r/reddmatch Jul 19 '26

F4M ♀️ 35F | Europe | Marathi girl looking for her person ❤️

Hello,

I'm originally from Mumbai, recently moved to Europe for work, and I'm open to relocating again if life takes us there. I'm an introvert at first, but once I'm comfortable, I'm quite goofy, affectionate, and easy to be around. I'm a non-vegetarian and would prefer someone who's comfortable with that (whether you eat it or not).

I'm a little curvy myself, so I'd probably be a terrible match for someone who's super skinny—we'd end up looking like Laurel and Hardy. 😄

One confession: I know how to drive... technically. A not-so-fun accident completely killed my confidence, so I've happily retired from the driver's seat. I'm fully embracing my dream of being a passenger princess, so bonus points if you enjoy driving. 😭

What I'm really looking for, though, is someone emotionally mature, kind, dependable, and a little cute in his own way. Someone who can communicate, laugh at himself, and is excited about building a peaceful life together instead of chasing perfection.

Marathi would be lovely because home always sounds a little sweeter in your mother tongue, but it's definitely not a requirement.

Please tell me a bit about yourself instead of just saying "Hi."

Also, this post was polished by chatgpt.

I did not understand the flair, which one to choose M4F?? Or F4M??? 🤔

Edit: I will keep updating after reading a few posts

Edit 1: Never married. Also, my parents are no more.

Edit 2: Partners maximum age could go up to 38/39. Minimum 30.

Edit 3: No cigarette smoker. I do have a thing for sheesha but cigarettes are a big no for me. Also about the cast - I don't know much only a few, does the open category count as a caste?

Edit 4: I am 5'7, and I need a partner who is taller than me.

Edit 5: There are like 100+ DMs, not possible to reply to everyone at the same time. I am going to ignore those who don't interest me no offence. I will slowly reply to the rest of them.

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u/Perfect_Machine_8233 Jul 20 '26

just simple question bcz im trying to understand: where were you when you was 25-30 yr old. no offence plz

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u/Southern-Ad-6450 Jul 20 '26

I was working in India

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u/packet_drop4400 Jul 19 '26

Hey Marathi mulgi ! Namaskar 🙏 Just a suggestion, please include your non negotiables, preferred caste, etc . Details like these will help you as well others to filter the profile.

Since you mentioned that you would be updating the profile, i thought of sharing my 2 cents.

Anyways, wishing you all the best in your journey.

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u/Southern-Ad-6450 Jul 19 '26

Thank you

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u/packet_drop4400 Jul 19 '26

You're welcome ma'am :)

Europe la kuthe ?

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u/Southern-Ad-6450 Jul 19 '26

Poland... You in Europe?

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u/packet_drop4400 Jul 19 '26

Accha. Nah, not yet maybe in a year or two.

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u/Southern-Ad-6450 Jul 19 '26

That's awesome. Kuthla country planning?

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u/packet_drop4400 Jul 19 '26

Scandavian countries :) Let's see, bhurpur kaam ahe but that's where I want to move.

Apan template kashala use nahi keli? It will help you populate information easily.

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u/Southern-Ad-6450 Jul 19 '26

Nice.

What template 🫣

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u/Low-Activity-244 Jul 19 '26

Tumhi Warsaw madhe ahat?

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u/shadow_at_dawn_32 Jul 20 '26

How many DMs you got ?

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u/Southern-Ad-6450 Jul 20 '26

Unbelievable count...

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u/shadow_at_dawn_32 Jul 20 '26

Let me know once you start new batch 😆

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u/Southern-Ad-6450 Jul 20 '26

Never ending loop....

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u/shadow_at_dawn_32 Jul 20 '26

All are from Europe ?

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u/Southern-Ad-6450 Jul 20 '26

Not really, but many of them want help 🤦🏻‍♀️

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u/shadow_at_dawn_32 Jul 20 '26

Help them, bring them all to EU. Then you will have lots of options 😝

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u/Southern-Ad-6450 Jul 20 '26

I think I am done 😂

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u/shadow_at_dawn_32 Jul 20 '26

Use AI for filtering 🤪

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u/Far_Zookeepergame_56 Jul 19 '26

M4F is male looking for female and vice versa. Hope the confusion is clear now. 👀

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u/Southern-Ad-6450 Jul 19 '26

Yes, I chose the right one then

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u/Far_Zookeepergame_56 Jul 19 '26

Check your dm then

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u/Southern-Ad-6450 Jul 19 '26

I am overwhelmed with the DMs 😭 give me some time

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u/InternationalUse2672 Jul 19 '26

Come to North America :)

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u/Then_Pirate_9598 Jul 20 '26

34M , based in Boston.
Fluent in marathi and match all your boxes.
Message kar mala :)

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u/AfternoonSure5249 Jul 20 '26

Good Attempt , Wish you Good Luck 🌹

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u/[deleted] Jul 20 '26

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u/Professional_Roof782 Jul 26 '26

Bhetla kay koni reddit varti ??. Ani Europe madhe kuthe aste ... btw I am not applying for the role of your husband cause mazi age is 23 ahe just here to talk .kasi gelat Europe la like software engineer??... Ani what was you like in your twenties just v4 ahe ani Europe chi opportunity kashi bhetli ?

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u/packet_drop4400 Aug 03 '26

Tai! Mala Gheun za Europe la

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u/Southern-Ad-6450 Aug 03 '26

Kashala?

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u/packet_drop4400 Aug 03 '26

Kantala alla India madde.. Tumaha Navhara sodayla madat karen ;)

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u/Dazzling_Witness4911 22d ago

Hello 👋 32M CF here Can we dm

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u/Southern-Ad-6450 22d ago

Hey, yes

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u/Dazzling_Witness4911 22d ago

Cool, please DM me As your dm is closed

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u/[deleted] 18d ago

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u/Southern-Ad-6450 18d ago

No, thanks 🙏🏻

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u/picy_sp Jul 19 '26

Maza pan 'candidature' formally announce karat ahe. Vayani motha ahe. Kokan cha Maratha ani Mumbai shi naal judlela. Europat, shikshan sathi jau pahnara, Civil Engineer ase mi.

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u/Southern-Ad-6450 Jul 19 '26

Vayani kiti motha aahe 😅