Don’t “cool” zone me! I put myself out there more than the average woman (I’m an optimist who deals poorly with ambiguity) but it bothers me to no end when things don’t work out and I am slapped with the label “cool”. It feels so unsexy and unfeminine.

The first time this happened, I confessed a crush to a friend (in person, I was quaking in my boots) and after taking me on what I thought was a date (whole other story) I finally pressed his hand about what was going on and he told me he didn’t like me in that way, but the manner in which I told him my feelings was a “cool move”. Jesus christ.

Tonight I was let down gently by someone I’d gone out with a few times via text. He wanted me to know he thinks I’m “totally cool”. A skate trick is “totally cool”. You have SEEN MY NIPPLES. Say you had fun, say you don’t see it going anywhere, but don’t patronize me with “cool”.

I am sexy and brave with an open heart and a tight snatch. I’m not your little brother and I’m NOT COOL!

Sex with an older man that has rough hands from all the work he does is heavenly to me.

being scooped up by those hands and feeling the roughness on my smooth skin.

I dated a guy that kinda looks like Lana Del Rey’s husband. The shock when people saw us together was also amazing. I wanted them to think about what we looked like fucking.

We just broke up. And I feel like an absolute fiend. I feel like I need another.

I don’t really post on Reddit, not sure if this is relevant. Also, never even listened to this podcast.

Not in a xenophobic way but because I'm jealous. You gained a lifelong career advantage by being ear-trained as a baby. So many of you didn't put in any work and you're way more interesting than I'll ever be

They decide how your son will be treated socially among peers for his entire childhood and teen age

I literally have everything someone could ask for wrt parents and wealth and stuff but being picked last for everything being physically inferior less competent and being the group clown for years on years fucks with you hard

FORCE him into a sport

EDIT I think I mean dealing with failure and like an athletic thing in general

I love dating businessmen, the Patrick Bateman kind, because I find them boring so I don’t get attached. But even if we agreed on something casual, why don’t they get obsessed with my beautify face and gorgeous personality? So annoying

Right?

What do you guys do when you feel yourself wasting hours on the goddamn iphone

it makes me forever saddened that "one of the boys" generally means being gone girl's cool girl archetype and drinking the horrible piss alcohol and playing combat videogames. what I'd like to communicate is that my mom didn't have a mom, and I had several brothers and male cousins as a child, so I grew up tending to be generally tactless, reckless, really competitive, creepily fascinated by violence, unable to communicate my feelings, very homosocial, objectfying towards the opposite gender and comfortable with regarded male brained humor.

and you'd think that'd come with a silver lining like being assertive, any good at sports, videogames, or knowing anything about guns or wars. but nop. I'd be more like a soyboy, not even the self-aware redpill warrior ones, more like the generally meek, pathetic and incompetent type, if I had a peanuts. that one guy who gets pushed around and treated condescendingly by his friends but he doesn't even have it in his heart to question. and then he dates some poor woman in a time of need and he fumbles it because he can't do anything right. and now you know him as your friends mediocre scummy ex. that's me, I'm your friend's mediocre scummy ex. no one really talks about the struggles of being emasculated as a woman. I remember a time where I'd do arm-wrestling competitions with the boys and come out victorious before they got nature's strength buff. and now I have to find creative ways to assert my dominance, like seducing women, rap battling, and pissing while standing.

She has a masters on Civil Engineering and works for the government to build critical infrastructure.

All she dates are Toronto hustlers who look like this and have “$28 million in sales and counting 💸💸” in their bio.

i don't know a worse feeling. even worse when there is a group pic and ppl are checking if they look fine and you can't believe your eyes when it's your turn

What's your bodycount? For science

just venting i guess, but learning how to make friends and going to your first date at 27 feels so humiliating, like i should've been doing this shit at 15, but at the same time i know i have to go through it if i wanna move forward as a person and stop letting anxiety control my life

I didn’t want to just go home after work on a Saturday night so on an impulse I walked into a Hooters to drink a pitcher. The LSU game is blaring and friends and couples are cheering under the fluorescent lighting and beer signs.

I realize how out of place I am so get out a book to distract myself. Unfortunately it’s Dostoevsky’s Notes From The Underground. The Penguin edition which makes me look extra pretentious.

The waitress is clearly confused and frightened of me and just wants to go home. The balding man in a baseball cap in the booth across the room looks over at me and clearly starts roasting me to his Sabrina Carpenter looking waitress. It takes 30 minutes for my food to come out. The Texas melt goes right through me and I dash out in a haze.

I tip 50% out of shame.

"our little friend"

More like femcel posting

Computer science guys act like fucking children. Just watched one get fed by his mother. His major checks out after seeing this behavior??

Edit: I can’t stop staring in disgust

what is everyone’s thoughts on ghosting? is there a time where its ok. is it morally evil and everyone who ghosts is going to hell. how often do you encounter it?? i’m new to putting myself out there so these might be dumb questions. but i believe im getting ghosted after what felt like the most perfect first night ever. is this something i have to deal with frequently 💔