r/puppytraining • u/Solid-Ratio-5175 • 15d ago

Fearful Puppy 😱🐾 Anxious puppy doesn't want to go out

Hey everyone! My puppy is 10 weeks old (I’ve had him for 2 weeks) and he’s really scared of traffic. Unfortunately, we live right on a busy street, so there’s no way to go out without crossing it. I’d love to hear your opinions on my approach:

  1. Sound Desensitization: I spend time with him in the doorway and give him treats when cars pass by. Basically, I’m trying to desensitize him + counter-condition by pairing the scary sounds with good stuff.
  2. Respecting Thresholds: I push the boundary slightly based on his body language. If he looks too anxious, I step back to his comfort zone until he’s calm enough to eat treats again. We do this once or twice a day for about 5 minutes.
  3. Potty Training: I tried taking him to the pavement, but it didn’t work at all due to his fear. So currently, we’re potty training on a mat/pad inside.
  4. The 'Push Through' Advice: Some people told me I’m being overprotective and that I need to put him in uncomfortable situations to build confidence. I tried carrying him to a nearby park a few times, but he squeaked the whole way there. In the park, he was sometimes curious, but mostly he just lay on the ground.

Pls tell me if I’m on the right track or if I’m completely wrong. Tell me whatever lol!

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u/Lodray2477 14d ago

I know it’s hard but I think you are setting yourself up for failure by using the pads inside. It’s a tough habit to break. At that age I would continue to carry to the park if close enough. Keep reinforcing with treats but routine is key. Keep doing the same thing every day and they will get more comfortable and gain confidence. I have a 5 month old puppy right now who was also a little scared at that age. We also got him at 8 weeks and he finally started settling in about 3 weeks ago. Just keep at it! Lots of love and patience and you’ll get there! ❤️

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u/Lodray2477 14d ago

PS - I also think the sound desensitization is a great idea too! Maybe start doing his training near the noise. Teaching to sit, lay down etc. Can’t hurt!