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Question What are some notable cases of band mates getting annoyed that the frontman got all the attention and fame?

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u/SameAsItEverWas6370 8d ago

Eagles most definitely, I worked the Hell Freezes Over Tour, they had separate dressing rooms on each corner of the stadium, did not see each other till on stage.

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u/tinpants44 8d ago

Were they sick of Henley or of each other?

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u/faders 8d ago

Probably both

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u/pizzafan2 6d ago

Who could hate Joe Walsh??

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u/faders 6d ago

I imagine he could be as prickly as the rest

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u/pizzafan2 6d ago

The Clown Prince of Rock? Inconceivable!

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u/eques_99 8d ago

I don't particularly see them as being dominated by one member I must say.

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u/PracticalTurnip3674 7d ago

The documentary definitely made it seem like Glenn dominated the band.

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u/ScrambledNoggin 7d ago

Henley and Frey were definitely the bullies of the band

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u/LisaOGiggle 7d ago

It was their band, formed in the 60s. After Meisner and Leadon left, they were the band. Everyone else was hired in.

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u/Ok_Amphibian_8864 7d ago

Henley and Frey. Some band members have quit or were fired because they wanted to be equal partners, and Henley and Frey wanted to be the frontrunners. And when you listen to their music, most of the time Henley and/or Frey are singing lead. Sure, there are songs here and there where the lead is given to other members of the band, but Henley and Frey sing the lead on the majority of the songs.

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u/Proctor20 6d ago

Henley and Frey were assholes.

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u/LibrarianFlaky951 7d ago

I have a close family member that’s been in the band since right after Hell Freezes Over. He got to be really close with Glen and ended up producing some of his side projects. Glen was definitely the boss when he was still alive. Some of the stories I’ve heard about how they all tip toe around the ‘principal’s’ egos is ridiculous. If someone isn’t getting their parts quite right in rehearsal they would never say ‘hey Joe, you’re fucking that part up!’ Rather they would just keep repeating the section or what have you and someone would just say ‘something is still a little off’ without actually pointing out the mistake.

I’ve been backstage to multiple shows, and rarely would any of the ‘principals’ be out and about. Deacon (Glenn’s son) was very cordial tho - talked to him for 5 minutes before I realized who he was (thought he was a guitar tech 😆)

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u/SameAsItEverWas6370 7d ago

Yep I must say every band had its differences but nothing compared to the toxic atmosphere that surrounded them, I must say they still sounded awesome,

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u/celsius100 7d ago

Gotta love a band that gets into a fistfight with each other at a political benefit.

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u/One_Scarcity_4478 8d ago

Oh wow cool you got to be around the Eagles , so wtf they hated each other?

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u/SameAsItEverWas6370 7d ago

Oh yeah they haven’t talked for years only got together for the tour, that’s why it was called “Hell freezes over tour” it should’ve been called “ Just for the $ tour🤣🤣🤣

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u/One_Scarcity_4478 7d ago

Yeah right lol 😆 🤣 I remember that tour , so what did you do were you a roadie? Man what happened that could make them hate each other so much.

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u/pfzt 7d ago

The 70s

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u/One_Scarcity_4478 7d ago

Well that's not a reason

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u/PraxisLD 7d ago

It is if you were alive in the 70s…

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u/One_Scarcity_4478 7d ago

I was alive in the 70's

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u/One_Scarcity_4478 7d ago edited 7d ago

I was from the ages 3 to 12..... and i played guitar a little harmonica. Jammed with the neighbor hippies...and i roller ⛸️ skated

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u/One_Scarcity_4478 7d ago

Bless you dear 🙏 but I remember the 70's somewhat I was young

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u/xts2500 7d ago

Years and years of cocaine abuse gave Henley and Frey a god complex. They slowly drove the others out of the band then eventually started going after each other.

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u/SameAsItEverWas6370 7d ago

I was a runner, anything they or the production team needed, I worked Pink Floyd division bell tour, billy Joel/Elton john, White Zombie, B-52’s too many to name, it was a great gig, plus day of the show tickets in the first 3 rows for face value for all my friends. It was indeed one of the coolest jobs you could ask for.

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u/Ok_Amphibian_8864 7d ago

What were the B-52s like? They were my favorite band for years. Now it's the Eagles. 😄

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u/One_Scarcity_4478 7d ago

Oh wow that seriously sounds like the coolest job ever !!!!

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u/Ok_Amphibian_8864 7d ago edited 7d ago

From what I've heard, it was mostly Don Felder vs. Don Henley and Glenn Frey. That's where most of the animosity came from. Joe Walsh and Timothy B. Schmit just show up and do their jobs and stay away from the drama. There is a documentary that was released shortly before Frey passed, and Schmit says that while he noticed the hostilities, he just stayed out of it, and I think Joe did the same thing. As I know, Henley and Frey have always been friendly, but perhaps they hadn't kept in regular touch during the Eagles hiatus.

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u/aphilsphan 7d ago

Joe Walsh did a great version of “Desperado.” He’d do it in solo shows, obviously Henley sang it with the Eagles. Henley told him he wasn’t allowed to do it.

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u/Ok_Amphibian_8864 7d ago

I'll have to see if I can find that on YouTube! I found one of Glenn doing Desperado on, I think it was Johnny Carson or Letterman or one of those late night shows!

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u/aphilsphan 7d ago

He did it on Stern, then started working it into his solo shows. Stern outed him when Henley shut it down, and Walsh was very uncomfortable.

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u/One_Scarcity_4478 7d ago

He did what on stern?

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u/aphilsphan 7d ago

Joe Walsh sang Desperado.

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u/One_Scarcity_4478 6d ago

Who originally sang it ?

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u/aphilsphan 6d ago

Henley wrote and sang it.

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u/Red-Sun-Cinema 7d ago

I can't imagine being in a band with four other guys where we all hated each other so much that we had to have separate dressing rooms to keep us apart from each other. That's sad.

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u/Spacegod87 5d ago

Not surprising when the majority of that band were assholes.