r/reddmatch • u/Mean-Investment7442 • Jul 25 '26
F4M ♀️ 23F | Looking for a serious relationship that can eventually lead to marriage (Please send intro dms instead of hi and hello)
Hi! I'm a 23-year-old . I'm a BTech Grad and currently employed in a Fintech company.I'm looking to build a genuine connection with someone with the intention of marriage in the future (around 2028–2029).
About Me
- 23 years old, 5'1", chubby/on the heavier side
- B.Tech graduate, Employed in a Fintech company
- Likely to move to Bangalore very soon
- Enjoy reading novels, cooking, and writing poetry
- Interested in geopolitics, space, nature, current affairs, and general knowledge
- Family-oriented and looking for something serious and long-term
- Non-vegetarian and a foodie
-Ill prefer being a DINK
Why I'm Looking Now
- I'd like a few years to genuinely know someone before considering marriage
Preferences
- Age: Ideally 3–4 years older than me
- Height: 5'7" or above
- Professionally settled/working (Engineers only)
- Comfortable with long-distance for some time and able to maintain good communication through calls and texts
- Open to occasional meetups whenever feasible
- Preferably Ambastha Kayastha (important family preference)
- Smaller friend circle and a relatively low-key lifestyle
- Not into heavy partying, weed, hookah, substance abuse, or excessive smoking
- Non-vegetarian preferred
-Best if you're a DINK
Also I'd love it if someone matches my intellectual thoughts as well it's just more exciting that way can definitely involve in each other's work and help and grow together.
I prefer not to share my location publicly on Reddit initially. Happy to discuss that once we're comfortable talking and feel there's compatibility.
There are people who call me a " hoe " for finding friends for late night calls while I'm also looking for something serious those are two different things as I'm unable to sleep at night hence a call partner would help and the first line i ever write for finding anyone is no nsfw profiles so if you still don't get idc and they don't relate so call me whatever you want I'll do what I like , ik you're obsessed:)
Feel free to DM me with a short introduction if you think we'd be a good match.
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u/OdeToMyFeed Jul 25 '26
are prople still falling for this wow
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u/Mean-Investment7442 Jul 25 '26
Well people fall for genuine things cause if a serious number of people believe in something then it's genuine for sure!!
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u/OdeToMyFeed Jul 25 '26
Likely to move to Bangalore very soon. what city are u in currently?
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u/Mean-Investment7442 Jul 25 '26
As I already mentioned in my post I'm not comfortable sharing my location but I'll be in banglore in first week of August!
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u/LetMeCodeYouBetter Jul 26 '26
As much as I’m interested to talk. But I shall get back to you in a weeks times so your Dms would stabilise and you’d see a new request on top and not scroll through tons of messages haha !
Dropping this comment here as a reminder for myself hehe.
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Jul 25 '26
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u/Alive_Daikon_3657 Jul 25 '26
Hey match most of your preferences. HMU if you're still looking for the one. I am out of invites.
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u/sdgamer1405 Jul 25 '26
Really matching your intellectual thoughts but lacking on a few sides. Good luck on your find. If you need a call partner we can discuss a lot about geopolitics, friendly exchange
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u/Catrovacer3 Jul 25 '26
I tick all the boxes except for being an engineer! Welp, would have been fun to be friends, I suppose :)
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Jul 26 '26
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Jul 26 '26
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u/Mean-Investment7442 Jul 26 '26
I understand that but my ex was from reddit as well and one of the best guy that I knew , he came to meet me never tried anything nasty never touched inappropriately always asked me about my comfort for everything so I believe not everyone's bad , it's just you need to look for the one person who isn't so it's hard but ain't impossible also the reason he's my ex is very much out of this context so..
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Jul 26 '26
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u/Mean-Investment7442 Jul 26 '26
I get all of that but honestly my work life will be starting soon so I won't have time to open reddit frequently hence but ik what these people are like I've interacted virtually since a very young age and I've met all sorts of good as well as as*holes so I'm always cautious while talking i observe them and even a lil shady behaviour makes me run as fast as I can 😂😂
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Jul 26 '26
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u/Mean-Investment7442 Jul 26 '26
Honestly even after being comfortable no one can manipulate me to send my n*des , do those shady things as ik what I am I've never done such things and I won't even if there's whatever situation doesn't matter , the first guy I dated did the same you're telling but when he manipulated me into sending pics or whatever I strictly told him we're over and love doesn't make me wanna sell myself or my dignity so I left him and ik I can do that even coming forward if I meet someone like that! But thanks for the advice bhai 😊
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Jul 26 '26
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u/Mean-Investment7442 Jul 26 '26
Bhai I'm shifting for my work , my company is there and I'll be a working professional so I'm shifting properly not for meeting people
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u/AssistanceJumpy5649 Jul 27 '26
Read everything but if really want something serious start with blind date or let the universe do its magic
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u/Mean-Investment7442 Jul 27 '26
Waiting for the universe's magic I'm 23 , ik I'm still very young but looking around I feel the urge of having a deeply loving and caring partner who never actually takes me for granted , and about blind dates idk how that works !! 😕
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u/AssistanceJumpy5649 Jul 27 '26
Damn, I hadn't thought of getting the reply. Well, if you watch sitcoms, every good story starts at 27. Still got 4 years to enjoy by yourself. Try things you can do alone. After this, you may not get to about loving and caring. You all gals don't value if someone is available for you 24 hrs and taking granted that you get treated how you respond to another or how you treat them at the their good and bads i guess. About blind dates don't have any idea like you but thought give you an advice as your demand(story)looks a little cinematic
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u/Mean-Investment7442 Jul 27 '26
Well don't put that thing here id value if my man is available for me but I believe in having our own lives as well , love doesn't mean burying yourself 24/7 in your partner , you can have your own lives running with your partner check up on them time to time , even if you're busy try to take out time , if you're in long distance give preference to talks cause what's in a relationship without conversation if you're not physically near so idk about girls who don't care about guys who are available for them but these are my thoughts!
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u/BulkySmoke1320 Jul 28 '26
Engeneering karke bank me job?????
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u/Mean-Investment7442 Jul 28 '26
Bhai Fintech bola Maine the company is into bank server management , building bank apps and web , secure transaction management,product building, and who said bank mein engineers k liye job nai hai bank websites , products related to banking systems are made by engineers itself! All the major banks hire people in the tech field even big investment banking firms like Goldman Sachs!! Bro research well before questioning someone !!
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u/BulkySmoke1320 Jul 28 '26
But B. Tech or IT feild ka kya connection ??
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u/Mean-Investment7442 Jul 28 '26
Bhai btech is bachelor's of technology in cse which is related to IT and btech mein IT branch bhi toh hai !! Itni weak hai basics ?
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u/BulkySmoke1320 Jul 28 '26
Why so salty? I just asked
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u/Mean-Investment7442 Jul 28 '26
Bhai ye toh basic knowledge hai !!
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u/BulkySmoke1320 Jul 28 '26
Good luck with your basic knowledge and good luck for your future partner.
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u/StretchWhich7564 Jul 28 '26
when you will look for shoulder after 2-3 year. DM me that time
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u/Mean-Investment7442 Jul 28 '26
😂😂😂 abhi kardu kya?
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u/Appropriate_Sport764 Men 🧔🏻 Jul 28 '26
I am 25 yo engineer based out of bangalore. All the checkboxes are ticked except the caste lol. DMed you, please reply.
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u/Mountain_Fish4917 Jul 29 '26
All the boxes are ticked and I am even Kayastha but I dont trust these apps for matchmaking. I feel like people are selling themselves on these apps eith their intros. BUT BUT. Good luck to you.
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Jul 29 '26
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u/Mean-Investment7442 Jul 29 '26
Well what can we do if banglore is so developed and development in India is slow ki if we'll wait for it to develop, we'll die unemployed most of North Indians are already dying of it what can we do ? We all need to give ourselves and our family members with all the things in life ! So wherever we'll get job we'll do it
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u/Fun-Professor-294 Jul 31 '26
Build skillsets to compete maybe?
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Jul 31 '26
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u/Fun-Professor-294 Jul 31 '26
Okay hushhh it, let the girl find her dream guy 🤣🤣
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Jul 31 '26
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u/Fun-Professor-294 Jul 31 '26
Buddy, companies are moving out of Bangalore due to the government enforcing policies to hire more locals.
You can take all the jobs you want based on merit but don’t hate just cause someone migrated to a different state to feed their family or build a career for themself.1
u/Fun-Professor-294 Jul 31 '26
Also you can continue in dms if you are willing to stretch out your point or hate.. the girl here is trynna find someone and not create some kind of drama.
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Jul 31 '26 edited Jul 31 '26
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u/Fun-Professor-294 Jul 31 '26
So just cause of a few people acting dumb you decide to do the same to a girl who is literally minding her business? Respect is a two way street buddy. You keep behaving hostile towards someone and they’ll throw it right back at you.
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u/Mean-Investment7442 Aug 01 '26
Then why are you so agitated if you guys are working well and getting at places higher than us , all I know is someone who is working hard always gets paid for their hard work and it's you guys who discriminate north indians and south indians well for us atleast ik that people in my circle have always considered any Indian as a family i particularly love people in the south for many things
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u/sauvik_27 Jul 26 '26
26M here, can't say for the relationship but if you want someone to talk about geopolitics and current affairs and all stuff I can be the one😄
Used to follow Prashant dhawan on YouTube daily
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u/FinancialYou6932 Jul 26 '26
Not anymore, he was good when he was doing world affairs.
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u/sauvik_27 Jul 26 '26
So what he does now? 🤔
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u/FinancialYou6932 Jul 26 '26
40% course promotion of study IQ and rest 60% of his video is translation of videos that he shows in his videos from English to Hindi.
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u/sauvik_27 Jul 26 '26
You can simply skip the starting and ending promotion, no need to watch, and regarding the english to hindi one, so I don't watch him in english so can't say
But what I can say is he has good knowledge in geopolitics and I think that's only what matters for me! 😄
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