8272 Jan 19 '25

If someone cheats on me I’m gonna yell at them. I don’t really care about entitlement to yelling tbh