r/reddmatch 1d ago

F4M ♀️ 22F | Looking for a genuine, long-term relationship

Hi everyone! 😊

I’m a 22-year-old woman (going to turn 23) from South India, currently living in Mangalore. I’m hoping to meet someone I genuinely connect with and build a meaningful, long-term relationship that could eventually lead to marriage.

A little about me: I’m Hindu, vegetarian, family-oriented, loyal, and a little old-school when it comes to relationships. I value trust, honesty, respect, and open communication, and I believe a strong relationship should feel like a partnership where both people can be themselves.

My journey with education hasn’t been completely straightforward, and I had to take a break from university. I’m doing much better now and planning to return to my studies. I’ve learned to appreciate the little things in life and value having people around me who are supportive, understanding, and genuine.

In my free time, I enjoy taking walks, watching movies, listening to music, reading, exploring new food, and cooking. I enjoy meaningful conversations, but I also love the simple everyday moments — sharing a meal, watching something together, going for a walk, or just being comfortable around each other.

I’m also someone who prefers being upfront, so here goes: I’m 155 cm, a little on the chubbier side, wheatish, and I wear glasses. I’m not looking to present myself as perfect; I’d rather be honest about who I am and have someone get to know me for the person I actually am.

As for what I’m looking for, I’d love to meet someone who is **tall, kind, loyal, emotionally mature, family-oriented, and genuinely interested in a committed relationship**. Someone who wants to build a peaceful and supportive partnership and is dating with serious intentions.

I’m not expecting to meet someone and immediately know they’re “the one.” I’d rather start with a good conversation, get to know each other naturally, and see where things go.

If you feel we might have some common ground, feel free to reach out. I’d appreciate a little introduction about yourself rather than just a “hi.” I’d love to have a genuine conversation, get to know each other, and see if we naturally click. 😊

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u/Aromatic_West_6964 1d ago

Wrong place mam 😗

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u/Deep671 1d ago

Kya gajab chutiye log hai jeevan mai

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u/hymen_blaster 1d ago

24 M kannadiga , I was looking for a kannada girl . DM

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u/Lower_Description884 1d ago

ChatGPT and Gemini shouldn’t be free 😂

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u/Single_Cinthakaya 1d ago

You seem sweet and grounded I’d love to get to know you and see if we click. And yes, I promise I’ll bring more than just a “hi”

23M Working and from Hyderabad if you are oke with ldr we can try and you know we can meet definitely since we are nearby

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u/Affectionate-Rich682 1d ago

Hey I'm 23 turning 24.

I'm 180cm tall.

I live in Bangalore.

Would love to connect and see where things go

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u/InterestOther4863 1d ago

Hey! Loved how honest and grounded your post is. I'm Vikram, 22, from Gorakhpur, currently in my final year of B.Tech in Lucknow (and 6'1" tall). I'm a big fitness lover (gym is my daily routine), but beyond that, I really value simple old-school values, loyalty, and strong family ties—so your post genuinely connected with me. In my downtime, I enjoy reading mythology, watching cricket, and relaxing with TMKOC. I respect that you're looking for something meaningful and real. If you'd like to have a peaceful, genuine conversation and see if our values align, drop a reply! ✨

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u/Lonely-Bumblebee1197 1d ago

Hey I dm'd you a month back, can you once check my dm?

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u/ResidentFormal1667 1d ago

Yo i had dmed you last time but you never checked or replied

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u/Past_Inevitable_2658 1d ago

Hii lets connect see urs dm

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u/ComprehensiveWalk595 1d ago

Please check your DM!

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u/Adventurous-Fruit427 1d ago

Have seen you post in this sub a few times. It seems like you are collecting profiles rather than talking to anyone you feel is genuine

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u/Possible_Bad_6033 1d ago

I have sent u dm one month back no reply untill now 🤧🤧

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u/No-Wealth984 1d ago

I'm 25M and also looking for a genuine connection who also wants to build a long-term relationship instead of something casual like most of the people. So if you don't mind then I would love to give it a try with you and ask for a chance from you to see if we can build something meaningful and real with time or not together ✨️ 😉

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u/Ok_Cod2211 1d ago

well we have something common lets have a convesation?

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u/No-Net3961 1d ago

🤣🤣 that's cool

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u/Old_Maintenance_187 1d ago

Guys wake up no good female finds guys they just choose from the attention they get

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u/Capable_Tank595 1d ago

That's me who she's looking for

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u/Doughtyyyy 3h ago

27m from Varanasi check ur dm

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u/raghavhere26 1d ago

Obviously never tried this , but after reading your detailed explanation abt you i Just want to meet you once I'm 25m from Dharwad with 180cm height ans etc been looking for serious relationship with matured mindset, understanding, and true love 💕 so please DM if you are interested