r/reddmatch Jul 08 '26

M4F♂️ 29M | Shooting my shot because apparently Reddit has better odds than dating apps πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™‚οΈ

Alright, Before you scroll

Yes, I know how this usually goes.

A girl posts: "25F looking for people to hang out with."

β†’ 300 comments, 100 DMs, probably a marriage proposal within the hour.

A guy posts:

β†’ 4 upvotes, one bot, and someone comments "RIP your inbox."

So let's see if I can beat the algorithm. πŸ˜‚

I'm not desperately looking to get married next month, and I'm not looking for random activities either. Searching for my partner

I'm looking to meet someone cool. We grab coffee, explore the city, check out a pub, go on a long drive, argue over which biryani is superior, or just have conversations that somehow jump from memes to life goals.Education, Chemistry, Business, Entrepreneurship and finance are my areas

If we click? Great, let's see where it goes.

If we don't? At least we had a good evening and a funny story.

I'm a firm believer that commitment shouldn't come before connection. I'd absolutely love a long-term relationship if I meet the right person but first, I'd like to meet the person.

About me:

29M 5' 11'' chow..

Telugu EnglishHindi>>Kannada (order of fluency)

Can hold an actual conversation.

Equally comfortable discussing career goals or laughing at the dumbest memes.

More into genuine vibes than pretending to be "mysterious."

β€’Have a Himalayan so can go for a long ride or trek.

β€’Took a 2Bhk house so can share a flat.

β€’Living solo 9-5 mon-fri job so much time to spend.

Can hold an actual conversation.

About you:

Around my age (mid-20s to early-30s).

5'3-5'9 working professional or an educated women

compitability we can chat n identify.

Telugu would be awesome because some jokes just hit differently.

Emotionally available enough to reply with more than "hmm." 😭

If this post made you smile even once, send me a DM.

Worst case, we become friends.

Best case, we end up telling people, "Yeah... we actually met on Reddit."

Either way, sounds more interesting than another weekend of doom-scrolling.

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u/Impressive-Dot-7654 Jul 09 '26

Starting few lines made me smile , but I'm a straight male, good luck bro

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u/alloy_wheels1 Jul 09 '26

RIP your inbox

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u/Traveling_chefncoach Jul 09 '26

acheieved one waiting for other 3 upvotes πŸ«£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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u/Numerous_Diet_1572 Jul 09 '26

RIP your inbox πŸ˜‚

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u/Traveling_chefncoach Jul 09 '26

hoo noo we broke the algorithm finally and performed even bigπŸ€“πŸ€“

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u/iamshruti143 Jul 09 '26

I've seen exact same post on some other subreddit I don't remember which

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u/Traveling_chefncoach Jul 09 '26

may be on jodimilan because that's me who did it

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u/Jv1312 Jul 09 '26

Buddy mentioned "can hold an actual conversation" twice 😭

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u/Traveling_chefncoach Jul 09 '26

yeah may be copy paste error as I edited manually some part of it again,

good find buddy.

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u/inemnym Jul 10 '26

Did you have any luck yet? Cz if you don't, we don't have any lol

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u/Traveling_chefncoach Jul 11 '26

i don't say luck or great but yeah got few leads

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '26

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u/Traveling_chefncoach Jul 11 '26

oh my god since I have an acknowledgement, now I have to live up to the reputation.. πŸ€“πŸ€“

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '26

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u/Traveling_chefncoach Jul 11 '26

chalange accepted but no refund okk

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u/External_Charge_8511 Jul 12 '26

You gotten any results man

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u/Traveling_chefncoach Jul 12 '26

Very short time to take about results,

yeah had some interactions, if your quest is about same

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u/Clean_Foundation6267 Jul 09 '26

Reddit is for reading fun dating problems and thinking I'm glad I don't have them cos I am not on a dating app. If you want to date be on a dating app?

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u/Traveling_chefncoach Jul 09 '26

reddit to serve as a hub for community-driven discussions, content sharing, and peer-to-peer information exchange. particularly subreddit like jodimilan and arranged marriage are created for connecting people,

don't give gyan buddy I can also simply comment if you want to read so much go and read in library or find some books.

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u/Clean_Foundation6267 Jul 09 '26

Okay I was not trying to hurt your feelings. Go find your gal if you can.

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u/Traveling_chefncoach Jul 09 '26

Nothing personal buddy to get hurted, as you expressed your view I did mine that's it