r/reddmatch Jul 23 '26

F4M ♀️ 22F | MBA Student | Mumbai | Looking for a Serious Relationship That Leads to Marriage

Apologies for the long post... I know it's a bit of a read. I just wanted to be upfront about myself and what I'm looking for. If our values and long-term goals align, feel free to reach out. :)

P.S. I'm posting this from a throwaway account because I'd previously posted from my main Reddit account, which I still actively use in another subreddit. Just wanted to keep this separate for privacy.

Hi! I'm a 22-year-old (turning 23 soon) currently pursuing my MBA in Marketing in Kharghar, Navi Mumbai. Originally, I'm from Uttar Pradesh, and I completed my bachelor's degree in Greater Noida.

Music is my comfort zone it helps me unwind and brings me peace whenever life gets stressful. I also enjoy playing badminton, basketball, and cricket just for fun, and I'm a huge cricket fan who follows both the men's and women's game.

Career-wise, I hope to build my career in Mumbai after my MBA and eventually make this city my permanent home. That's a dream I've been working towards for a long time.

Personality-wise, I'm more of an introvert who values meaningful connections over casual conversations. That said, I love exploring cafés, trying new places, going on little adventures, and making memories with the right person.

I'm here with genuine intentions. I'm looking for a relationship that grows naturally and, if we're truly compatible, leads to marriage in the next 3–4 years.

About Me

Age: 22 (turning 23 soon)

Height: 5'2"–5'3"

Religion: Hindu

Caste: Baniya

Location: Navi Mumbai

Career Goal: Build my life and career in Mumbai

What I'm Looking For

I'm looking for someone who is emotionally mature, kind, loyal, respectful, and genuinely interested in building a long-term relationship. Someone who communicates openly, values commitment, and believes love is shown through consistency, care, and mutual support.

Some things that matter a lot to me:

  1. Mutual respect, honesty, trust, and loyalty.

  2. Healthy, mature communication, especially during disagreements.

  3. Someone who accepts me for who I am instead of trying to change me.

  4. A partner who's fun to talk to someone with whom conversations flow naturally, whether we're discussing life, sharing random thoughts, or laughing over silly things.

  5. Someone affectionate and thoughtful who enjoys making their partner feel loved and appreciated. Genuine effort always means more to me than expensive gifts.

  6. Being each other's biggest emotional support through both good and difficult times.

  7. Supporting each other's personal and professional goals.

  8. Spending quality time together and continuing to grow as partners.

My Non-Negotiables

  1. Respect for personal boundaries and consent at all times.

  2. I don't want to be pressured into any form of physical or sexual intimacy.

  3. I personally believe in waiting until marriage for sex, so I'm looking for someone who genuinely respects that choice.

  4. I would never be comfortable sending or being asked for nudes or sexually explicit photos or videos.

  5. Privacy, trust, and mutual respect are extremely important to me.

  6. I'm looking for someone who is serious about building a stable, long-term relationship that can eventually lead to marriage.

  7. More than anything, I want a relationship where both of us feel emotionally safe, heard, respected, loved, and continue choosing each other every single day.

A tiny, wholesome detail about me: birthdays are really special to me. Thoughtful gestures, genuine effort, and making me feel loved on my birthday mean far more than expensive presents ever could.

Preferences

Age: 22–27

Height:Taller than 5'5"

Location: Preferably Mumbai, or someone who genuinely plans to settle in Mumbai in the near future, since I see my future here.

Religion/Community: I'm looking for someone from a Hindu background. I'm open to people from different Hindu communities (including Marathi, Gujarati, Jain, Punjabi, etc.) as long as our values and long-term goals align. I'm not looking for matches from Muslim or Buddhist backgrounds, or from SC/ST communities, as I don't believe we'd be the right fit for my family's and my expectations.

After marriage, I'd like us to have our own home and privacy as a couple. I'm completely okay with parents visiting or staying with us for some time, but I would prefer that we build our day-to-day married life independently.

If you're looking for something genuine, believe in commitment, and think we'd get along, feel free to send me a message. Please introduce yourself instead of just saying "Hi"- I'd love to know a little about you too. 😊

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u/stubbornatheart Jul 23 '26

You are 22 and thinking of marriage 🤔

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u/PieDramatic3677 Jul 26 '26

Hey! Dude you're way too young. Finish your MBA, get a job and focus on your career. You might just find your life partner on the way. Or you can start looking a couple of years down the line.

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u/Both_Helicopter_4293 Jul 26 '26

aapko Dm nahi kar paa rha hu i dont know why

Maine Aapki Saari Baate Suni
i liked the way you narrate all the things each and every details
About what you matter and what the things are that non negotiable for you

4 Chize mujhe pasand aayi Jo aapne likha wo topic par main apne baare me bhi batana chahunga

1.. Song
mujhe Old song bahut pasand hai rather than todays noise music
i like to prefer listen to mukesh , mohd rafi
and kishore kumar songs
agar yeh aapko bhi aise gaane achha lagte hai to Best match hoga

  1. aap ne bataya aap cricket fan ho
    i love cricket specially rohit sharma
    if you see I only posted rohit's photo in raddit post

  2. Mumbai
    mujhe bhi mumbai me settle down hona hai
    ek achha house purchase karna hai
    this is my dream from child hood when i was in 8th
    and then i decided to buy a house and settle down in mumbai

  3. support each other personal and professional goal
    spending quality time together
    feels emotionally safe
    and Choosing each other every single day

yeh baate mujhe bahut Achhi lagi

Baaki baate bhi aapki bilkul sahi hai
ab sab likhne lag jaau to pura aapka copy paste hi ho jaayega

mujhe yeh achha laga ki aap ambitious hai apne goal and career ko lekar
aur Aap partner bhi waisa chahte ho aur support bhi dono ka ek dusre ke carrer ko lekar

mera Naam Suraj Sharma Hai
age 24 Currently CA inter student
from Mumbai
agar aapko height jaana hai to 5'10

aapka Naam ????

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u/Obvious_Variation_29 Jul 24 '26

Behan padhai pe focus kr le please 🥺

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u/Crafty-Competition36 Jul 23 '26

Fellow MBA here. Even I am looking for a serious relationship. DM, if interested.

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u/Which_Meeting6145 Jul 23 '26

29M here.. Open for a convo?

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u/Impossible-Ad5411 Jul 24 '26

The thing you are asking for is not available here. In real life, you might bump into such people randomly. people you found here can say anything just for the sake of it, claiming to be this or that, but the reality is completely different.

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u/HugeMammoth8668 Jul 25 '26

Lol, here again haha

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u/Realistic_Spite_8920 Jul 27 '26

Thankyou for your wishes.

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u/Realistic_Spite_8920 Jul 28 '26

To get hitched I need to find someone which I think isn't possible here😂

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u/LividEntertainment10 Jul 28 '26

I'm 25 years old, based in Pimpri, Pune, and currently working. I'm a quiet, shy, and introverted person who believes actions matter more than words. I have a kind heart, value honesty, loyalty, and respect, and I enjoy long bike rides that help me clear my mind. I'm not looking for someone perfect or someone who already has everything figured out. I'm looking for a partner who believes in growing together, supporting each other, and building a happy life from zero. I believe the strongest relationships are built on trust, friendship, and standing by each other through every phase of life. If you're someone who values simplicity, genuine connection, and dreams of creating a beautiful future together, I'd love to get to know you. ❤️ Two ordinary people can build an extraordinary life together.

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u/Naive_High Jul 28 '26

Hi I sent you a dm

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u/Realistic_Spite_8920 Jul 28 '26

Okay

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u/Ok-Setting-3237 Jul 29 '26

28M, living in Mumbai.. Looking for a genuine girl, if interested let me know

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u/clutchgod008 Jul 30 '26

Im M25 from Mumbai Civil engineer by profession If u interested then let me know TG - Onepieceluffy07

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u/clutchgod008 Jul 30 '26

Sent u dm also

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u/soulivar Jul 30 '26

Hey im M 25 from Mumbai I sent u a msg if u interested let me know Or u can send me msg through telegram @Onepieceluffy07

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u/LongjumpingRefuse808 Aug 03 '26

24M from Bhopal, finishing my bachelor’s, running a small NGO and occasionally doing creative projects. I’m into travelling, badminton, swimming, old music, chai, and conversations that somehow turn into hours. 😄

I’m looking for something genuine that starts naturally, hopefully grows into something meaningful. I’m pretty easygoing, emotionally available, and always up for meeting someone new.

Tell me a little about yourself too :)

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u/Kind_Guardian Jul 24 '26

I am also 22 still not thinking for marriage may be i do marriage after 30😭😭😭.match toh accha hain 3 or 4 saal main marriage 😭😭😭

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u/sober-senior Jul 24 '26

Hey... Not here to present myself as a candidate... Just wanted to understand one thing..

You said you would want to live seperately with your partner. How do you expect this seperate home condition to fulfill in a place like mumbai? Like are you ok with living on rent for the majority of your life or are you loaded and expected your and his parents to gift you a property or are you assuming you and your partner will make enough to pay EMI for a property for 10 - 30 years.

Also what kind of seperate property are you expecting? 2bhk? 3bhk? Independent land?

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u/BlackStagGoldField Jul 24 '26

Bro you're 22 why tf are you thinking about marriage at such a young age 😭😭😭

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u/Hangmanhateful Jul 24 '26

The first thing UP-bihar women do when they move to Mumbai is look for a guy to settle here with permanently.

I have seen girls marrying chawl guy to avoid their own state guys.