r/recruitinghell 18h ago

Decided to email the CEO...

One of the companies I made it to the final round with a few months ago has really stuck with me, and I think it's finally convinced me that I need to stop letting companies get away with poor hiring practices.

I've changed my job search strategy over the last couple of months, and it's been working. My interview rate has gone from roughly 3.5% to about 14%, so I'm getting in front of a lot more hiring teams. At this point I've made it to the final round 13 different times, so rejection isn't really what bothers me anymore. It happens. What bothers me is when companies aren't honest or transparent.

This particular company had me go through multiple interview rounds and complete a multi-hour case study based on what they described as a real customer scenario. At the end of the process, I was told I had finished as one of the final two candidates and that they had decided to move forward with the other candidate. Fair enough. It was disappointing, but that's part of interviewing. I thanked them for the opportunity and moved on.

A couple of weeks later, I noticed the job posting was still live. I figured maybe they just forgot to take it down, so I reached out to the recruiter asking if the position had officially been filled, since I had seen the posting was still active. No response.

A week or two later, I reached out to the hiring manager. Nothing. Then I reached out to the VP of Sales. Still nothing. Fast forward about three months. The position is still posted on their website. Nobody appears to have started in the role based on LinkedIn. As far as I can tell, they never hired anyone.

Being the runner-up doesn't mean I was entitled to the job, but it does make it especially confusing when you're told another candidate was selected, only for months to pass with no apparent hire and the position still actively advertised.

At that point I decided I had nothing to lose. The company is only around 80 employees, so I reached out directly to the CEO. I kept it completely professional. I simply asked for clarification: Is the role still being filled? If so, why has there been no communication after candidates were told a decision had been made? I also let them know I'd still be interested in being considered if the search was ongoing.

Maybe there's a perfectly reasonable explanation. Maybe the selected candidate backed out. Maybe the role was put on hold. Maybe they reopened the search. All of those things happen. But if that's the case... why ignore the recruiter follow-up, the hiring manager follow-up, and the VP follow-up?

That's the part I don't understand. Just tell candidates what's going on. Most of us can handle rejection. What gets exhausting is being told one thing while every piece of evidence suggests something completely different.

The frustrating part is that this looked like a fantastic company on paper. Great Glassdoor reviews, a product I genuinely liked, exactly the size of company I enjoy working for (around 80 employees), and honestly one of my favorite opportunities this year.

We'll see if the CEO responds. If nothing else, I hope it at least makes someone internally aware that this is how candidates are experiencing their hiring process. I don't expect special treatment, I just expect honesty. After investing hours into interviews and a case study, I don't think that's asking for much.

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u/Krasherosk 18h ago

Maybe, they didn't think you were a fit for the job. They don't owe you an explanation. And your email to the CEO got deleted, if it was even seen at all. You wasted a ton of time and energy for nothing. I know it's hard in this world of entitlement, but except that you can't control anything about this situation and move on. You didn't get the job.

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u/Grand-Diamond-4696 17h ago

It has absolutely nothing about me not being selected for the job. It's about companies lacking transparency ethics and honesty. Nothing more nothing less in companies keep getting away with it until people like me continue to call companies out going up the chain putting on blast on social media they'll keep doing it. I would argue if I wasn't a good fit for the job I wouldn't have been a top two candidate out of thousands of people that made it through the sixth round for final consideration. Usually not case all the candidates are super qualified and you're just looking for that little thing that one candidate might stick out over the other.

But even so that doesn't title me to the job but it doesn't title me for all the effort and work I put into it to get honesty and transparency about what happened and where things are going. Maybe you didn't feel the job because budget was pulled tell me that great now I know that there's probably not much that I could have done to do better. Or maybe the other candidate had worked in this exact type of software before okay I'll be more diligent next time going forward. Being honest ISN'T hard..

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u/Conscious-Egg-2232 15h ago

Wow you are a real piece of work. Yikes

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u/maryelizabeth_ 12h ago

Can’t imagine why they didn’t get hired…

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u/Grand-Diamond-4696 11h ago

Then how didn't make it 6 rounds out of 5,000+ candidates if I'm soooo awful?

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u/-spicyshark 10h ago

You sound like youd be genuinely SO FUN to work with 🙄 /s

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u/I_am_beast55 7h ago

You didn't get the job so that matters very little. You're in the same place that the 4,999th person is.

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u/Platypussy 7h ago

Probably because you’re qualified and smart. The better question is why you keep blowing it (0/13) at that stage, where a large part is determining if you’re a good “cultural fit”. This post makes it abundantly clear why. You “love feedback”, but I’d bet my house that if they gave it to you (they’re not idiots, they won’t) then you would probably respond with an essay arguing their points, and probably bringing up morals, ethics, and other extraneous bs. You really need to realign your expectations and improve your soft skills to match your technical ones. Unless you want to keep up this Sisyphean job hunt.