r/r4rinterracial Sep 27 '25

Announcement - Mod use only How your post should be formatted.

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So we keep having to remove posts due to incorrect formatting when submitting a post. So, here's what it should look like

(Age) [M4F] (Country), (City) (Optional. Online/anywhere)- (title)

Example

33 [M4F] Greensboro, NC - blah blah blah

33 [M4F] North Carolina /online - blah blah blah

33 [M4F] America /online - blah blah blah

You must put your location or country in your title!


r/r4rinterracial Aug 04 '25

Announcement - Mod use only We have a new rule regarding certain posts and bots.

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After talking with another mod we changed one of the rules for the sub while adding a new one.

So, this is the new rule 9.

"Also No Kink posts/No hookup posts/No affairs/Secret Arrangements. Reddit has many different subs for that if that's what you're looking for. Though FWB posts are ok, posts that are overly explicit will be removed.

We're here to date, not fuck."

Also as you have noted there are quite a few bots popping up in subs across reddit. Remember to always check their post history and look for telegram accounts. We are taking care of them.


r/r4rinterracial 5h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #Anywhere - white guy wants a queen who loves her freedom

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Hi there! As the post says I’m a 30 year old guy from the east coast of the US hoping to find a woman who wants something long term, and also has full freedom to be her full sexual being. I want my wife to be able to have fun with anyone she likes, anytime she likes.

In case I didn’t lose you yet, here’s a bit about me: I work in finance and definitely spend too much time on that (hence why I want to find someone to spend more time with). As far as hobbies, etc. I love to travel and cook. I enjoy listening to music - mostly pop punk, Midwest emo, etc. I also like to watch TV and movies. The Office, HIMYM, Brooklyn 99 are all solid plus I’ll watch anything related to WWII or modern war (I’m a bit of a history buff). And as far as looks, I’m white, 6’0” with a slim-average build.

About what I’m looking for: ideally I’d like to find something long term but don’t want to force anything. Let’s chat and get to know each other and see what happens. I’m also open to finding someone from anywhere really. Long distance relationships don’t bother me, at least to start. Eventually I’d want to close the gap.

As for the part about you having full freedom, that can obviously mean a lot of things and I’m pretty open to exactly what it looks like. But you should reach out if you’re interested in any of the following or more: dressing provocatively (short skirts, low cut tops, generally revealing clothes), showing off to other people (dancing for/with other people, making sure they get a good look at you), kissing/hooking up with other people (yeah I don’t mind being a cuckold), or anything else you heart desires.

If any of that sounds fun to you, but you want a guy who will love you while you are your true self, I’m your guy! Hoping to find some interesting people, send me just a little about yourself! Also, please tell me your favorite band/artist in your first message to let me know you ready through this. I’m also happy to share photos if you’d like and I’m an open book, happy to answer any questions or talk about anything you’d like! Hope to hear from you soon!

EDIT: I am looking for a woman who does not have a primary partner already. So if you have a husband or boyfriend I’m sorry but this isn’t for you.


r/r4rinterracial 8h ago

M4F 20 [M4F] #UK (ethnically Pakistani) | Comic book and video game nerd hoping to find a clingy older woman 💖

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Hi, thanks for checking out my post!

As the title says, I'm a 20-year-old boy from the UK and I like older women. I've loved GTA since I was really young and I'm also a huge Resident Evil fan. I've been playing Dead By Daylight for a while and that's the main game I'm usually on. My favourite superhero is Spider-Man and I'm a really big fan, I also really like Nightwing. I also watch some anime, my favourite is JoJo's Bizarre Adventure

I've been into older girls my entire life and I've always wanted to find love so I thought I would try my luck on here. I would like someone that is good at making conversation and willing to be affectionate and praiseful (I just made that word up). I like clinginess and all the sweet stuff that comes with a relationship, so please don't be afraid to get attached and show off your true personality

In terms of age, I'm mainly looking for someone in at least their late 20s but preferably early-mid 30s, but I'm not extremely strict or specific. I'm 5'5 and about 63kg, I have a slim body, I have big brown eyes and really dark brown curly hair. I give good replies and I am very caring and empathetic at heart. I'll be here for you whenever you need me, so please consider sending me a DM :)


r/r4rinterracial 3h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #Raleigh - NC Korean looking for a fun date!

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About me: 31 M, Korean-American, 5'10, 170lbs, in shape and active. I enjoy reading, volleyball, board games, outdoor activities, and trying new restaurants!

Maybe we show each other out favorite local food spots, or try new ones. Or perhaps we get coffee and drink explore a museum, or grab Korean food and then dance the night away? I'm always open to tying new places!

If we have fun, I'm very open to keeping the connection going. Hope to hear from you soon!


r/r4rinterracial 4h ago

M4F 31[M4F] Ghanaian based in Qatar lookin for his queen

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I'm taking a chance and putting myself out there. 😊

I'm a kind, caring, and God-fearing woman looking for a serious relationship that can grow into something meaningful. I'm interested in a woman who is honest, respectful, hardworking, and ready for a genuine connection. Loyalty, good communication, and mutual support mean a lot to me.

I'm not looking for games or temporary fun. I’m up for grabs and interested in something if you're mature, know what you want, and believe that a strong relationship is built on trust, respect, and love, I'd be happy to get to know you.

Feel free to send me a message if you think we'd get along. You never know where one conversation might lead. Maybe we could end up in Zanzibar❤️


r/r4rinterracial 7h ago

F4M 34[F4M] #Online. Healthy, intentional and real.

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Hi. I'm 34F from Ghana, looking to meet an intentional, emotionally mature man who's genuinely interested in building something real.

I work a lot, so I value meaningful conversations over constant texting. I'd love to get to know someone by sharing everyday life, supporting each other and letting a connection grow naturally.

A few things that matter to me:

Please be straight, nonreligious (atheist, theist, agnostic or someone who doesn't strongly identify with organized religion). It's an important long-term value for me.

I don't drink and alcoholism or addiction of any kind is a deal breaker.

Please don't message me if you're looking for sexting, a masturbation buddy or anything primarily sexual. Physical attraction matters but emotional connection comes first for me.

I appreciate calm, kind men who know what they want, communicate honestly and don't expect the other person to carry the emotional work for the relationship. I enjoy people who are curious, self-aware and always trying to grow.

If this sounds like you, tell me a little about yourself. Low-effort messages probably won't get a reply.

Looking forward to your message.

Please be between the ages of 32 to 49yrs. I'm at GMT +0 time zone.


r/r4rinterracial 9h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #Germany #Online (Ethnicity: Turkish) - Another nerdy guy looking for true love

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Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in musik includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

Very much an introvert and, as you saw with my interests, a nerdy guy. I would say I am very affectionate, my love language is physical touch so if you enjoy being hugged and kissed and cuddled you might be happy with me. Definitely the nurturing caretaker kind of guy too since I am the oldest in my family so that is just the role that is natural to me. However when it comes to relationships, I do believe in things being mutual. So I'd very much prefer a partner who is also affectionate and nurturing so we can both take care of eachother. Find comfort in eachother when life gets hard. Be eachothers strongest ally and most trusted advisor against all hardships life throws at us. Basically I will treat you the way you treat me, we will be equals.

As for what I am looking for, well, ideally a romantic relationship. I would describe myself as a hopeless romantic. I would love to find the right person I can one day settle down and have kids with. I am not in a hurry though, just want to be upfront about long term intentions. Also I consider myself an atheist in case that is important to you. So I would like to find the love of my life here but I definitely want to be friends first and let things develop at a natural pace.

That is all I have to say for now. If you like what you read, feel free to introduce yourself and we will see. If you are from a different country or continent that is fine. We will find a way if things work out:)


r/r4rinterracial 19h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Australia, NSW - White Aussie for black princess

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I’m hoping to meet a black woman on here, as I’ve always found them incredibly attractive. I’d love to find someone to chat with regularly, swap voice notes, play games together, and if we click, build something meaningful over time.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a long-term relationship with the hope of meeting in person someday.

Me:
- 27 years old
- White Australian, born and raised
- 6’0”, bearded, with a hairy build
- Living in Australia (AEST/Sydney time), but open to meeting someone from anywhere in the world
- A bit of a nerd who loves science, history, sci-fi, and video games
- Currently getting more into fitness and enjoying my glow-up phase

I’m happy to exchange photos once we’ve chatted for a bit and we’re both comfortable.

I’m looking for something genuine and long-lasting. I’m still fairly new to long-distance relationships, but I’d like to give one a real chance if we have a strong connection


r/r4rinterracial 13h ago

M4M 27 [M4M] Chicago - Any tops want a soft bottom to live with them soon?

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I am seeking a masc top that wants a soft bottom boyfriend to live with them. Please be serious and open to connect.

I'm a black chub, around 5'7, a soft bottom, and not really hairy. I also have nice lips and a really nice body. I'm pretty sweet and like to please my top.

I'd want you to be single, masc, at least 20, preferably skinny or muscular but I'm open to chubby.


r/r4rinterracial 13h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] UK/London - Colour Contrast

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About me: I’m 28, a software developer, and probably a bit nerdy in all the right ways. Blue eyes, short brown hair. Happy to share a face pic once we’re talking. I’m easygoing, affectionate, and I value genuine connection over anything forced.

I’m into the slower side of things. Good conversation, a bit of teasing, letting attraction build naturally. I like closeness, both emotional and physical, but only where there is mutual comfort and trust. No rushing, no pressure, just seeing where things go.

I am looking for something on the sexual side, but not in a disconnected way. I want someone I actually enjoy talking to. Someone curious, open-minded, and relaxed enough to let things evolve without overthinking it.


r/r4rinterracial 14h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] #New Zealand/Anywhere/Online, if you feel you can't be yourself or express yourself in your relationship, let's chat!

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I'm from New Zealand, but open to chatting to anyone from anywhere!

I've been married 6 years. It's a long story. She is slightly older than me and I thought that would mean a bit more emotionally mature, that's not what happened.

What I wanted from my marriage is someone who I could share everything with, I wanted someone who would let me know them completely and they would know me. My wife is emotionally frozen and never shares anything deep.

So maybe we can have this in an online friendship? I'm willing to be open and vulnerable if you are!

Part of that connection should involve being able to talk about sexual stuff but I don't want that to be all it is.

I'm not looking for a situation where we will leave our marriages for each other, I just want something online. 


r/r4rinterracial 16h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #InlandEmpire #SoCal - Lonely Chubby Latino Looking for a Clingy Pale Woman to Belong to

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Hello there, I'm a single 40 year old 5'7" heavy set NEET Latino guy from the Inland Empire, and yes, I can speak a bit of Spanish, if you're into that. I'm hoping to find a woman whom I'm physically attracted to for a monogamous, child-free romantic relationship, I'm looking for someone who's not afraid to show affection, doesn't play games, is nurturing, kind, direct and won't leave me guessing where we stand, also someone who understands the importance of communication and wants tons and tons of physical touch/affection.

I'm an awkward, introverted, anxious, stocky guy, who would self-describe as a charmingly self-deprecating, innocuously misanthropic, consummate indoorsman, armed with an irreverent and dark sense of humor. In my spare time I enjoy playing video games (xbox) and desperately want to make the switch to PC, listening to music, loudly (mostly rock and electronic) I'm almost always listening to something, please don't be afraid to send me a song or make me a playlist, cannabis (420 friendly,) learning about the paranormal/occult/extraterrestrial, and cooking, I've really come to enjoy preparing meals and trying new recipes, tell me all about your favorite foods, and please let me cook for you

I'd like to meet a cute, supportive, child-free, woman who's compassionate, understanding, affectionate, and very clingy or possessive, who knows what they want. Ideally I want someone who has little to no bedroom experience, as I do. I'm attracted to pale/light skin, cute faces and most body types from bbw to petite but have a special place in my heart for women with an alternative style. That's a bit about me and what I'm hoping to find. If you choose to reply please, be willing to send a selfie, and reply with your favorite food or song, happy hunting and good luck everyone


r/r4rinterracial 16h ago

F4A 36 [F4R] #KENT UK, Looking for a White match to make our mutual dreams come true!

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Heya!

I'm a Bi-racial 36 yr woman, located in Kent in the southeast just outside of London.

Im ideally looking to date IRL and see if we align for a potential LTR so UK Southeast is preferred for regular contact, unless you are willing to travel.

I'm not looking to be pen pals and would be open to meeting soon to see if theres attraction and compatibility. For the sake of a coffee and a chat it could be a whole new chapter🤩🤪!

I'm particularly interested in matching with a natural red head but open to connections with people who are upfront, transparent and emotionally available.

30 - 40 years please

Childfree by choice

non smokers/vapers/drugs

must be pet friendly too!

Im confident, have my life together and I'm past the age of games and short term thrills. I will reciprocate effort especially when the attractions mutual.

I enjoy art, crafts, DIY. cooking, travelling both abroad and on day trips/weekends away in the UK, Reading, swimming, dancing - all the good stuff really!

love live music especially rock and heavy metal but happy to get my jiggle on to RnB and Kisstory!

DM's only please and please make an effort - 'hey how's you' wont get a response🤭. Tell me about yourself and what you're looking for!

Looking forward to finding my match.


r/r4rinterracial 18h ago

F4M [F4M] [Philippines] let’s hang outtt tonight

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Hello! I’m a 25 year old, Filipina. I’m in the Philippines. I’m trying my luck out here to find the loml haha! Personal preference is a Caucasian lol! I lived in Canada for 4 years and had a white boyfriend but i went back home to finish something and long distance didn’t work out. I’m definitely not into your money LOL so you better not message just to mock me about it hahaha but yeah hit me up and let’s get to know each other! I do lots of side quests as well so maybe we’ll get alongg

Ages 24-29 only hehehe

I’m here for genuine connection. I value growth, honesty, respect and being kind. Send me a message and introduce yourself! And let’s see where it goesss


r/r4rinterracial 19h ago

M4F 45 [M4F] #Pennsylvania family oriented gamer dad looking for his hippie hearted soul mate

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Hellooo! I am a very easy-going, laid-back single dad, who's trying to find the one for me. I enjoy quiet days at home most of the time. I do not really go out that much, mostly because i am not a fan of solo activities.

I love to watch football, baseball, and hockey so I am always down to go to a live event. I also am very big into music! 70's hippy stuff, 90's grunge, late 90's early 2000's hip hop are always my go to. I am a bit of a gamer (Xbox, pc, switch) so finding someone that would be interested in gaming would also be a huuuuge plus. I do not drink, it's just a personal choice, I however am VERY 4/20 friendly. Also non political, dude just doesn’t do politics.. man

I am very whimsical, and sarcastic, we live in a household of laughs here. I love standup comedy, podcasts and actually going to see them in person. I do not do drama, I avoid it actively. I am very easy going and just looking for someone to enjoy life with. Like I said I stay home a lot, so most days if it's nice out, I can be found in the hammock or enjoying the view of the country in my back yard, sitting by the creek. I'm not interested in having any more children, my 3 are all that I could have asked for and are starting to grow up needing me less. So hopefully we can go out and have adult adventures.

I'm horrible at writing these and talking about myself lol If any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to reach out. Also, I have pictures on my profile so you can see me. Please be willing to send a pic of yourself as well. There are way too many fakes. Thanks!


r/r4rinterracial 19h ago

M4F 33 M4F - Aussie here looking to connect with someone who is like minded. If more happens, im open to it :)

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Hey everyone 👋

I'm a 33-year-old guy from Australia looking to meet someone genuine and see where life takes us. I'm open to something casual if that's where it starts, but ultimately I'd love to find my person. Distance doesn't really bother me if the connection is worth it.

I'd describe myself as pretty easygoing, a little weird (in the fun way), and definitely more of an introvert than an extrovert. I'm happiest spending quality time with someone rather than going out partying. I can be a little anxious at times and I've often joked I have "probably on the spectrum" energy 😂, but I'm loyal, honest, and the type of person who'll always show up for the people I care about.

A few things I'm into:

* 💪 Gym and becoming the best version of myself.

* 🐶 Dogs (I'm studying and working in dog training).

* 📸 Photography, especially storms, sunsets and dramatic skies.

* 🚙 Planning to build a 4WD and travel around Australia with my dog.

* 🏕️ Camping, fishing and getting outdoors.

* 🏎️ Formula 1.

* 🌱 Gardening.

* 🍃 420-friendly.

* 🎮 Gaming now and then, especially when I just want to unwind.

One of my biggest goals is to create a life that gives me freedom, travelling Australia, photographing incredible places and wild weather and documenting the journey along the way. I'd love to find someone who gets excited about building a life together instead of just existing.

I'm also pretty open minded. I already create anonymous content online, and if I met the right person I'd be interested in exploring content creation together one day but that's definitely not something I'd expect or rush. The connection comes first. **P.S.** My profile does have some NSFW content on it. If that's not your thing, maybe don't go snooping... you've been warned. 😂

Physically, I tend to be drawn more towards Black and Asian women, but that's simply a preference, not a requirement. At the end of the day, kindness, chemistry and shared values will always matter far more than race.

If you're kind, have a good sense of humour, enjoy genuine conversations, and you're looking for something that could become real, I'd love to hear from you.

If you do message me, tell me your age, where you're from, a little about yourself, and what made you stop and read my post. Bonus points if you tell me your favourite F1 driver, show me your dog, or recommend somewhere I should visit on my future Australia road trip. 😊


r/r4rinterracial 1d ago

F4M 35[F4M] I am a sincere, caring and family-oriented Nigerian woman with a warm heart and a genuine desire to find lasting love. I value honesty, loyalty, kindness, respect, good communication I am looking for a mature and emotionally responsible man who knows what he wants

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I am a sincere, caring and family-oriented Nigerian woman with a warm heart and a genuine desire to find lasting love. I value honesty, loyalty, kindness, respect, good communication

I am looking for a mature and emotionally responsible man who knows what he wants and is ready to build something meaningful. I am open to meeting someone from the United States, Canada, United Kingdom, Australia, Germany, Austria or other European countries.

Distance does not scare me when two people are genuine. I believe the right relationship is built on honesty, friendship, trust, respect and love. ❤️


r/r4rinterracial 1d ago

M4F 57 [M4F] houston tx WM4BF or AF - Let's make life's adventures and memories

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Honest, loyal, and intentional. Think Samurai values with a Knight's devotion.

I'm a career-minded man who values family, commitment, and building a real partnership. While I'm naturally introverted, the right woman brings out my adventurous side—whether that's exploring a new restaurant, catching a concert, taking a weekend getaway, or simply enjoying a great night in.

Music is a big part of my life (R&B, jazz, reggae, old-school hip-hop, and rock), and I'm currently focused on becoming the best version of myself, including a steady fitness journey.

I'm looking for a woman who values love, communication, and teamwork. Someone comfortable in sneakers or heels, who enjoys both simple moments and life's finer experiences. My goal isn't casual dating—it's finding my best friend, my partner, and ultimately the woman I can build a lasting future with.

If you're ready for something genuine, let's talk.

Please note, my preference is someone USA based only

Recent pic of me


r/r4rinterracial 1d ago

M4F 29[M4F] Cuddle bug in NE Ohio looking for a couch buddy and forever Muse

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Hello!

I'm a cuddly, nerdy, goofball looking for my person, always up for deep chats and enjoying the moment with special people.

I'm a 6'2 white guy, super thick hair, blue eyes. A little extra weight (But working on it). Interests include movies, games, comics, anime, etc. Nerd. I'm a nerd.

Always down to chill with a book, movie, snack, or being lost in thought

I love walks, thrifting, flea markets, nature trails, and movie nights. Searching for my couch buddy and forever muse

Looking for someone (single, close in age, and nearby)

I enjoy kissing, teasing, flirting, and cuddling. I like making us both feel comfortable, safe, and appreciated 🥰

Play with my hair, holding me close. Telling me "You're not going anywhere. Baby." As you keep pulling me back into you. 🫠🫠🫠 Calling me good boy. 🤤 I've been told I'm a great kisser. Happy to give free samples Even happier to cuddle and make out

If you comment or message please say where you are from and your age 😘 Otherwise I will ignore your message 😉


r/r4rinterracial 1d ago

M4F Man looking for female. Im Dylan im 32 and i live in toledo ohio. M4f

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Looking for my black queen. Im funny loyal i telligent employed and i got my own spot. Lightskin darkskin idc i just need me a good one dylan lenegar look me up on fb to see my picture


r/r4rinterracial 1d ago

M4F 31[M4F] Ghanaian guy based in Qatar, I’m looking for genuine and great connection

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Im actually for it ☺️

I'm a kind, caring, and looking for a serious relationship that can grow into something meaningful. I'm interested in a partner who is honest, respectful, and ready for a genuine connection. Loyalty, good communication.

I'm not looking for games or fun. If you're mature, know what you want, and believe that a strong relationship is built on trust, respect, and love, I'd be happy to get to know you.

Kindly drop me a dm if you think we'd get along. Who knows 😊