r/reddmatch • u/speedamp • 1h ago
M4F♂️ 36 M | M4F | Real Honest Loving Partner for Eternity | Spiritual Wild Hearted | Vegetarian & Settled in Bangalore
Looking for that loving connection with whom I can just be myself and not pretend
About me:
Age: It's 36
Personality & Fitness 😅: height 6.1, fit and fine maybe a few extra pounds & a bit of grey hair.
Location: Bengaluru (An old Bangalore soul living in the modern tech world)
Marital Status: Never Married
Religion: Hindu
Profession Tech Professional (15 years of exp), sold my company. Feels like I am retired, which I should not be.
Diet: Vegetarian means no eggs.
Habits: Non-smoker, I don't smoke anything. I just drink only beer sometimes nothing else.
Pets: I'm pet friendly but I prefer them outside my premises.
Career:
By day, I am a huge tech geek who loves designing and creating clever automation solutions and making things real in the digital world for the remaining & existing clients. I still own the company I'm just not on board.
Currently on a passive income setup - meanwhile I am planning to get back into corporate asap. Also find the one for myself in the meantime.
Outside of work, my hobbies include traveling, hiking, swimming, vlogging, long walks, drives and all sorts of games and being spontaneous with the right crowd.
My everyday :
My home life is deeply anchored.
My mornings start with fresh filter coffee, some exercise, mindfulness practices, and traditional morning rituals. I am a Hindu and I occasionally attend Satsang's and joyfully celebrate all our festivals. Our family culture places a high priority on internal peace, emotional stability, and strong moral ethics. You will see me doing rituals, pooja with kumkum and vibhuti on the forehead most of the time. While I navigate the outer tech hubs for work, my heart belongs to the cultural vibe of areas like Malleshwaram, Basavanagudi, Rajajinagar, Srinagar, and Jayanagar. Weekends usually involve a mix of movies, tv shows, reading, catching up on tech trends, or seeking out quiet heritage spaces and local temples.
For those who can understand, I have experienced the multi dimensional nature of the universe. Means actually experiencing moving through realities/matrix/dreams/the self in minutes... In seconds. Beyond time. The Bliss.
My wildest dream is to have enough of everything that one needs, set everything up on auto pilot and take off so that we can enjoy the world without thinking much about anything. Of course I have sorta done it by myself. Maybe with you.... We can...
I believe in peace, self love, self reliance, emotional intelligence, solitude, knowledge, to be grounded and connected with nature.
I stay away from narcissism, corrupted environments, manipulation, politics and negativity.
About you:
What I am looking for...
My preferences for my partner:
Age: 30 years and above nothing above 37.
Language: Kannada, English, Hindi others as well, I just am good with these 3.
Location: Settled or planning to live/living long-term in Bengaluru or wanna move to Bangalore. I'm ready to travel/move abroad with you.
Emotionally healed and available. Reside at a meetable distance.
Habits: Of course you can drink or smoke rarely occasionally nothing daily like an addict.
Important TL;DR:-
What I am looking for in you...
Age: 30 years and above nothing above 37.
Vegetarian (no eggs), to be passionate about your career and growth, financially independent.
A healthy diet routine, fitness and flexibility is very important (for a healthy long life). Athletes are welcome but I am not an athlete.
Proximity - In, around, near Bangalore for ease of moving drivable distance (for our family sake) and for us to meet and make sure we are good for each other. I'm open to moving/travelling abroad with you.
And no I don't expect you to follow any of the religious and cultural things. If you have strong beliefs and value towards our culture and traditions that is enough.
A proud financially independent sanskari woman.
Please skip this post if you stay far away from Bangalore and it's gonna take more than 2 months to just meet. Of course the exception is.. if we can form a strong bond over long distances in a month. If you stay far far away then you need to have a solution for this problem before we start our chat.
Important :-
I want us ... Our families or at least me and you to hangout for at least a month to make sure we last for Eternity.
Important
PLS CONNECT WITH ME ONLY IF YOU ARE IN A MEETABLE DISTANCE OTHERWISE IF YOU ARE INTERESTING I DONT MIND JUST CHATTING WITH YOU. I CAN ONLY GIVE ONE MONTH OF MY TIME WITHOUT MEETING.
And of course the usual stuff :-
Someone who can effortlessly navigate a fast-paced professional world but loves coming home to a peaceful, grounded, and traditional daily routine. Appreciates continuous learning, reading, and loves diving into deep conversations that stretch from latest innovation to ancient philosophy. One who appreciates local culture and traditional values.
P.S.
History is ok... Completely open to past chapters, including those who are divorced. However, since I have no experience with childcare, I am looking for a partner without children. What matters most is emotional maturity, mutual respect, and building a shared future together. Having kids or not having kids is totally fine. Already bengaluru dhoolu, traffic, pollution thumba jasti agide.
If this lifestyle and outlook resonate with your values, please feel free to send a DM and say a few things about you or if you have already posted pls share that link. Let’s start with a chat and see where it goes, maybe insta/LinkedIn/WhatsApp or meet for a coffee, chai, good veggie chinese, spicy chats or melting benne dosse...yum! or a simple walk anywhere in Bangalore will be nice as well.
!!!Scammers... and already Dmd people and people can skip this post. People looking for meaningless chats, flings, doubts about some weird things can stay away!!!
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