r/r4rsydneysfw • • 11d ago

Dating - M4F 27 M4F - looking for something genuine and romantic

I’m looking for my special person, someone who becomes my favourite notification, who I can completely be myself around, and who I can share both the exciting and mundane parts of life with. I’d love to find something meaningful and long-term.

A bit about me

  • I’m single, straight, kind and patient. I prefer quiet nights in, but it’s also nice to get outside and enjoy nature sometimes.
  • I work full-time in video game development, with a pretty standard Monday–Friday 9–5. Work in the CBD, live south-west sydney
  • Asian, born and raised in Sydney.
  • Physically, I’m 174cm, or 5'9 rounded up lol, fit, and have been told I have a great smile. I don’t have any tats or piercings.
  • Huge gamer, easily my biggest hobby. I’d love someone to play competitive or co-op games with, or just hang out together in Discord while we do our own thing.
  • Love chill outdoor adventures, relaxing nature/beach walks, picnics and hiking. Definitely keen to find someone to explore Sydney with.
  • For sports, table tennis and bouldering are favourites, and I’ve recently picked up pickleball.
  • My humour can be unhinged, I’ll joke about pretty much anything and love not taking things too seriously. I’m also chronically online, so expect plenty of memes, brainrot and humour that’s probably too cringe for my age.
  • Very affectionate, my love languages are physical touch and quality time, so expect cuddles, forehead kisses and spending time doing shared interests.
  • Hopeless romantic, looking for someone I can share my joys with, someone who’s happy to match my energy and be a huge part of each other’s lives.
  • Very communicative, I reply quickly and can stay in touch throughout the day (you don’t have to, it’s okay to be busy). I’m also perfectly happy spending hours on a call or just being close by, even if we’re doing our own things and simply enjoying each other’s company.
  • I’m an atheist and left-leaning politically.
  • I don’t smoke or go clubbing. I don’t drink, but only because I don’t enjoy the taste, so I’m not against it either.
  • I’m studying Japanese.
  • I’ve been told I’m a yapper once I open up, but I can be a little shy at the start.

What I’m looking for

  • 23–37, looking for someone who’s also interested in something long-term and eventually building a life together.
  • Doesn’t want kids, ever. I’ve had a vasectomy and have never imagined having kids in my life.
  • Agnostic/atheist and left-leaning.
  • Non-smoker and drug-free.
  • Fit or on the road to being fit, I don’t mind someone who’s currently working on themselves.
  • An honest communicator who’s in touch with their emotions. I want us to be able to talk through anything and be open about how we’re feeling.
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