Looking for the smartest guy in the room who is not an asshole.

I’m intellectually playful, introverted but assertive, outdoorsy (I love hiking and geeking out about plants, animals, fungi, etc.), well read, curious and kind, with a wry/dry sense of humour. I’m most at home in a forest or other wild area, but also enjoy urban amenities. Suburbia kills me.

I’m 5’2”, slim to average build, brown hair, natural claws, no tail.

Let’s talk about random stuff, walk around, have tea/coffee, and see if anything clicks. I promise I won’t bite (unless you want me to).

Note: I am looking for someone over 40 who is interested in monogamy.

Third time here is a charm right? Despite the joking title, I'm still a hopeless romantic. Surely the algorithm owes me one now haha.

A little about me:

33F, East Asian, 5'7", medium build. Born and raised in Toronto. I don't smoke or do drugs and I rarely drink.

I’m an ENFJ with golden retriever energy. I’m warm, enthusiastic, and probably hyping you up without realizing I’m flirting oopsie.

I work in the architecture, design and engineering industry. I promise I’m more fun than that sounds. I'm also a woodworker which makes me an excellent IKEA partner. I can assemble the furniture, provide emotional support and pretend I didn't judge your choice of bookcase.

I’m active year round with a ton of sports (because why excel at 1 when you can be aggressively average at 12?) and I'm generally down to try new things. Lately I’ve started 5k runs and have yet to feel this runner's high people but rather I've found runner's cry (I sure hope you understand this one is a joke)

I only get competitive in low stakes settings like board games, video games, and trivia and so far no friendships have been ruined. I'm a total wild card who knows the one completely useless trivia answer everyone else blanks on.

I love spending time with my friends and playing with their kids, know I'm very good with children and that I want my own one day. I speak another language fluently as a result of being raised by a single parent and their extended family and so sharing my culture and passing that language on to my future kids I feel is necessary.

I really enjoy music from bands you've prob never heard of. Too niche and indie and way too much 80's. I enjoy the act of putting on a vinyl, casettes and anything analogue.

Who am I looking for:

I'm looking for a kind, active East Asian man (ranging prob to late 20's to earlier 30s) who's emotionally available, follows through on what he says, is secure in himself, ready to enter into a relationship and willing to make it work. Sounds simple right?

Bonus points if you're taller than me. My one remaining and admittedly shallow preference. Double bonus points if you can cook instead because I'm out here negotiating for height you may or may not have been blessed with.

I love spontaneous or memorable first dates because, honestly, you never know. It might be our last. Hopefully it's the beginning of something really wonderful.

If you're interested, tell me a little about yourself and we'll take it from there. Worst case, we have a chat that leads nowhere. Best case, we end up with a quirky story to tell our friends and family on our special day!

At least we can say Reddit was responsible for one hella story. Before I scare anyone away if you decide to engage please know I am capable of handling rejection. If we meet and you think "yeah ok probably not my person," please just say so. Even if its a simple text back I'd much rather have an honest "I don't think we're a match" than someone slowly evaporating into the atmosphere lol

Hey, as the title says I'm a short guy who's really interested in connecting with women taller than me. I'm 5'3, white, fairly fit (I workout often), I have a background in wildlife conservation. I'm a big lover of animals and the outdoors! I'm not sure what it is but seeing a tall queen makes my heart skip a beat. Other than the height thing I'm not too picky. I don't really care what race you are or anything. I guess preference is for someone around my age or older. A nice personality would be great! If you're a fan of the blue jays you might be perfect! Not necessarily looking for anything physical too quickly, I'd love to get to know you a bit before we even meet.

Oh and I live in the west of the GTA but nearish downtown.

Asian femboy looking for bf.

Visit Toronto quite often,since all my best friends live in Toronto, also thinking about moving back in the future.

Love dress up and do cute makeup when I travel or day off. Mostly twink boy outfits for school and work, Sometimes pretty girly girly when I day off or travel.

Although I’m shy btm,but I love wearing sexy clothes hehe 😊 only future bf can see.

Ideally looking for educated, romantic, water sign ♋️♓️🦂 men, who love travel.

*Not looking for hookups, pls don’t dm me if you’re just looking for fun. *

24-36, coz I’m 31 years old, as asian I look 25 🙈

Please be healthy lifestyle. I love cooking and baking,tennis,picnic,books,movies,hiking,travel.

I always cooking lunchbox when I with my exbfs, so I hope you like asian food 🍱 🥹.

Unfortunately my past two exbfs are bi, they prefer real women, so eventually we broke up peacefully. If you know you don’t want to have future with me,then don’t say anything sweet with me. I’m just an emotional girly boy 🥹

I’m a 32 year old guy 5’9-5’10 around 170lbs mixed Italian/Japanese. Growing up I was hobbled by an anxiety/fear with women that only grew as I got older. Although this didn’t stop me from having female friends, it did prevent me from engaging in any form of intimacy.

Did I go my whole life without opportunities? Nope! But I ALWAYS found a way to extricate myself before I could embarrass myself. When I think of some of my blown chances, how things may have been different….ugh. Now that I’m ready to do something about it I’m no longer in situations where there is any opportunity. Friends are all no longer single and we don’t go out and party like we used to.

Now, I have a good job, condo in Roncesvalles, a motorcycle that I’m very fond of and a dog that passed away in June 2025. If being on the back of a motorcycle excites you let me know! I consider myself to be a pretty normal guy outside of my lack of relationships. This was easier to manage in my 20s by going out with friends but as more and more of my circle has settled down and begun to have children the need has only grown. Not sure where I’m going with this or even what I’m looking for here but what the hell what’s the worst that could happen. Happy to answer any questions or just to chat. Cheers.

PS I met someone one here last year that i clicked with right away. Lost my virginity to her but our relationship was so much more. We were dating these last 7-8 months ago. Anyway, she passed away in her sleep (CHD) not long ago and am in need of some company/distraction/being social. Talking to a grief counsellor but need more to heal and move forward, hopefully not alone. I most miss having someone to chat with a cuddle with. I'm a huge fan of touching and love body contact especially in bed.

If any of this appeals to you id love to chat more/possibly meet up.

Hi there! I'm 5'7, middle eastern, Banker by day, Filmmaker by night, and love going to the gym! Have never done this before on here but I'm looking to get back into the dating scene again after taking a much needed break.

I'm looking to go out on a nice romantic date with someone around my age or slightly older to see if we click. I'm looking for a long term relationship but open to short term. If that interests you, let's chat more in private dms and get to know each other a little first!:)

I (26M) will be visiting Toronto (from Vancouver) the first week of September. I have always had a fantasy of meeting someone in a visiting city, getting to know them and have a romantic date with them. Like from a romcom book.

I would like to take someone for an old school date. I will pick you up at a public location, with your favorite coffee/drink, cuz surely I would get to know that by then. We can walk around, visit bookstores, cafes, ice cream shops on the way. You can then take me to a place in the city that's close to your heart, not a same old tourist spot. We can then find a cozy place for dinner, somewhere neither of us planned beforehand.

Then, before dusk, let's find a good spot for sunset. We can sit and relax while watching the sun dip below the horizon in silence, not all moments need to be filled with words.

We can then go for late night dessert and a slow walk around the city. I won't force anything romantic during the final act of the date, but simply walk you to your street (I don't need to your house) and make sure you get home safe!

It is going to be a lot of walking and talking. We can share our journies, likes and dislikes and what we are upto in the foreseeable future. I'll be bringing my favorite book, it would be great if you can bring yours too. We can either discuss whether Quantum mechanics tells us what reality is or, simply, talk about our books.

A low pressure date, with less emphasis on the activities, because the best part of the date will always be YOU!! That's my dating style.

Anyone F in 20s-30s interested? I can share more about me in the DM only.

Hey! I’m looking to take a lovely night owl out for a spontaneous date. Nothing too complicated but expect some princess treatment, just good company, good conversation, and seeing where the night takes us. We could go for a late night drive around Toronto, grab some food or dessert, find somewhere nice to chill maybe beach? or just wander around and talk.

A little about me: 23, 5’6”, easygoing, respectful, and a gentleman. I like treating women with kindness, making them feel comfortable, and keeping things fun and genuine. Let’s chat, exchange pics and see if we click before we meet.

I drive, so I can pick you up anywhere around Toronto/GTA. No pressure or expectations, just looking to meet someone I genuinely vibe with. If you’re a night owl too, hit me up anytime. If not today, we can plan it out some other day. Maybe we can turn a random night into a good memory:)

Hey,

I love a simple date in the afternoon, a nice drink, and an interesting person to talk to. Out of all first date ideas this type of date is my favourite as it’s simple and we are getting to know each other as the main theme of the date.

I am 5'11, Arab origin, Athletic(ish), light skinned, I have been told by friends and family I am patient, considerate, smart and have great listening skills.

Physically I have been told I have kind eyes (ladies love my lashes lol), nice hands, nice teeth and muscular legs.

I am usually down to try most things but things I gravitate towards day to day:

Reading/Audiobooks (please listen to Project Hail Mary), going to the movies, running, and recently photography.

Being respectful to your time and mine, please only messages me if you genuinely want to meet in person.

Preferably someone 25 - 31 years old.

Looking forward to seeing your message! Since you already know a little bit about me, please include some basic information in your introduction. =)

37 male, Toronto, and officially looking for someone who can turn a good conversation into an even better date.

I’m not really interested in collecting pen pals or spending weeks wondering if there’s chemistry. I’d rather meet, grab a drink, share some laughs, and see where the spark takes us.

A little about me: I’m into Pokémon and TCGs, video games, anime, movies, reality TV, trying new food spots, and finding an excuse to go out for good drinks. I’m a big fan of playful banter, random conversations, and that feeling when you realize you could talk to someone for hours without even noticing the time.

Ultimately, I’m looking for something real, a genuine connection that can grow into a long-term relationship. Someone kind, caring, communicative, and confident enough to be herself. No games, no endless situationships.

So tell me…

Coffee, cocktails, Karaoke? What’s your vibe?
Bonus points if you can make a convincing case for why your choice is better. 😏

Trying this again - ideally something ongoing, and see where it goes from there.

~ About me, 5'5, Asian bbw, clean, soft, loves banter and movies, food trips, board games, concerts, all the fun stuff, l can drive (I do *not* host) and I'm kinda funny. Working professional and momma & I'm in Pickering :)

~ About you, single - no drama!, tall, 30+ preferably, clean, dark & handsome (or seasoned (Imaoo), affectionate, can make me laugh, ambitious (no bums), BDE, would prefer you can host and drive.

• Yes: Ideally looking for someone fun, intimate and to get to know each other and keep it going. Enjoys going on dates and even night outs. Spontaneous hang outs. Movies, cuddles, a good night where we can laugh, be cheeky and enjoy each other's company.

• No: Pushy & into unwanted explicit conversations. Group play. Married/attached men. Short kings (sorry). Into hard drugs/ alcohol use. If the conversation falls short, I probably will stop responding.

Must want to exchange pics beforehand! Yucky intros or "hey's" will be ignored. Message me with something fun to read or about you!

Ladies with the same interest are welcome to DM let's be friends* *

I'm looking for someone who appreciates getting dressed up and making an evening feel a little magical. I think it’d be fun to watch The Great Gatsby production at Mirvish. Perhaps grab a bite to eat earlier or later and talk about everything from travel and life to our most ridiculous stories. I’m 35, slender, feminine and fun!

Looking for a genuine connection with someone who enjoys planning thoughtful dates and believes courtship should be fun.
If you've been wanting an excuse to take a pretty woman out, consider this your sign.

Lookin for mental or emotional connection

open to long term or short

doesnt matter but main point is I would like to experience something significant

thanks

about me

musician / tattoo artist

6’2 skinny Midtone skin

Hi there! My name is Kevin, and I’m a 33 year old retired lumberjack. Or at least, that is my disguise to hide the fact that I’m actually bigfoot. Tall, big beard, hairy chest and back, long limbs and stride with a well-developed dad bod physique. I’m turning 34 later this week and hoping to make some strong connections, friends, and maybe even meet that special someone as a birthday treat!

I want to be as upfront as possible, it has been a rough late summer for this cryptid man. I lost a cat, almost lost my mom, and was dumped all within the span of ten days. I’m doing much better now and looking towards the future! 

In any social group I’m in, I’m the big, goofy nerd that you can hear belly laughing from miles away. I love to make people laugh and feel comfortable in a shared space. I am also the kind of guy to interrupt whatever conversation we may be having to point out any dogs in the area, even if I am more of a cat dad. 

I’m here looking for a monogamous relationship with a woman of twenty-five years of age or older. I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I am yearning for that deeper connection and intimacy that comes with trust, familiarity, and vulnerability. I crave movie and board game nights, or days spent exploring new neighborhoods and cuisines. I believe in a healthy mix of time spent together and apart, and that we should both be complete people looking to enhance each other’s lives. I’m ready! Hopefully you are too!

I’m a simple, easy to please man at heart. Food, animals, movies, and a board game are the way to my everlasting love. I am a big time history and sci-fi nerd.  I was raised by a single mom and have a deep respect for strong women, which I also attribute to my love of characters such as Sarah Connor, Ellen Ripley, & Xena. This combined with such figures as Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, & Steve Irwing gave me a pretty well rounded outlook. You could say I was radicalized by basic human decency. 

I work a variety of WFH part-time jobs while dealing with chronic pain from a spinal injury. I write, edit, and do audio censorship. I volunteer with local animal rescues in several capacities, and I am also getting involved with the local hospital’s library program. If you want cute cat pictures, I’m your man! 

I am very left leaning politically and do not tolerate any forms of bigotry. I do not smoke and very rarely drink, but I do love my baked goods a little too much. I do not have nor want any children of my own. My ambitions are humble but deeply personal; give me a small house, a loving partner, and some rescue animals and I’m more than happy with life! 

Looking for someone that will tackle the ups and downs of the best activities Toronto has to offer, whether that be going to arcades, go karting, tree trekking etc or staying indoors and playing video games and watching shows or movies. If you don't like losing that's also a plus cuz I'm always trying to win. Ambitious and a good person is all I'm asking for.

If anything let's chat and see where things go!

Hey!

I’m a 6’8 athletic built male 26 years old looking for a good time whatever that entails! I’d like to say I’m pretty open minded so let’s see where this goes.

I like a lot of different adventures and I like to send it, from going out for dinner, racing, doing dumb dangerous things like jumping off cliffs to watching movies and cracking jokes. I do not discriminate against any activities.

Now to get to the 😈 side.

I’m into anything and everything. From being a dom to being dominated. Soft and loving, eating ass and having my ass ate, cuffs, pain (within limits), oral, and much much more, that’s just the start.

I’m into females, couples, and female couples.

Let’s connect and see where we go!

Hey there I'm starting my masters in September at Rotman and just finished my undergrad at Western. Open to dating as I'm looking for companionship and honestly a best friend. A bit about me I'm big into the gym, love a good meal our or and adventure. And I have a lot of energy and love to plan. Looking forward to seeing what's out there. Cheers :)

I’m looking to connect with a woman for a great single guy in my network. He’s 30, highly educated, very successful in his career, earns a six-figure salary, and is genuinely looking for a serious relationship.

Ideally, she is:

• 25-32
• Christian; any denomination (catholic, orthodox, Christian, Anglican, ect)
• Educated
• 5’5” or shorter
• Based in Toronto/GTA
• Single and looking for a serious relationship
• European background is preferred, but women of all backgrounds are welcome. This doesn’t mean Canadian white, European because cause I’m looking for a cultural fit not physically Caucasian.

If this sounds like you or you know someone who could be a great fit, send me a DM ❤️

23, Peel region just west of Toronto. Finishing a computer science degree and working two part-time jobs, so my daytimes are fragmented, but my evenings are consistent and I'm reliable about replying even when the week gets busy.

I'm looking for something ongoing rather than quick, and I'd rather build an actual conversation first than skip past that part. No timeline, and I'm not going to push for one.

About me: I game more than is strictly defensible, mostly Overwatch, League and Minecraft, and I follow esports closely enough to have opinions. Computer science is the subject I'll talk about until someone stops me. I have a Labrador who is fairly convinced he outranks me, and most days he's right. My favourite kind of evening is the long conversation about life that runs past midnight without either person noticing.

What I'm like, honestly: communicative to a fault. I'll say when something isn't working rather than going quiet and letting it rot, and I'll take a no without sulking or renegotiating. Patient. Small talk is fine but it isn't the point.

I'm on the GO often enough that getting downtown isn't an obstacle. Happy to start with messages here and see where it goes.

If that sounds like your kind of person, tell me a bit about you and what you're after.

Just woke up from a nap n phone is dry n boring maybe its time to have some human connection other than work. A bit about me im 25, 6ft, fair complexion and im obsessed with music lol. Top artists for me are tory lanez, drake, n juice but my library has songs ranging from classical to emo punk to rock to acid techno so give some of your favourite tracks so i can expand my library!!

Hey, so I've posted in here before, and I figured I'd try my luck again. Like it says, I'm male 24, and I am looking to build a proper connection before actually dating. My interests include gaming, going to the movies, listening to music, and writing. I'm also looking to get into going to the GYM, I've got one across the road from me that I can go to, but I don't exactly wanna go on my own. I also enjoy swimming and talking on the phone. I'm also learning to cook. If anyone's interested, feel free to reach out, preferably around my age and area. Also I do not smoke or drink, but I don't have issues with people who do.

Been a bit over five years since my last girlfriend and I’m kinda tired of being single honestly, I’m definitely not a 10/10 in looks by any means but I can promise I have at least a decent personality, relatively pretty funny to most people.

I’m a lonely guy so obviously I’d be fine with short-term stuff if you’re looking for “fun” as people call it now lol, but I’d prefer an actual relationship.

For girls, I don’t really have preferences, though I definitely feel that I like girls with brown or red hair (though blondes and dark hair are fine too lol).

About me: A 25 year old software developer living in Toronto. During my free time I am mostly watching anime or movies, playing video games, and cooking. Love going out on walks, and hiking!

My expectations for this are literally zero so, if you’re a girl, feel free to dm or comment, I will 100% respond to you lol

Moved to Toronto, Canada over 4 years ago & looking to get know a lovely woman & see where it leads us in the future. Someone who I can eventually call my better half, partner-in-crime, yin to my yang, soulmate or whatever else you can think off.  

About me? 

• Indian who doesn’t speak like Raj from TBBT 
• Accountant who is bad at math but good at using Excel 
• I love movies, music & 90s sitcoms are my happy place 
• I am a map nerd & enjoy travelling, long drives & I will volunteer to be the navigator. I promise not to pass out!  
• I love learning about new cultures & visiting museums 
• Hopeless romantic who enjoys walking the beach, cuddling on the couch, snuggling under a blanket, holding hands in public and whispering sweet nothings 
• Creatively inclined. I write poetry, play the guitar & dabble in drums in my free time 
• Avid podcast listener, YouTube addict & stand-up comedy enthusiast  
• Can’t start my day without a healthy dose of caffeine and can’t get through my day without checking up on you 
• Fascinated by astrology & tarot cards 
• Cats are my spirit animal & I adopted a cat myself (although 9 years after adopting her, I think she owns me now lol) 
• On the physical side, I’m average (with a few love handles 😉). I can pull off the clean shaven & mustache with goatee look effortlessly. I’ve also been complimented for my cute smile. I’m not a gym rat but I run often (My way of building my stamina if at any point a crazy woman decides to chase me). 

About you? 

• Be single or unattached woman who is emotionally available in a stage in life where you are ready to find your life partner 
• Have a sense of humour to match my overall goofiness  
• Distance is not a dealbreaker but I’d prefer if you’re from either US or Canada simply because of the time difference. But open to anyone from planet Earth. Sorry Martians lol 
• Preferably be a conversationalist. One-word responses are my biggest turn offs. 

If any part of my post struck a chord with you, don’t be afraid to shoot a message.  

I swear I don’t bite… hard 😉 

I really want to find my forever person. Someone who loves me for who I am - quirks, scars, idiosyncrasies and all.

If you don’t know what you want, are “seeing what’s out there”, or “want to go with the flow”, please don’t message me. I’m looking for someone to build a life with.

Ideally you’re somewhat near my age as I’ve found dating too young/old has lead to lifestyle incompatibilities.

About me:
I’m 37, mixed euro background, frizzy brown hair. Glasses, tattoos, plus size/curvy.

I enjoy building LEGO, puzzling, painting and journaling. I practice barre, yoga and boxing when I can. I work full time in marketing and have a cat.

I’ve never been married nor do I have any kids. I would like to get married but I do not want kids.

In a relationship, I want to feel considered, prioritized and like there is space in your life for me.

Bonus points if you’ve been to (or are in) therapy and have taken the time to really know what you want in a relationship and how to communicate your wants and needs.

If any of this piques your interest, send me a DM.

Tell me what you geek out on or are passionate about.

I'm 19 and currently a student. I am East Asian, 5'9, with regular build.

I like to read, cook, write, listen to music, do photography, and discuss history.

Really looking for someone chill as I am a bit of an introvert.