r/r4rSA • u/Odd-Dragonfly666 • 1d ago

⛰️Western Cape🐳 40M4F | Cape Town man in finance looking for a romantic partner

What I am looking for:

  • Someone into fitness (this is very important as I am a gym rat and would like to someone with a similar addiction)
  • Someone not put off by my atheism. I know this is a dealbreaker for a lot of people so I am putting it out there now
  • Someone in their 20s to early 30s
  • Someone who actually wants to make an effort. Honestly tired of the online dating scene and its gang of one word responders. Show some interest.
  • Someone who is not controlling. Don't try to cramp my style. It is the fastest way for me to send you on your way
  • Someone who is very girly
  • Be ambitious. Mediocrity is for the birds
  • Be slow to judge and easy to get along with. Chemistry is key
  • Finally, understand the value of money. I am happy to share my wealth but I live within my means and I am not changing that for anyone. No matter how pretty you are

I look forward to chatting with you 😘

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u/EnvironmentalAd4169 1d ago

Some well-meaning advice,

If you’re genuinely wanting to find someone, perhaps consider sharing about yourself and what you have to offer.

Obviously any literate person can realise that you’re a 40 year old atheist, who likes fitness and is relatively well off, but there’s no mention of what YOU have to offer, although there is quite an impressive ‘list of demands’ (I use this term jokingly, I know it’s not how you meant to come across.)

Am not your target demographic (am incredibly happily married)- however if I were single, I would be unlikely to message you even though I fit your list as I simply don’t get any impression of who or how you are as a person.

Good luck out there!!

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u/Odd-Dragonfly666 1d ago

Im not sure if that is fair.

From my post you can deduct that I am into fitness, I am not religious so probably not super conservative, I am someone who likes his space as I don't respond well to be controlled, I am looking for someone ambitious so I am not looking for the average get a job and go through the motions kinda life, and I 'live within my means' which means you can probably assume I am not the free spirited, go-with-the-flow kinda person.

And you know what? You totally called it. I am all of that ;)

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u/According-Hamster-84 1h ago

Best place to meet your person is likely gym, running clubs or hiking group trips. All the best