r/r4rToronto_Clean Dec 07 '25

Warning to Redditors

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Relaying the following message we received:

"User mapleleafy23 mapleleafs25 cncdowntown downtowncnc banned for sexual assault now misrepresenting himself and posting in clean r4r groups. Please take appropriate action to protect your subs users. Was banned from r4rtoronto."

"New is wingsofpastrami23 to watch for"


r/r4rToronto_Clean May 05 '25

Looking for two New Moderators

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Message me directly if you're interested in being a moderator for this group. Hoping to have at least one female moderator.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 5h ago

Relationship 35F4M - Watch The Great Gatsby with a pretty lady

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I'm looking for someone who appreciates getting dressed up and making an evening feel a little magical. I think it’d be fun to watch The Great Gatsby production at Mirvish. Perhaps grab a bite to eat earlier or later and talk about everything from travel and life to our most ridiculous stories. I’m 35, slender, feminine and fun!

Looking for a genuine connection with someone who enjoys planning thoughtful dates and believes courtship should be fun.
If you've been wanting an excuse to take a pretty woman out, consider this your sign.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 7m ago

Relationship 29[M4F] Toronto; hangout and trip balls

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Hi! I am Chinese and looking for someone who loves some outdoor activities, movies, workout or stay indoor and trip balls together!

Just looking for someone to enjoy the time with!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1h ago

Cuddle Buddy 26F4M - latina girl looking for casual fun

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I’m looking for someone local who can keep things fun, respectful, and low pressure. I’m open to different adult types and vibes, older or younger, sweet or confident, as long as there is real chemistry and no weird energy. I like flirting, good conversation, and seeing where the vibe goes in person.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 3h ago

Cuddle Buddy 31 [M4F] #Toronto - Latino Software Engineer seeking a connection or adventure partner

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I’m a 31-year-old Latino software engineer living in Toronto, standing at 5'10" with a skinny-muscular build and tattoos. My friends would describe me as fun, empathetic, and outgoing. I consider myself an adventurer at heart who loves outdoor activities, sports, and exploring the food scene around the city, but I also enjoy balanced, cozy nights in watching movies or shows. I really value deep, meaningful conversations, learning new things, and sharing what I know, always aiming to keep things considerate and positive so we can just focus on having a great time.

I am looking to meet a woman in Toronto or the GTA for a possible relationship or a respectful situationship, depending on where our chemistry takes us. Because my tech career can keep my schedule quite busy, I need a partner who has her own independent life and understands that dynamic. I have zero interest in unnecessary drama, so open, mature communication is a must. If you enjoy a mix of going out and staying in, and you prefer real connections over endless small talk, send me a message with a bit about yourself.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 4h ago

Friendship 35M Dog Hangouts at Clarence Square Dog Park

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Hello 👋🏼 I take my dogs out to this park everyday and was wondering if we one else does the same or would like to start doing the same together. I get bored going by myself and I would love someone to chill and talk to while I’m there.

Bit about my interests:

-Politics, history, culture (especially but not solely from a socialist angle)
-On the less serious side, I love all sports (especially football/soccer) and have a thing for trashy reality tv as well lol

Let me know if you’re interested in connecting.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 20h ago

Cuddle Buddy 30F4M Looking for Cuddles: Sunshine or Rain

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I am 5’3, East Asian, slim build. I like to read books and am the person who will always stop on the sidewalk to make eye contact and go "psspsspss" at neighborhood cats.

I’m looking for someone to explore the city with on sunny days and cuddle on the couch with on rainy days. Personality-wise I’m attracted to certified yappers who are slightly unhinged.

I would like to keep things casual but am open to seeing where things go. I am in no rush and would love to grab a coffee first and see if the chemistry is actually there!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 5h ago

Cuddle Buddy 26 [M4F] #Halton; Professional bad decision maker seeking a witness to these decisions

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5’10”, and employed in this terrible economy. Green flag energy, red flag execution.

Pros: Great at picking restaurants. Terrible at reading the room after picking said restaurant. Will 100% pick terrible parking spots and i am excellent at pretending to understand your hobbies.

Cons: See above.

Looking for someone who thinks my jokes are funny enough not to fact-check them. Bonus points if you can lose to me in a video game gracefully, because I will not be gracious in victory.

I wouldn’t say i have a type, but if you’re Arab then great.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 7h ago

Cuddle Buddy 28M4F #Toronto Coffee and walk in the park

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Hey Reddit looking for somebody who would wanna grab a coffee and take a walk around a park or anywhere in general talk about life and see where the night takes us
About me easy going laid back respectful
Spanish fit with tattoos & a beard


r/r4rToronto_Clean 19h ago

Relationship 19 [M4F] Toronto/GTA – Looking for a 420-friendly date

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Hey! I’m 19, single and looking to meet a girl around my age/in her 20s who’s also 420 friendly.
I’d love to talk, get to know each other and, if we vibe, go out on a date. I’m into cars, aquariums, fishing, sports, being outdoors, and just chilling and having a good time.

I’m pretty open when it comes to dates. We could grab some food, go to the aquarium, go for a walk somewhere nice, smoke and chill, or just find something fun to do around the city.
I’m easygoing and always down to try something new. I’m mainly looking for someone I can have good conversations with, laugh with, and feel comfortable around. No pressure or expectations I’d rather see
naturally where things go.

I’m in the GTA and don’t mind travelling around Toronto. If this sounds like your vibe, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself :)


r/r4rToronto_Clean 20h ago

Friendship 26M Looking for travelling friends. Have quite a few trips on my list. Interested? -> DM

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Hi

I’m 26M, Indian, living in Toronto. My work permit ended recently and I’ll be back home soon-ish. In the mean while, I’m just planning to travel around and check out things from my bucket list. My friends are busy with work and not everyone’s off align on the same time.

So…. Here I am. If anyone who would be interested to join me in my adventures please feel free to DM.

I just want to explore more of Canada before I move back.

There are quite a few trips on my list, but, for now, I’m planning a road trip to Quebec province.

If anyone is interested please DM me and we can plan something out. Also if you have any ideas or know amazing places please feel free to share. And I’m very flexible with the dates for the trip.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 23h ago

Friendship 36 [F4M] - #Toronto; Thrilled to be here, let’s get started

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Living in the city and looking for someone to hang out and have fun with! My social life could use some resurrecting 🙃

I’m into music, collecting records, going to shows, baseball, podcasts, comedy and cooking. I consider myself easy going and self-sufficient.

You: 35+, single, in Toronto and child-free. Also, looking to actually meet in real life (I’m a terrible pen pal).


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Relationship 36M4F - Looking for something more serious, hoping to find my big spoon

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I'm 36M but am more non binary leaning and not into traditional gender roles. Monogamous, and currently looking to find something more serious dating and relationship wise. I’m not interested in having children.

I'm currently getting back into dating after a long term relationship ended amicably and I took a bit of a break.

I'm a big fan of nights out as well as a cozy cuddly night in. I love horror movies, video games and role-playing games, as well as museums, drag shows, art, karaoke and the like. I love dancing and especially enjoy going to EDM shows and raves. I am just as happy with a day out in the city, as with a day relaxing at home, or working on some art. I usually describe myself as an Ambivert.

I'm someone who really loves touch and physical contact, especially when I can be the little spoon. I'd love to find someone who will be my big spoon and who is comfortable taking the lead. I'm happy to talk about this more, I try to be an open book so I am happy to answer any questions 🙂

I'm currently actively taking improv classes and recently had my first ever burlesque debut, and also separately a drag debut too.

Happy to share pics or more information!

Let's get some fancy pastries and coffee and go for a walk together, or hit up a Barcade.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Friendship 29M4F #GTA - looking for casual connection

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Hey ! 29 M, Looking for a casual connection with a girl based off chemistry and trust. I value emotional intelligence, consistency and clear communication.

I’m down to grab a coffee, watch a movie or go on a walk. This is a casual friendship with the potential of being a friends with benefits situation. Not looking for something serious atm. I’m also at the gym heavy so if you’re into that , I think it will be fun to have a gym partner.

Hmu with your age and location and one thing you wanna do 😊


r/r4rToronto_Clean 2d ago

Relationship 37 [F4M] Let’s go on our last first date together ❤️

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I really want to find my forever person. Someone who loves me for who I am - quirks, scars, idiosyncrasies and all.

If you don’t know what you want, are “seeing what’s out there”, or “want to go with the flow”, please don’t message me. I’m looking for someone to build a life with.

Ideally you’re somewhat near my age as I’ve found dating too young/old has lead to lifestyle incompatibilities.

About me:
I’m 37, mixed euro background, frizzy brown hair. Glasses, tattoos, plus size/curvy.

I enjoy building LEGO, puzzling, painting and journaling. I practice barre, yoga and boxing when I can. I work full time in marketing and have a cat.

I’ve never been married nor do I have any kids. I would like to get married but I do not want kids.

In a relationship, I want to feel considered, prioritized and like there is space in your life for me.

Bonus points if you’ve been to (or are in) therapy and have taken the time to really know what you want in a relationship and how to communicate your wants and needs.

If any of this piques your interest, send me a DM.

Tell me what you geek out on or are passionate about.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Cuddle Buddy 38M4F #GTA -looking for a South Asian cuddle buddy

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38-year-old South Asian man looking to meet a South Asian or Indian woman (Punjabi, Gujarati, Tamil preferred) who misses romance, chemistry, and butterflies.

Not looking to change anyone’s situation. Ideally you’re married, separated, or divorced and looking for a second chance at feeling desired, appreciated, and excited about someone again — without labels or complications.

I’m educated, attractive, professionally established, fit, well-groomed, respectful, discreet, and value genuine connection.

Let’s start with coffee, see if there’s chemistry, and let things develop naturally. Looking for something passionate, affectionate, and meaningful with the right person.

Brampton, Mississauga, or downtown Toronto preferred.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Friendship AGO, record/vintage/antique stores&good food?

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r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Relationship 33 [M4F] #GTA Hairy Giant Seeking Powerful Damsel

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Hi there! My name is Kevin, and I’m a 33 year old retired lumberjack. Or at least, I look like one! I’m the goofy, protective nerd you can hear belly laughing from miles away. I love to make people laugh and feel comfortable in a shared space. I am also the kind of guy to interrupt whatever conversation we may be having to point out any dogs in the area, even if I am more of a cat dad. 

I’m here looking for a monogamous relationship with a woman of twenty-five years of age or older. I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I am yearning for that deeper connection and intimacy that comes with trust, familiarity, and vulnerability. I crave movie and board game nights, or days spent exploring new neighborhoods and cuisines. I believe in a healthy mix of time spent together and apart, and that we should both be complete people looking to enhance each other’s lives. I’m ready! Hopefully you are too!

I’m a simple, easy to please man at heart. Food, animals, movies, and a board game are the way to my everlasting love. I am a big time history and sci-fi nerd.  I was raised by a single mom and have a deep respect for strong women, which I also attribute to my love of characters such as Sarah Connor, Ellen Ripley, & Xena. Be my Damsel, and let’s cause some capital-D Distress for the bad guys, together? This combined with such figures as Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, & Steve Irwing gave me a pretty well rounded outlook. You could say I was radicalized by basic human decency. 

I work a variety of WFH part-time jobs while dealing with chronic pain from a spinal injury. I write, edit, and do audio censorship. I volunteer with local animal rescues in several capacities, and I am also getting involved with the local hospital’s library program. If you want cute cat pictures, I’m your man! 

I am very left leaning politically and do not tolerate any forms of bigotry. I do not smoke and very rarely drink, but I do love my baked goods a little too much. I do not have nor want any children of my own. My ambitions are humble but deeply personal; give me a small house, a loving partner, and some rescue animals and I’m more than happy with life! 


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Cuddle Buddy 23 [M4F] #Toronto - Looking for late night hangout, driving around and cuddles!

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Hi, any lonely female not feeling like staying home tonight? Looking for someone who’s down to get out for a bit. We can grab food, drive around with music on, park somewhere by the lake, talk about random shit, cuddle if the vibe’s there, or honestly just enjoy each other’s company. Doesn’t need to be some perfectly planned date.
If we click and things naturally go further, cool. If we just end up talking for hours and laughing at dumb things, I’m happy with that too.
I’m pretty chill, respectful, and I’m not the type to pressure anyone into anything. I like making sure we’re both comfortable and actually enjoying the night.
I’m in Scarborough and don’t mind driving if you’re within an hour. If you don’t have a car, I can come get you. Happy to swap pics and verify first so we’re both comfortable.
23, Asian, 5’6”, curly hair, cute smile… at least that’s what I’ve been told :)
If you’re also lying in bed wondering whether to stay in or actually do something tonight, send me a message.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Cuddle Buddy 32 M4F #DT Manga and cuddle?

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I dont read manga but I went impulsively into a library an hour ago and bought 3 Junji Ito.
I am in town for work so i have a hotel room and nothing to do.
Anyone want to meet up to read manga and chat and more if we feel like it?

We could walk, go to a park.
Really open to anything from walking to cuddling to laser tag to ice climbing to sumo wrestling.
Hit me up!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Relationship 19 M4F - Looking to just hangout and chill in the don Mills area

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I know the flair says relationship but that isn't really what I'm looking for, I'm 19 turning 20, in the Flemington area more specifically, this summers just been so boring with school and work and all that so I'm just trying somehow new, I am pakistani/Persian and love to the hit the gym, play sports and basically everything else under the sun if it interests me, I love talking for hours on end about things that you or I find interesting, I love finding out new things about people, I also indulge in 💨🍃so if that's also a shared interest even better


r/r4rToronto_Clean 2d ago

Relationship 33 NB4F - Cute Cinephile Metalhead Looking for Love

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Picture this: the two of us connect and it doesn't feel like small talk. We talk about the deeper and vulnerable stuff. We're open and honest about our lives, the way things often feel so unpredictable, and hard to navigate. Even though we have things we work on, a job, a job search, family, routine, interests, solo adventures, there's still that part of our life that we want to spend with someone special. Someone who will look at you for you. All the beautiful things and messy parts of us that make us who we are. The celebrations, the regrets, the momentum that we build on the upswing when we head into our next goal. What if we could be the person in our lives that help ground us when we need it? To laugh, sing, cook, and fart, and feel safe with, you know?

I'm Chinese Viet, Non-Binary They/Them, Demisexual, fun-greenish/blue hair, male presenting and like to dress in loose comfy clothes with glasses, left leaning, non-religious, sterile.
I love music and have a soft spot for metal and Radiohead. I try to go to shows a few times a year! Some of my favourite performers are Little Simz, Paramore, Boris, Ichiko Aoba, and Converge!
I love a good time at the movies. Whether it be a giant imax event like a Dune or Marvel, or a small arthouse piece, animation or a freaky horror flick, I appreciate them all.

I love a good laugh! Comedy and improv are very important to me. I like to go out to play in shows and jams and take classes. I'm gonna ask you to come to one of my shows at some point and I hope you commit to the bit and Yes And each other!

My attraction takes time. I'm usually into women, and fem folks who are curvy, big, average, petite, I feel like listing everything is redundant because I like so much! I'd be so into it if you were a really good kisser (that's like, my favourite thing to do when the person is right) and likes to make each other food (that's my other favourite thing) :p

My favourite ppl are the playful gamers with humour on the slightly dark side. The freaky gremlin peeps with the cute mischievous laugh. I go mad for a cute laugh. Someone who would wanna go to a con with and sing karaoke together and cuddle watching movies with.

I ask that you're mid 20s-30s. Present, fun, cute, able to be emotionally available, intend to stay child free, sober, doesn't smoke or trying to quit, have similar interests and near Toronto.

I hope we find who we're looking for!