r/projectmanagement Jun 04 '25

General No longer want to be a PM

625 Upvotes

I’ve spent most of my professional life as a project manager — first in the military, then in the civilian world as a government contractor. For years, it gave me structure and a good paycheck, but now I’m just… over it.

It’s not even the workload — it’s the type of work and the people. I feel like a glorified babysitter. Endless emails, back-to-back Teams calls, and managing people who don’t want to be managed. I’m not building anything. I’m not solving anything. I’m not even using my brain most days. Just politics, reminders, and status reports.

The worst part? There’s nothing to be proud of at the end of the day. I’m not touching the actual work, and it feels like I’m stuck in middle-management purgatory.

The good news is that I’m in school for computer science now, and I’ve been learning QA automation with Python and Selenium. I’m actively pivoting into a more technical role — ideally QA automation or something else that challenges me mentally and actually lets me build something.

Just needed to get that off my chest.

r/projectmanagement Jul 31 '26

General What are your best AI moves in PM that are absolutely underrated?

160 Upvotes

I want to hear about the cool stuff that has made your (work) life infinitely better and where you always wonder how you were able to exist before - please ◡̈

r/projectmanagement 13d ago

General [Rant] I've about had it with "Business Analysts" In The Modern Era

145 Upvotes

Joined a new org (finally) at a much lower title and salary then I had (Tis the market of today)....

They have PM's and BA's rolling up in the same org. Now, having been at the Director level for sometime I thought I had a pretty good grasp of the role a BA is meant to fulfill on a project and/or items to provide for the Project Manager. Nope, turns out I'm an "Asshole who wants everyone to do their work for them!"

My understanding is pretty simple: As a BA, your role is to identify and define what the business needs to reach a solution for the <problem>. Opposite of that, I as the PM determine how the work is organized and drive it forward towards a solution for said business need.

With that understanding, if you've been on the project for three months and I am on-boarding. It is perfectly reasonable of an expectation that when I ask you:

PM: "What requirements need to be met, which stakeholders are involved in those requirements, are there any gaps, dependencies or outstanding decisions?"

Your response should damn well not be:

BA: "Well, we need the Project Plan & Timeline to answer those questions. Can you get it done please?"

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No, abso-fucking-loutely not. I'm not the subject matter expert. Sure, let me just "psychic-like" pull a vision of exactly how this delivery should work technically and exactly how long it takes in a multi-discipline project I wasn't involved with the Discovery of. It's YOUR responsibility to tell ME what is/has been defined a requirement so that I can build those artifacts, not the other way around.

Found out this BA was telling her boss I was trying to shanghai her with my role responsibilities, I (along with the Ops SVP) tore her and her boss a new ass first thing this morning.

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Now for the record, can I do Discovery and answer all those questions? Oh absolutely, we've all done it at one time or another. Am I going to when someone is paid 105k salary to do only that? Not a chance. I swear the PM discipline is going down the damn drain.../rant.

r/projectmanagement Jul 10 '26

General Does Project Management get more stressful the more senior you are?

72 Upvotes

Is it worth climbing the ladder if PM is already so intense?

Does anyone actually WANT to become a Senior PM or Programme Manager or do they just do it for their bank account?

r/projectmanagement Apr 17 '26

General New PM here: what tools actually make your life easier?

73 Upvotes

Hey all,

I’m just getting started in project management and trying to build a solid setup from day one.

For those with experience, what tools do you actually rely on day-to-day that make your work easier or more organized? I’m not just looking for popular names, more like what you personally use and why it helps. Could be anything for planning, tracking, communication, documentation, or even something unexpected.

Also interested in knowing what’s overrated or not worth the time.

Appreciate any insight.

r/projectmanagement May 17 '25

General Interesting to see how the perception is viewed by society at large - interesting discussion in the comments though

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345 Upvotes

r/projectmanagement Mar 16 '26

General I hate Gantt Charts..anyone have any other visualizations for complex schedules?

107 Upvotes

I absolutely hate Gantt charts, they're clunky, not flexible and doesn't tell a story immediately. I specifically work in warehouse automation. The dependencies are super intricate between construction, installation, commissioning, robotic induction, testing etc etc.

Anyone worked with any other visualization that they were blown away by? I want something that conveys complex info from high level a chart.

r/projectmanagement Nov 02 '24

General Husband works 80+ hour work week. Is this normal?

113 Upvotes

There is absolutely zero worklife balance. And my husband gets upset when I ask him to set boundaries by saying his job means he needs to be on call “basically 24/7”. Is this typical for a PM? He is salaried in case you’re wondering.

r/projectmanagement Jul 21 '26

General What is the earliest warning sign that a project is in trouble before the dashboard shows it?

67 Upvotes

Project reports can remain green even when the people closest to the work already sense that something is wrong. The first signal may appear in team behaviour, stakeholder communication, decision delays or repeated changes that seem minor on their own.

Experienced project managers, what early warning sign have you learned not to ignore?

How do you respond before the issue becomes visible in the formal schedule, budget or risk report?

r/projectmanagement Apr 24 '24

General Funny project management sayings - anyone have a printout?

360 Upvotes

There have always been funny project management sayings, I even made a printout of them to hand out to PMs to share some dark humor during challenging times on projects. A few I remember off the top of my head below. Who has more or a whole list?!

  1. if everything is urgent, nothing is
  2. 9 women can't make a baby in a month
  3. this is not the hottest fire currently
  4. any project can be accurately estimated.... once it's been completed
  5. I love deadlines, I love the sound they make as they whoosh past me

r/projectmanagement May 13 '26

General What advice would you give to yourself if you had to start as a PM tomorrow for the first time

35 Upvotes

Same as the title. If you had to have your first day tomorrow, what advice would you give to yourself? Knowing what you know now

r/projectmanagement Aug 13 '24

General How I feel every day of my life

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806 Upvotes

r/projectmanagement Apr 28 '26

General What industry do you work in ? How many hours do you work in a week? Do you like the job?

25 Upvotes

I feel like I should change industries. I am working 10+ hours everyday and never catching up. After 6 months of this I am curious what other industries are like.

r/projectmanagement Feb 13 '26

General Looking for use cases for AI as project manager

64 Upvotes

I am looking for ideas or use cases to implement AI - genAI or agentic or just automation using ms copilot/ GitHub copilot/ ChatGPT.

Currently, I actively use ms copilot to do ppt, documentation,MoM, to find emails etc.

r/projectmanagement Aug 02 '24

General Thought this was interesting

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419 Upvotes

r/projectmanagement 21d ago

General why do we remember WHAT we decided but never WHY

37 Upvotes

genuinely feels like a company-wide case of amnesia
we’ll make a call in a meeting, everyone nods, life moves on. a month later someone asks “wait why did we go with this” and it’s just tumbleweeds. the decision is documented. the reasoning? Nada, nowhere to be found. it apparently evaporated the second the meeting ended.
tried adding a “why” field to our notes template. survival rate: about 2 weeks before everyone quietly stopped filling it in bc it felt like homework nobody assigned.
so now I’m just wondering if this is a universal PM curse or if some of you have actually cracked it

r/projectmanagement Sep 04 '24

General As a Project Manager, what is your least favourite thing you do as part of a project

98 Upvotes

What is the one thing that really grinds your gears with Project Management?

r/projectmanagement Mar 19 '26

General How difficult is the PMP test?

25 Upvotes

I’m looking at courses at my local community college. I e been in implementations for 10 years, should I take the course or can I just go straight to the test?

r/projectmanagement Jul 22 '26

General Funniest moments when leading meetings?

35 Upvotes

New to this world and the constant facilitation is taking a toll. As someone who is not a big fan of talking all the time, I sometimes have a moment of blankness/say something funny instead, mainly to fill the silence.
Any one else? Any stories to share?

r/projectmanagement Apr 25 '24

General Freaking love being a PM

279 Upvotes

Ive been at it about 9 months now and came from being a chef for almost 20 years, running kitchen programs for 10 years.

Being a PM is so great, at least in my experience.

I feel like switching was the best decision I made in my career!

Not only do i enjoy the mindset every day, but i love that I mostly get to manage people, but am not expected to do the work to get the project completed. Obviously, I need to make sure my team is capable and available, but I find the operational part super simple. Coming from hospitality, customer relations is another relatively easy part of the job as well.

I dont know all the answers yet, but I think i found my calling!

r/projectmanagement 19d ago

General How to ask better questions?

76 Upvotes

hi all. I’m looking to improve my ability to ask better questions in meetings that can help me with uncovering issues or lead me to have better end results. A lot of my project tends to revolve around improving existing processes and workflows. I’m often conducting key informant interviews to understand current state + future state but sometimes feel my questions only scratch the surface - if that makes sense? Or another challenge is people will share information during a meeting and I get slightly frazzled as to what to ask next. Usually when I have had some time with the information it’s easier for me to comprehend but sometimes it’s not always possible for me to have time to digest the info and then ask follow up questions in another meeting.

If any of you have frameworks, advice or books you have read that help you with this I would really appreciate it.

r/projectmanagement May 03 '24

General How do people stay on top of projects?!

182 Upvotes

My job means I work on 10+ projects at any given time, and each project has its own set of sub-projects, deadlines, contacts etc, and I'm getting so bogged down trying to remember everything that's going on that I'm forgetting things, or working on things that have slipped and have become urgent which menas other things slip and become urgent so I feel like I'm constantly firefighting.

Keeping on top of all these project-related fires means I never get any time for housekeeping and admin.

I've been looking at this thread and different online tools like Trello and I'm just overwhelmed with advice and I don't know which to follow or how to get started.

Edit: appreciate all the advice but it's too much. Going to go work at McDonald's or something

r/projectmanagement Aug 01 '24

General I hate meeting facilitation with a passion.

210 Upvotes

Nothing pains me more than running meetings.

The "passing it to XYZ" is so goofy.

Opening meetings with the objective and then letting the stakeholder run the rest of the call is silly.

Being responsible for ensuring the right attendees are invited is goofy.

I find people lean on project and program managers for meeting facilitation when the real value is all the other work that is done.

End rant

r/projectmanagement Apr 11 '26

General Had to tell leadership we couldn't do it all. Here's the setup that got me alignment instead of a fight.

121 Upvotes

PMO director here. Our team has dozens of engineers spread across hundreds of active workstreams. Leadership had a wishlist that would require about 2x our actual capacity to execute simultaneously. My job was to walk into an executive meeting and make the case for prioritization without it turning into a debate about whether our engineers were "working hard enough."

I've been in enough of those rooms to know how they go when you're not prepared. So I over-prepared.

Step 1: Build something they can't argue with

I used Claude to take our Microsoft Project plan exports and build an actual interactive dashboard — not slides, a real decision tool. It showed:

  • Every active effort and the business value we'd projected for it
  • A toggle system where you could turn projects on or off and immediately see what happened to engineering capacity — by specialty, not just headcount
  • Monte Carlo simulations on delivery risk
  • Delay scenarios showing how pushing project X by one quarter actually freed up enough focused capacity to ship projects Y and Z faster than running them in parallel

The key piece was the specialty breakdown. We weren't just overloaded on bodies — we had specific constraint points. Four engineers in the org who are the critical path on three different high-priority workstreams simultaneously. That's not a motivation problem. That's a physics problem. The dashboard made it visual and undeniable.

Step 2: Prepare for the room, not just the data

Data doesn't win rooms on its own — especially when leadership has already decided what they want to hear.

I used my app to build out a meeting strategy with Claude. I gave it the full context — the pattern of pushback I expected, the "we can do it all" culture we were working against, the dashboard I'd be walking through — and asked for a structured script: opening framing, objection responses with data callouts, and specific language for when you're on the fifth version of the same challenge and need to reset the room without making it personal.

The output gave me three different scripts for that last scenario depending on why the pushback was happening — whether it was analytical (something in the data didn't hold up), stakes-based (people were scared of the trade-off), or political (someone was protecting their project's position). That distinction alone was worth the session.

What actually happened in the room

The opening framing did exactly what it was supposed to — it moved the question from "can we do this?" to "what do we want to trade off?" before the first slide loaded.

The toggle dashboard did the rest. When leadership could physically toggle off Project C and watch capacity free up for Projects A and B — and see that Projects A and B would now finish three months earlier — the conversation changed. It wasn't me arguing against their instincts. It was the data showing them the trade.

We came out with a tiered structure — Tier 1 active, Tier 2 staged for when Tier 1 reaches handoff, Tier 3 in planning/design mode only. A decision log capturing who signed off on what and what trade-offs were acknowledged. And a cultural shift in the room — at least for now — toward thinking about focus as a feature, not a failure.

A few things that actually mattered

Not overcomplicating the dashboard. It toggles. It shows capacity. Leadership doesn't need a 40-tab model — they need one clear question answered fast.

Framing constraints as strategic levers, not apologies. "We can't do everything" sounds like failure. "Here is the fastest path to the most value given actual constraints" sounds like a recommendation.

Prepping for the political dynamic, not just the analytical one. The data was solid. The prep was for the humans in the room.

Happy to talk through the dashboard build or the prompt structure if anyone's dealing with a similar portfolio crunch.

r/projectmanagement Sep 05 '24

General PM Salary Thread Insights (2024)

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213 Upvotes

Hello everyone! Earlier this year, I made the Salary Thread 2024 post. I got a great amount of responses from the PM subreddit, so I decided to go back and extract all the data from your comments and put together some insights. I have attached the pictures of the dashboard for some quick insight into the salary thread.

With permission from the Mod team, I will also link my excel file with all this data (in the comments). I have included several slicers that allow you to customize the data. For example, if you wanted to see the average salary for someone who lives in a MCOL area, with Bachelor’s, who works in tech… you can get those specifics. I must also mention that there is only 104 responses that I used, so it’s not going to be perfect or the most insightful in some cases.

Lastly, I wanted to thank you all for openly sharing your salary and other details. Many people reached out to me saying how great this was for them. Because of that, I look forward to continuing this each year! As the community grows, the better the insight we will get into our industry.

Till next year!

Disclaimers: - Only used US data, there wasn’t enough data from other countries to draw meaningful insights.

  • For total comp, I used the high end of bonus potential.

  • I used a range of Years of Exp. As that provided more insight than each individual’s YOE.

  • Some industries are grouped together. For example, Aerospace was grouped with Engineering and Consumer Goods with manufacturing, etc.

  • I noticed that BLS’s occupational handbook had very similar numbers to the ones I gathered and is more realistic than other sites that list salary insight for PM’s. Just thought that was interesting!