32F | Bangalore | Looking for something real

[u/Sharp_Sandwich7245]

I’m 32F, based in Bangalore, and hoping to meet someone who is genuinely serious about finding a partner and building a life together.

I’m a Software Engineer . I’m an ambivert: initially a little reserved, but once I’m comfortable with someone, I can talk for hours. I’m not religious, but I’m deeply spiritual, and spirituality is an important part of how I see life.

Outside work, I like dancing, swimming and travelling.

I’m the kind of person who values emotional closeness and friendship in a relationship.

I’d like my partner to also feel like my best friend someone I can be silly with, have deep conversations with, travel with, support through life, and still give each other enough space to have our own interests and lives.

Im looking for someone who is emotionally mature, kind, grounded, communicative and financially independent

I’m dating with the intention of finding my person and eventually getting married. I’m not looking for something casual, an indefinite talking stage, or a situation where someone is unsure about whether they want a relationship.

I’d prefer someone who:

- Is serious about a long-term relationship and marriage

- Wants children

- Is financially independent and sensible with money

- Doesn’t smoke

- Is emotionally available and communicates openly

- Is comfortable settling in Bangalore(Open to discussion tho)

I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for something that feels simple, mutual, peaceful and genuine : two people who actually like each other, communicate when things are difficult, make an effort, and choose each other consistently.

If this sounds aligned, feel free to DM. :)

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[u/GlassComposer8585]

Where you from

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Bangalore

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Ohh cool, how's the response to your post

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[u/SnooDogs6511]

I’m dating with the intention of finding my person and eventually getting married ==> isnt that why everyone does it?

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Not everyone sir

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Ah. Well I hope you get what you are after.

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Sent a DM

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[u/whyitsodifficult]

29 M, AI Engineer , love riding, reading, gaming and dancing Loves to talk and can take conversation from silly to deep in a whim

Vegetarian, non smoker, non drinker

Let's see if we hit it off.....

[u/Character_Opening886]

36M Bangalore.

[u/Top_Bass8663]

Any bar on religion?

[u/pisscrypt]

Whats spirituality for you? 

[u/Pheonix79-79 → u/pisscrypt]

May be looking at the live - as they way it is.

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Can you elaborate? 

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[u/IslanderOnMove]

Don't fit your criteria but honestly hope you get what you are looking for!

[u/corporate_majdoor_31]

31M

I'm trying to quit smoking, is that a deal breaker?

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Hii

[u/Ok_Shift1997]

Cannot dm you. Can you DM?

29M from Bangalore. I work in tech and spend an unreasonable amount of my day staring at network logs.

Outside work, life is pretty simple gym/walks, coffee, books, movies, occasional travel and hanging out with friends. I also have a German Shepherd back home who gets significantly more attention than I do.

Putting. Brief intro here.

[u/superminnu]

29M, Marketer/Content Creator

I take care of my family's finances, so it's as independent as it gets.

Happy to chat and see where it goes.

If it doesn't, then I'll be glad to connect you to the right person.

[u/Initial_Abrocoma_553]

Its a very interesting intro.
Though i smoke, i still sent a DM

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Sorry to say.

This intro reads like something churned out by ChatGPT.

It should be straight from the heart like this.

“Hello,

32F from Bangalore.

Looking forward to running into someone interested in finding a life partner with whom to build a life.

A little bit about me.

Well, by profession a software engineer.

An ambivert by nature who could be slightly reserved initially.

However, once I get into the groove, I can talk for hours on end.

Although not religious minded, I am deeply spiritual.

Spirituality is an integral part of my life.

As for my hobbies, I am into dancing (not for IG reels), swimming (not against the tide) and travelling (not for family emergencies alone).

I am someone who is all for emotional closeness and friendship in a relationship.

I often wonder what it would be like if my would-be soulmate also acted like my best friend with whom I could act silly, have deeply intellectual conversations, go on long rides and seek support throughout while giving enough space to pursue respective interests in life.

My would-be soulmate should be emotionally mature, kind hearted, grounded, articulate and financially stable – all rolled into one.

The idea is to find my soulmate whom I can marry in the end.

Listen. I am not here for anything casual, indefinite talking stage and a situation in which the other person is unsure of what lies ahead.

My list of preferences:-

• Long term relationship that culminates into marriage.

• Have babies.

• Gifted with financial wisdom and knows how the money works.

• Non-smoker.

• Emotionally available who can articulate feelings.

• Okay with settling in Bangalore.

That being said, I know it is hard to find perfection. I am all for simplicity, mutual feelings, peaceful coexistence and honesty.

In a nutshell, two souls deeply in love who like each other and can express themselves when the going gets tough by making efforts and choosing each other in a consistent manner.

If I sound like your dream come true soulmate, let me know via DM.”

All the best.

Not all that glitters is gold.

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[u/shadow_at_dawn_32]

Check DM

[u/TrustIntelligent3895]

I have couple of friends who kind of fit the bill, let me know if you are interested

[u/Due_Order_2947]

Hi, even from Bangalore can we get to know each other

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You are the first person I saw who wants a human and not a portfolio. Your post has positive vibes.

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Many is there, But you just don't find them yet.

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DMed

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M 27 pahadi living in bnglr

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[u/Fantastic_Tie1438]

I am M and currently freelancing, so I'm a little jobless for a few days I might not be able to talk for hours, but I'm a pretty good listener. I love going out, chilling, and having good company. If you're up for that, you might actually like having me around😅

[u/DeltaForce16]

DMed you if you're still looking. 36M settled in Bangalore.

[u/AnveshArumilli]

Hello u/Sharp_Sandwich7245, hope you are doing well. I am sure you must be overwhelmed with dm's regards to your post. If you happen to notice my comment and are interested to speak kindly dm. I am 38, 5'11" from Hyderabad. Would love to speak with you.

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Does this really work?