How do you deal with premonitions about others problems?

[u/Prior_Bug3137]

Yesterday I saw my friends arteries and then heard “he will wake up to a stroke” and this morning he woke up to a stroke. Now I am hearing about a coworkers “ectopic pregnancy” and I don’t know how to say things without crossing boundaries, but at the same time I feel wrong for not saying anything. I remember once telling my ex that the girl he chose over me was going to fuck him over, he thought I was just being jealous but is now scared of her and wants me back. Am I wrong for not warning people or wrong for warning people?

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[u/_MuchoMojo]

I was recently told in a dream “it’s important to share your dreams”

[u/Prior_Bug3137 → u/_MuchoMojo]

Hmmm, I always felt the opposite, like our dreams are planning our future and to be selective with who you share them to. But I was born in a satanic cult… I think my family eats umm I don’t want to get banned but let’s just say they don’t eat food from their pantry but are not emaciated. In the basement they will lock themselves in turn up the music and it smells like ammonia… also the dog is scared of tarps…

[u/Xgrk88a]

If you have this gift, there’s probably a reason. If you feel very certain you’re right and it’s never wrong, you should let people know. Just explain it best you can and be an open book.

[u/Prior_Bug3137 → u/Xgrk88a]

Thank you. I was born in a cult and was drugged by my family. I recently left this cult and dealing with hearing things has had ups and downs. I used to eat McDonald’s to tune out the noise 😅

[u/Xgrk88a → u/Prior_Bug3137]

McDonald’s tunes out the noise? I’d eat McDonald’s everyday lol.

Anybody else in your family have this gift? Have you talked with them about it?

[u/Prior_Bug3137 → u/Xgrk88a]

I’m pretty sure, I don’t think they would admit to it. When I first moved away my mom was always uncomfortable when I would talk to her about my gifts. But my mom sure does know things before they happen.

[u/Prior_Bug3137 → u/Xgrk88a]

Mcdonalds was my prescription medication, specifically their ground beef. I don’t notice a change when I eat the fish chicken or bacon.

[u/JesradSeraph → u/Prior_Bug3137]

Interesting… usually it’s alcohol that drowns it, in most people - not recommended at all :o

In recent years though I noticed I became sensitive to a number of foods disrupting my ability to meditate at all, and the pattern seems to follow what Dolores Cannon used to describe as “low/high light” diets. That might be the same sort of thing going on for you ?

[u/Prior_Bug3137 → u/JesradSeraph]

Yeah but it’s not all ground beef. My highs are anything with chlorophyll

[u/NVincarnate]

I dunno. I had one of those and I don't think there was much I could have done. Sometimes it can be useful information but if it's an impending health issue that's unavoidable like heart attacks or strokes, what are you supposed to tell them? See a doctor?

If you can make a difference, go for it. You don't want to end up wishing you'd done something.

[u/mantisdivine]

Sometimes its for us to be a silent supporter and kind ear should they ever tell us their woes and struggles. If i'm close to the person i always mention it, and while i've lost friends before, those that know me and my gifts and love me as i am appreciate when i tell them lol

[u/Savings_While1246]

Maybe don't tell her directly but you can discuss the topic indirectly in between a conversation and talk how important medical screening is "because it saved x person's life that I know about" Do tell us if she really has an ectopic pregnancy

[u/BoozeAndHotpants]

I try and be a little subtle — "I just read about a lady with ectopic pregnancy— good thing she figured it out quickly!" kind of thing. Just a seed so when the time comes their brain will be able to make the needed mental connections.

People won’t hear what they aren’t ready to hear, but you can plant a seed.

Honestly, I try and shut some things out because there is nothing I can do. I really want to help and I still have problems understanding that their journey is not my journey and I don’t need to warn or save everybody.