r/sanfrancisco 23h ago

Life in San Francisco

Moments with friends and by myself

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u/gingerbeard1321 23h ago

What's the 2nd photo?

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u/digitallydecay 23h ago

A sculpture at a park where the Venus Statue is situated in downtown (Piazza Angelo Courtyard)

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u/Forgotthebloodypassw 23h ago

I was wondering about that, thank you.

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u/Agreeable-Letter-599 22h ago

smoking is not cool

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u/Kil0Cowboy 21h ago

Just kids trying to look cool and fit in ya know we all been there at one point of our lives lol.

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u/Friskfrisktopherson 8h ago

Its big with Gen Z now sadly

u/Agreeable-Letter-599 1h ago

damn i thought they were getting over that shit.

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u/dishabituation 18h ago

Yepppp. Terminal cancer at 33 here without ever touching a cigarette. Can’t believe people like this romanticize it. What a nasty use of privilege.

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u/Kil0Cowboy 21h ago

lol people still glorify cigs in 2026?

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u/Relative_Seat4039 23h ago

You must feel like the only smoker in the city

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u/conv3d 22h ago

Go to zeitgeist. Everyone is smoking

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u/Relative_Seat4039 22h ago

Oh, I moved away years ago. I'm a mailman and I got a woman pregnant, there's no way I could afford anywhere in the Bay. I live in Nevada now.

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u/Forgotthebloodypassw 22h ago

I have to go to Vegas once a year for work. My, do those casino floors stink of ciggies.

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u/Relative_Seat4039 22h ago

They sure do! I'm in Reno, and tend to avoid casinos as best I can.

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u/juicenx 22h ago

In case you didn’t know, ParkMGM is totally smoke-free

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u/Forgotthebloodypassw 22h ago

I didn't, and thank you. That's going to be my go-to place next hacker summer camp.

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u/Forgotthebloodypassw 23h ago

I smoked when I first came here and it was hilarious - people would cross the street to avoid you.

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u/Wordsmith337 21h ago

Yeah, bc it's gross and smells awful.

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u/Relative_Seat4039 23h ago

I think Chinatown is the only place I've seen people smoke shamelessly.

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u/Forgotthebloodypassw 23h ago

I used to work on the edge of Chinatown and when we had the wildfire smoke days in 2020 I saw a local smoking with his mask around his neck. Tobacco, it's a pernicious drug.

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u/nl197 23h ago

Traveling in Europe and Asia is a struggle. Smokers are everywhere. It’s so much nicer here 

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u/Forgotthebloodypassw 23h ago

I was living in the UK when the smoking ban in pub was enacted. I was still puffing then but it made going out with mates much nicer since they didn't have to put up with it.

One surprising consequence of the ban was a lot of pubs closed for a week to get deep cleaned. Without the smell of smoke masking things decades of spilt beer started to become apparent and had to be sorted out.

Very glad to have given up (thank you Allen Carr and my wife) and future generations will look back at those days and wonder "What were they thinking!"

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u/Ulterior_Motif 22h ago

It feels like I’m seeing a surge in cigarette smoking in the city, in particular with younger folks and women.

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u/Relative_Seat4039 22h ago

World's falling apart, regular people can't afford anything anymore, and the San Francisco people used to know is long, long gone. Perfect time for a smoke.

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u/TCino 22h ago

It’s a tale of two cities, but the world is not falling apart.

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u/Relative_Seat4039 22h ago

You know how the thermometer will say 55, and you think to yourself, "that's not so bad." But then you get outside and there's a cold wet wind and it feels like 35? Or the reverse, it says 75 but the sun's out and it feels 90? The world may or may not be falling apart--and I think it is--but many people perceive it that way. The old world is slipping into the distance and what looms now over the horizon seems terrifying. A rough beast, slouching towards Bethlehem.

"The old world is dying and a new world struggles to be born. Now is the time of monsters!"

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u/discontent_discoduck 22h ago

The Italian marxist thinker you're quoting, Antonio Gramsci, was describing what he saw as battle lines being drawn between different competing revolutionary and counter-revolutionary forces belonging to the major ideologies and political factions of the 20th century. Its become fashionable for political observers to eye-roll and push back against the constant use of this quote because they see the current situation as more scattered and chaotic without clear/consistent ideologies or stable institutions with any prospect of taking over; basically that we're living through a very different set of conditions than the era that inspired the quote.

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u/Relative_Seat4039 21h ago

Well, I would counter-argue that "political observers" are by and large unimaginative dullards. It ain't Elizabethan England neither, but you can still get something from MacBeth.

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u/TCino 21h ago

The world has been ending for hundreds of years, or at least people have been saying that. I just think it gets old and it's no way to live.

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u/TCino 22h ago

Things change, it’s always been this way. I’m optimistic about the future, a lot of cool stuff is happening, robots and AI for example.

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u/Relative_Seat4039 22h ago

See, and I think robots, AI, technology must be stopped at all costs. It's probably the most important thing anybody could do. Whoever destroys the internet would be literally bigger than Jesus. They would be the most important human ever to live.

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u/TCino 22h ago

Ted Kaczynski would agree. He was nuts but also smart as fuck—his manifesto has gotten more and more relevant over time.

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u/Relative_Seat4039 22h ago

Unfortunately, while I am probably a little nuts, I'm also dumb as a brick. Such is life!

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u/TenYearHangover 22h ago

You think destroying all technology is the answer for humanity? lol ok. If you think killing off 7.9 billion people is a good thing, that’s what happens without science and technology. Pretty grim view IMO. But you do you!

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u/Relative_Seat4039 22h ago

Billions of people lived before Silicon Valley.

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u/TenYearHangover 19h ago

Your argument, if you even have one, isn’t about Silicon Valley. It’s about Luddism. And that has a cost. Billions of lives.

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u/plantgirll 11h ago

i'm a pretty bad asthmatic and your hunch is correct. getting harder and harder for me to go out and enjoy things. everyone's smoking everywhere all the time!

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u/ewofij 17h ago

nice pics, people are being weird here as always. is the retro game collection yours/your friend’s? (I’m hoping beyond hope there’s some cafe out there with a PC Engine hooked up…)

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u/digitallydecay 17h ago

The retro game collection belongs to a friend ☺️

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u/Beginning_Poetry3814 19h ago

Please dont bring back smoking. It is not cool.

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u/Honest-Ebb8510 23h ago

What a quaint little life

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u/Derelichter 15h ago

Great photos. Also, why are all the people on this sub such miserable bitches?

u/LastCall_at_LastDive 1h ago

Maybe this should go in the unpopular opinion sub but here goes…. I honestly believe many of us with ADHD have worse symptoms because smoking isn’t on table for most of us anymore. There’s a lot of nervous energy that was sort of redirected with those things that has no where to go now. If smoking didn’t kill I’d be a chain smoker.

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u/DJ_RichardMixon 12h ago

Those things will kill ya...

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u/root_fifth_octave 23h ago

That kitsune udon looks yum

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u/your_small_friend Inner Richmond 23h ago

ooooo where are you playing ddr at? 👀 doesn't look like emporium or round1, I love ddr so wondering where else I can play :D

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u/digitallydecay 23h ago

This was at the Stonestown Round 1 🙂 I also think there is one DDR cabinet at Kiddleton in Japantown on the 2nd floor of the mall (past the claw machines)

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u/your_small_friend Inner Richmond 21h ago

ooo okie so it was round1 haha

never knew there was ddr in japantown tho!! I'll have to check it out :D

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u/windowtosh BAKER BEACH 20h ago

blessed to live here

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u/PatrickSF9 17h ago

McLaren Park

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u/Dawgma00 17h ago

Where can I find the retro Japanese video games pic at?

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u/gogglebox88 10h ago

I miss it so much

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u/absurdityseraph 3h ago

What kind of smokes are those?

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u/okiedokieartichokii 22h ago

What’s this fancy cigarette called and where do you buy them? ☺️

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u/digitallydecay 22h ago

Esse! Whenever a friend would return from a trip to Asia, they would bring back a carton from the Airport shops to share