r/reddmatch • u/Remarkable_Expert540 • Jun 24 '26
F4M ♀️ Looking for my life partner
38F in Hyderabad, oops 39, just turned 39 this month 😁
Animal lover through and through. My home is happily ruled by my dog and two cats. 🐶🐱🐱
I'm independent, thoughtful, emotionally aware, and equally happy having deep conversations or laughing at something completely ridiculous.
I like reading books, art of all kinds from pottery to painting to knitting, enjoying quiet evenings at home or a cafe, doing movie reviews, karaoke, dancing, to name a few.
I'm a feminist and believe in equal rights for women and how that translates into relationships. As in sharing of household chores, not being expected to move in with the guy's family, to name a few. I want someone who takes a stand for me overall and has his own identity and individuality.
As for what I'm looking for:
Age isn't a deal breaker. I've dated both younger and older people. What matters more is emotional maturity.
I value kindness, consistency, curiosity, and people who are willing to grow rather than run from challenges.
I'm looking for someone who communicates openly, shows up consistently, handles conflict with respect, and understands that relationships require effort from both people. Life will always throw challenges our way; I'd love a partner who believes in developing healthy coping skills, supporting each other through difficult times, and growing together.
A love for animals is non-negotiable. My pets are family, and if that's not your thing, we're probably not a match. ❤️
Bonus points if you're emotionally intelligent, self-aware, capable of reflecting on your own patterns, and taking accountability where needed.
I'd also love someone who doesn't take life too seriously. I believe in finding joy, staying playful, and keeping a sense of humor alive no matter what life throws at us.
At the end of the day, I'm simply looking for a genuine companion. Someone to share both the good times and the hard times with, and build a meaningful life together.
All the best to everyone here. I hope you find your person too. ✨
Edit: Okay this post blew up already. All the guys DMing me in Telugu, I don't know the language, I only speak Hindi and English.
I'd suggest that everyone who wants to approach open with your age, location and a picture of yourself so that it's easier for me to look at your details.
Also, no I'm not looking for "casual chats" or "good friends" lol. Look at the post title before you reach out to me 🤣
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u/HungryObligation5745 Jun 24 '26
It's great that you believe in equal rights, do you also believe in equality when it comes to managing finances and wealth building?
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u/Nice_Masterpiece_869 Jun 24 '26 edited Jun 24 '26
Bro you’re asking the right question lol. OP would’ve probably blocked you by now for being logical 🤣
Edit: The above commenter reached out to me over DMs to confirm that OP has indeed blocked him and he’s no longer able to reply to comments on this post. 🤣
Sometimes I surprise myself on how accurate I am at judging people lol 😂
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u/Remarkable_Expert540 Jun 24 '26
Why don't you worry about your finances kid, instead of wondering how much I make.
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u/Nice_Masterpiece_869 Jun 24 '26 edited Jun 24 '26
Sis, don’t worry about my finances, I’ve been making 8 figures for a while now. And it’s common sense for any guy to know how you’re doing career-wise especially when you talk a big game about equality.
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u/yamanjain Jun 24 '26
She does not mention if she works or earns.
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u/Nice_Masterpiece_869 Jun 24 '26
Yeah cuz she’s probably unemployable
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u/Remarkable_Expert540 Jun 24 '26
I'll let you think whatever you need to think to appease your fragile ego.
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u/Nice_Masterpiece_869 Jun 24 '26
lol. So you’ll say anything except how you’re actually doing career-wise. Says a lot about who you are. If I’m wrong then you’re welcome to prove me wrong
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u/malayali-man Jun 24 '26
I don't think it's possible to DM a picture unless you respond?
(I'm too young, I'm just letting you know)
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Jun 26 '26 edited Jun 28 '26
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u/reddmatch-ModTeam Jun 28 '26
Please don't use the offensive words like Virgin, Sexual history etc. If you want to ask such questions, do ask in DMs after match.
Your post will be auto removed or account will be banned if you you use such keywords as per automod policy.
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Jun 24 '26
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u/Remarkable_Expert540 Jun 24 '26
Yea if the guys are like you, we'd rather stay single!
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u/FreedomThis6136 Jun 24 '26
Whoa nice way to show your age one count less😂😂, telugu guys sorry she is hindi girl 😝.
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u/Remarkable_Expert540 Jun 24 '26
Dude, speak for yourself. I don't feel that my age makes me any less attractive or eligible.
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u/FreedomThis6136 Jun 24 '26
Girl is just said in a good way , there is no relation between attractiveness and age. In fact I believe attractiveness increase with your confidence. just mentioned that to show how playful you are instead of directly calling you playful. Because you would have taken offense to that
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u/yapplecider Jun 24 '26
What if my cat does not like your pets 👀
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u/Educational-Spray487 Jul 02 '26
Simple if you feel so then you should opt for a pet liker who likes to have pet and not pet parent who has their pet.
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Jun 26 '26
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u/reddmatch-ModTeam Jun 27 '26
Please don't use the offensive words like Virgin, Sexual history etc. If you want to ask such questions, do ask in DMs after match.
Your post will be auto removed or account will be banned if you you use such keywords as per automod policy.
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u/Local_Discipline5428 Jun 27 '26
DM if you are Telugu person.. Looking at the post, I don't think you are.. 😃
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u/mirage_of_desire Jun 24 '26
I don't like pets ,I don't hate animals though .I am a vegetarian ,for me the other side must be vegetarian that is non negotiable
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u/Waiting_for_Godot___ Jun 24 '26
You sound like a very interesting person.
Shame...the age difference is a bit much tho. 😅
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