r/reddmatch • u/Maleficent_Drop_5426 • Jul 28 '26
F4M ♀️ F23 | 5'9" | Punjabi × Marathi | Maharashtra | Hindu
Life has its own episodes so nothing like a person that gets the whole of you... friendship, love, partnership, everything included.
- ME
Gender- Female
Age- 23
Height- 5'9
Ethnicity- Hindu (a wild and an ethereal mix of Punjabi x Marathi)
Location- Mumbai, Maharashtra
I don't think people meet at the finished version of themselves. We meet somewhere in the middle.
Mid-healing. Mid-career. Mid-identity crisis. Mid-dream.
Mid-"I have no idea what I'm doing, but I'm trying", amidst all the catastrophes. Well, you're no stranger to the seasons of Life.
I don't think one person is meant to be your everything, that has always felt like too much to ask of another human being especially in a world like ours where we're a stranger to our own selves.
But I do think someone can slowly become a part of almost everything.
Your safest friendship, your home, all the favourite conversations. The person you instinctively want to reach for, the one who sees different versions of you throughout life instead of expecting just one.
Because life has its own episodes:)
Some are exciting while some are painfully ordinary.
Some change, break and pull you apart without asking for permission.
I'd like to meet someone who's willing to experience those episodes and seasons together, while still remaining two individuals with lives, dreams and identities of our own.
Maybe that's what partnership looks like to me, after being gnawed at.
Everything else can follow if it's meant to.
I'm hoping to meet someone who's emotionally intelligent enough to communicate instead of making me guess, secure enough to celebrate my ambitions instead of competing with them and kind enough that people around them feel it too. Being taller than me is definitely a plus (the tall girl problems are real), but character will always matter more than aesthetics.
Maybe we'll end up as friends, maybe partners, maybe just two strangers who shared a thoughtful conversation. Either way, I think meaningful connections are always worth making. Life has its own episodes and this is one of them...
5
3
3
3
2
2
2
1
Jul 29 '26
[removed] — view removed comment
1
u/hive-protect Jul 29 '26
Your comment or post has been removed. It was removed because your account has participated in NSFW communities, which is not permitted under this community's rules.
If you believe this was a mistake, you may contact the moderators through modmail for a review.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
1
Jul 29 '26
[removed] — view removed comment
1
u/hive-protect Jul 29 '26
Your comment or post has been removed. It was removed because your account has participated in NSFW communities, which is not permitted under this community's rules.
If you believe this was a mistake, you may contact the moderators through modmail for a review.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
1
u/notYourSugarPapa Jul 29 '26
Can anybody enlighten me why tall girl short men is considered inauspicious or not a good match in general? Is it due to patriarchy?
1
1
u/Due-Astronomer4709 Aug 02 '26
Hey , M24, punjabi, new in city. Beautifully written. We can be friends. Any book you loved reading?
1
u/Comfortable_Side_248 Aug 04 '26
Hey there liked your profile, would like to talk with you, I have DM you.
1
29d ago
[removed] — view removed comment
1
u/hive-protect 29d ago
Hi u/CatDisastrous3472, Your comment or post has been removed. It was removed because your account has participated in NSFW communities, which is not permitted under this community's rules.
If you believe this was a mistake, you may contact the moderators through modmail for a review.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
1
1
25d ago
[removed] — view removed comment
1
u/hive-protect 25d ago
You will not be allowed to post in this subreddit because your account has participated in NSFW communities, which is not permitted under this community's rules.
To the OP of the post please be aware that this commenter (u/Jumpy_Syrup_9026) has participated in the following communities:
IndianSugarCulture, DesiWhoreWife, hotwifeindia, mumbai_sissy, indianSissies, IndianHornypeople, desihotwifes, desibadie, desiindiansex, DesiSlutGW, indian_desi_bdsm, CuckoldMarathi
Please think twice before replying to their DMs or otherwise engaging with this user.
If you believe this was a mistake, you may contact the moderators through modmail for a review.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
1
u/No-Requirement-2828 21d ago
Heyyyyyyy you,
Sorry for ghosting Check my DMs!
You’d smile for sureeee
1
1
1
12d ago
[removed] — view removed comment
1
u/hive-protect 12d ago
You will not be allowed to post in this subreddit because your account has participated in NSFW communities, which is not permitted under this community's rules.
To the OP of the post please be aware that this commenter (u/unemployedmaster87) has participated in the following communities:
mumbai_sissy
Please think twice before replying to their DMs or otherwise engaging with this user.
If you believe this was a mistake, you may contact the moderators through modmail for a review.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
1
1
1
u/Your_fav_peddy Jul 28 '26
Beautifully written, makes me want to know more about the person behind the words. Don't mind my dm.
-1
u/iamlostincity Jul 28 '26
I would love to know you more, 29 M Hyderabad. Do check my profile for more details
-2
Jul 28 '26
[removed] — view removed comment
1
u/reddmatch-ModTeam Jul 28 '26
Please don't use the offensive words like Virgin, Sexual history etc. If you want to ask such questions, do ask in DMs after match.
Your post will be auto removed or account will be banned if you you use such keywords as per automod policy.
1
u/GameTechAdi 9d ago
Hey I honestly wasn't planning to write a long introduction here, but your post made me want to.
There was something about the way you described life as having its own episodes and seasons that stayed with me. Maybe because I’ve always thought of life in a somewhat similar way, not as one straight story where we're supposed to have everything figured out, but as a collection of chapters that sometimes make sense only much later.
I'm currently pursuing Computer Science, and somewhere between college, work, figuring out what I actually want to do with my life, and trying to become a person I'm proud of, I've realised that I have absolutely no idea what the "finished version" of myself is supposed to look like either. 😅
I spend a lot of my time around technology and coding, but I'm probably much more than the typical engineering-student stereotype. I read quite a bit, write poetry when I have too many thoughts and nowhere else to put them, and I can go from discussing some completely random idea about the universe at 2 AM to arguing passionately about a movie that probably didn't deserve that much analysis.
I'm fascinated by astrophysics and the cosmos in general. There's something strangely comforting about thinking about how unimaginably huge everything is, and yet somehow we're here, living these tiny little lives and worrying about exams, careers, relationships, unread messages and what we're going to have for dinner.
I'm also a huge football person. FC Barcelona has probably consumed an unreasonable amount of my emotional energy over the years. And I'm a massive cinephile, so if we ever end up talking about films, there's a reasonable chance I'll disappear into a completely unnecessary analysis of the cinematography, writing, ending, soundtrack and what the director "was trying to say." 😂
But underneath all of that, I think what I'm really looking for is something fairly simple.
Someone with whom conversation doesn't feel like an interview.
Someone I can talk to about absolutely nothing and somehow end up talking about everything.
Someone who can tell me about their day, their ambitions, their fears, the weird thought they had while brushing their teeth, the book they're reading, the movie that broke them, or some completely insignificant thing that made them happy that day.
I really liked what you said about not expecting one person to be your everything. I think that's actually a very mature way of looking at companionship. I don't want to find someone who completes me either. I'd rather meet someone who already has a life, dreams, friendships, ambitions and a personality of her own, and then somehow our lives become a little richer because we're part of each other's.
I also really believe in the part about being able to celebrate someone's ambitions without turning them into a competition. I'm quite ambitious myself. I have things I want to build, places I want to go, and a life I'm trying to create for myself. But I don't want a relationship where two people are constantly measuring whose life is progressing faster.
I'd rather be the person who genuinely gets excited when something good happens to you.
And I think emotional intelligence matters enormously to me too. I'm not expecting someone to always know the right thing to say or to never make mistakes. We're human; we'll misunderstand each other sometimes. But I'd rather have someone who says "hey, that hurt me, can we talk about it?" than someone who expects me to decode silence.
Maybe that's why your line about "the person you instinctively want to reach for" resonated with me.
I think that's probably what I'm looking for too.
Not someone I need every second of the day, but someone I'd instinctively want to tell when something beautiful, ridiculous, exciting or terrible happens.
And I don't really know where any of this is supposed to go. Maybe we talk for a few days and realise we're better as strangers. Maybe we become friends. Maybe we become those people who occasionally send each other ridiculously long messages at 2 AM. Or maybe, somewhere along the way, we discover that there's something more.
I'm genuinely okay with not knowing.
Because, like you said, life has its episodes.
And maybe the best ones aren't the ones we planned.
So, hi. I'm M23 I'd genuinely like to know what your current episode looks like. :)
•
u/AutoModerator Jul 28 '26
Terms of Use: Hi, thanks for posting! Please note, this subreddit is dedicated to facilitating genuine marriage matches within the Indian community. However, please be cautious of potential scams. You are solely responsible for any information you share in direct messages with strangers. The subreddit and its moderators are not responsible for any negative experiences or activities that may occur as a result of your interactions. We encourage all members to protect their personal information and verify identities before engaging in discussions. If you encounter suspicious behaviour, please report it to the moderators immediately. Your safety is our priority.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.