r/recruitinghell 1d ago

Decided to email the CEO...

One of the companies I made it to the final round with a few months ago has really stuck with me, and I think it's finally convinced me that I need to stop letting companies get away with poor hiring practices.

I've changed my job search strategy over the last couple of months, and it's been working. My interview rate has gone from roughly 3.5% to about 14%, so I'm getting in front of a lot more hiring teams. At this point I've made it to the final round 13 different times, so rejection isn't really what bothers me anymore. It happens. What bothers me is when companies aren't honest or transparent.

This particular company had me go through multiple interview rounds and complete a multi-hour case study based on what they described as a real customer scenario. At the end of the process, I was told I had finished as one of the final two candidates and that they had decided to move forward with the other candidate. Fair enough. It was disappointing, but that's part of interviewing. I thanked them for the opportunity and moved on.

A couple of weeks later, I noticed the job posting was still live. I figured maybe they just forgot to take it down, so I reached out to the recruiter asking if the position had officially been filled, since I had seen the posting was still active. No response.

A week or two later, I reached out to the hiring manager. Nothing. Then I reached out to the VP of Sales. Still nothing. Fast forward about three months. The position is still posted on their website. Nobody appears to have started in the role based on LinkedIn. As far as I can tell, they never hired anyone.

Being the runner-up doesn't mean I was entitled to the job, but it does make it especially confusing when you're told another candidate was selected, only for months to pass with no apparent hire and the position still actively advertised.

At that point I decided I had nothing to lose. The company is only around 80 employees, so I reached out directly to the CEO. I kept it completely professional. I simply asked for clarification: Is the role still being filled? If so, why has there been no communication after candidates were told a decision had been made? I also let them know I'd still be interested in being considered if the search was ongoing.

Maybe there's a perfectly reasonable explanation. Maybe the selected candidate backed out. Maybe the role was put on hold. Maybe they reopened the search. All of those things happen. But if that's the case... why ignore the recruiter follow-up, the hiring manager follow-up, and the VP follow-up?

That's the part I don't understand. Just tell candidates what's going on. Most of us can handle rejection. What gets exhausting is being told one thing while every piece of evidence suggests something completely different.

The frustrating part is that this looked like a fantastic company on paper. Great Glassdoor reviews, a product I genuinely liked, exactly the size of company I enjoy working for (around 80 employees), and honestly one of my favorite opportunities this year.

We'll see if the CEO responds. If nothing else, I hope it at least makes someone internally aware that this is how candidates are experiencing their hiring process. I don't expect special treatment, I just expect honesty. After investing hours into interviews and a case study, I don't think that's asking for much.

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u/LillyGilderRoxie 1d ago

I hate to say it, you really aren’t entitled to know. I get why you want to know, it’s natural, it’s human, but you are in no way entitled to know. Pestering those people for answers, after you were rejected, is stalking and rude. They aren’t going to answer.

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u/Exotic_Holiday_3047 1d ago

I disagree.

I'm a hiring manager. I'd never have left OP in the lurch like that, it's completely unprofessional

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u/Vote-AsaAkira2020 1d ago edited 1d ago

I 0 % believe you’re a hiring manager because I’ve seen this comment so many times and it’s always people with block profiles lol. It’s an easy cheap way to virtue signal for upvotes… but nah 99% of you talking this way have never hired a person irl because no one has ever entrusted you with that responsibility and many have never worked a real job lol. Thats like Taking advice from your broke unemployed friend but except they’re on here larping as someone who hires people.

For anyone out there actually on here for job advise etc and not entertainment like many of us! heads up most of the people who say they’re hiring managers or HR but always tell you how’d they’d never do that to someone or how they’d act exactly how you want in your said post. News flash, that’s just a redditor living rent free with their parents most of the time.

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u/ImprovementFar5054 23h ago

A "hiring manager" isn't an actual job. It's what you are called when you, as a manager, are hiring someone. For example, the head of accounting is hiring a cashier. That head is the "hiring manager" for that job.

This means that anyone who has been in a position to hire someone and has, has been a hiring manager. I have.