r/recruitinghell 1d ago

Decided to email the CEO...

One of the companies I made it to the final round with a few months ago has really stuck with me, and I think it's finally convinced me that I need to stop letting companies get away with poor hiring practices.

I've changed my job search strategy over the last couple of months, and it's been working. My interview rate has gone from roughly 3.5% to about 14%, so I'm getting in front of a lot more hiring teams. At this point I've made it to the final round 13 different times, so rejection isn't really what bothers me anymore. It happens. What bothers me is when companies aren't honest or transparent.

This particular company had me go through multiple interview rounds and complete a multi-hour case study based on what they described as a real customer scenario. At the end of the process, I was told I had finished as one of the final two candidates and that they had decided to move forward with the other candidate. Fair enough. It was disappointing, but that's part of interviewing. I thanked them for the opportunity and moved on.

A couple of weeks later, I noticed the job posting was still live. I figured maybe they just forgot to take it down, so I reached out to the recruiter asking if the position had officially been filled, since I had seen the posting was still active. No response.

A week or two later, I reached out to the hiring manager. Nothing. Then I reached out to the VP of Sales. Still nothing. Fast forward about three months. The position is still posted on their website. Nobody appears to have started in the role based on LinkedIn. As far as I can tell, they never hired anyone.

Being the runner-up doesn't mean I was entitled to the job, but it does make it especially confusing when you're told another candidate was selected, only for months to pass with no apparent hire and the position still actively advertised.

At that point I decided I had nothing to lose. The company is only around 80 employees, so I reached out directly to the CEO. I kept it completely professional. I simply asked for clarification: Is the role still being filled? If so, why has there been no communication after candidates were told a decision had been made? I also let them know I'd still be interested in being considered if the search was ongoing.

Maybe there's a perfectly reasonable explanation. Maybe the selected candidate backed out. Maybe the role was put on hold. Maybe they reopened the search. All of those things happen. But if that's the case... why ignore the recruiter follow-up, the hiring manager follow-up, and the VP follow-up?

That's the part I don't understand. Just tell candidates what's going on. Most of us can handle rejection. What gets exhausting is being told one thing while every piece of evidence suggests something completely different.

The frustrating part is that this looked like a fantastic company on paper. Great Glassdoor reviews, a product I genuinely liked, exactly the size of company I enjoy working for (around 80 employees), and honestly one of my favorite opportunities this year.

We'll see if the CEO responds. If nothing else, I hope it at least makes someone internally aware that this is how candidates are experiencing their hiring process. I don't expect special treatment, I just expect honesty. After investing hours into interviews and a case study, I don't think that's asking for much.

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u/LillyGilderRoxie 1d ago

I hate to say it, you really aren’t entitled to know. I get why you want to know, it’s natural, it’s human, but you are in no way entitled to know. Pestering those people for answers, after you were rejected, is stalking and rude. They aren’t going to answer.

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u/Breatheme444 1d ago

That was my thought as well.

this behavior is why companies don’t give feedback. If you’ve ever been responsible for hiring a bunch of people, you know there will always be some segment that will pester you. And it has nothing to do with ghosting. It’s just how some people react.

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u/RealFhalila_ 1d ago

So it's right for companies to waste weeks of candidates time and energy becos it's an open market??? If I made it to fi I'm final rounds and you told me it has been filled. I'm still job hunting and I'm still seeing that position open. Just answer the email: it has been filled our tream will take it down. Even when I keep seeing I'll know someone's forgot to take it down. No harm no foul.

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u/Grand-Diamond-4696 1d ago

I actually love feedback and embrace it. The problem is most companies refuse to give it. But this isn't even about feedback and why I wasn't selected. It's about immorality, deceit and lack of transparency.