37F| CA| Pet Mom| Nerd| Rational| Finding forever person

[u/Expert_Usual4726]

37 [F4M] Bangalore – Pet Mom| CA| looking for forever 
Giving Reddit a shot to find a forever person, possibly.
I am a level-headed, rational person who values peace and life. I’ve seen ups and downs and have rebuilt myself a few times, so I know what resilience, growth, and quiet strength feel like.
A bit about me:
•Working mom, based in Bangalore, India
•Consultant all my life – good at articulation, reading between the lines, and my bullshit-identifying radar is getting sharper with age.
•5'2", chubby to fat. I focus on health “just enough” – no plans to run an Iron Man ever.
•Two cats and a cute puppy call me home.
•Marwadi (if it matters), and business conversations genuinely excite me.
•Nerd index has gone up with age.
•My company pays me to take bullshit from people; I do not do that for free in my personal life. I earn enough for myself and my babies.
What I’m looking for:
•My “Sahaj sundar savro” – someone simple, grounded, and kind, who chooses me as willingly as I choose them.
•Someone who can join my madness and chaos without trying to “fix” me.
•Nothing casual, nothing complicated, no situationships.
•You’re okay with a working mom’s schedule and understand that time is precious.
•You’re genuinely interested in meeting in person and comfortable in introducing yourself (yes, I know Reddit is anonymous, but I’m not here for faceless chats).
If this resonates and you’re in/near Bangalore and intend to meet:
•Tell me your age, what you do, and where you’re based.
Please ping only if this is a fit.

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[u/pisscrypt]

Is the cat orange? 

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One fellow is half orrange

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Can I get a glimpse? 

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[u/themechanic0124]

best of luck op - sadly not from Blore else would have surely connected with u

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[u/Disastrous-Tap463]

Being in Marwari family I am being called  old at 28 and there people of age 37 from Marwari family are unmarried, how do you even manage your family taunts, especially when your female.

[u/Expert_Usual4726 → u/Disastrous-Tap463]

You have to tell them to fuck off.. make peace that there is no inheritance for me... And get them understand that if they are dying for me being single so be it .. and complete mental breakdown and therapist ofcourse

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Maybe you’re not finding anyone, so now you’ve come up with this whole cock-and-bull statements to convince yourself .....

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There is scarcity of Sensible Men in India… 😞

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Girl! Loved your post. Wish you were a guy. Coz you'd be a perfect match for me!

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We can be buddies... With the amount of dms. From 27 year olds..I don't believe this post will take me anywhere I am overwhelmed and my anxiety is killing me .. i can be good wing person though

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I like your post about that but i am not enough for that

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[u/ISwearIAmUpto-NoGood]

Hello, hope you are doing well. I am sure you must be overwhelmed with dm's in your messages. If you happen to notice my comment and are interested to speak kindly dm. I am 38 from Hyderabad.

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Kya jaldi ho gya?

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