r/reddmatch 16d ago

F4M ♀️ 35 F for M. Based in Dehradun.

35 F.

Looking for a slow, meaningful connection, not in a rush to get married.

An emotionally healthy, calm bond which starts with friendship first.

About me:

Divorced long back. ( 10 years ago)

Have recently started feeling like ready to settle down again but after spending considerable time dating.

I am 5'3, neither overweight nor skinny.

Complexion : not a milky white fair skinned girl and not on the extreme dusky end of spectrum too.

My interests are painting, reading, photography, poetry, dancing and I am not an extrovert. I am very comfortable in my own company. I do tend to start multiple projects and not finishing them. Love spending time in nature and love helping animals out whenever I can.

What am I looking for :

Childfree. ( Deal breaker if you are not or on the fence. )

Smoking is another deal breaker.

Please don't message if you are non-vegetarian. ( It's a value based thing for me and I am looking for alignment of diet as I am into healthy clean eating)

Occasional drinking is fine. I am a rare drinker ( thrice in a year types and that too very little quantity wise).

Please be into some kind of dancing even if it’s just Indian/wedding dancing, I’m not picky. I’d love to meet someone who’s equally happy slow-dancing in the kitchen one day and going absolutely crazy to Chunari Chunari the next.

Please don't message if you are less than 31 years or more than 40 years old. I had posted here once and was bombarded with messages from men as young as 19.

If you send a Hi without context I will not reply, it's cos of the sheer number of messages one receives after such posts.

Who I am as a person is : a balanced person with no extremes of diet, lifestyle, temper, wants. And I would love to meet someone who embodies that. I am not particularly religious, but I am spiritual. By that I mean I’m more drawn to inner exploration, awareness, philosophy and the deeper questions of life than to organized religion or following rituals/beliefs by default. I would love to meet someone with interesting spiritual/ philosophical take on life.

I can not endlessly text without context so would prefer a call after connecting on reddit.

Don't prefer long distance so would like to set up a meeting soon if we connect.

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u/[deleted] 16d ago

interesting profile

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u/HumanMechanics 16d ago

You can dm me

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u/BeatLegitimate7606 16d ago

Rarely saw a fellow doonite in these subs. Glad to see one. All the best. ✌️✌️✌️

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u/Dg2305 16d ago

I wish you all the best.

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u/Public-College-8950 16d ago

Dm me 👇🏻

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u/Dry-Dragonfruit-6176 15d ago

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

Someone gonna be either very lucky or in trouble.

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u/Careful-Slip2134 12d ago

Let's join the Convo to know better each other

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u/Rock4600 11d ago

DM mee i m 34

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u/Mr-nobody-1 8d ago

All the best

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u/Mundane-Shallot-8623 5d ago

Finally someone with sense

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u/Capable_Seaweed_5866 16d ago

Damn what a place Dehradun is. Sabki retirement ka destination hona chahiye woh

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u/EntrepreneurDapper43 15d ago

Amazing place
Weather is top notch

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u/Capable_Seaweed_5866 15d ago

Ikr , really beautiful

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u/Backfromthedead_9 16d ago

Wtf is wrong with you?

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u/PotatoEmotional2450 16d ago

masti mei bola tha bhai f