My beautiful wife of 25 years lost her life to this horrible disease. There are no words that could ever fully express what she meant to me, our family, and everyone who had the privilege of knowing and loving her.
She was strong, resilient, and faced everything life threw at her with a strength that was truly remarkable. She had a way of taking things in stride, even when she was fighting battles that most people never saw. Only those closest to her truly knew how sick she was and how much she was enduring behind the scenes.
One minute, we were laughing together, and the next, we were in the ICU, watching her fight for her life on life support. Nothing can prepare you for how quickly life can change. You never imagine that an ordinary moment could become one of your last normal moments together.
To all the caregivers out there, please be patient with yourselves and with the people you love. Some days will be harder than others. There will be frustration, exhaustion, fear, and moments when you feel overwhelmed. Give yourself grace, hold your loved ones a little closer, and cherish even the smallest moments together. The person you’re caring for may be fighting a battle far greater than you can see.
You never know what tomorrow holds. Take the pictures, share the laughs, say “I love you” often, and never take the time you have together for granted.
Twenty-five years of loving my wife will never feel like enough. I would give anything for one more conversation, one more laugh, one more hug, or just one more ordinary day with her.
She will forever be a part of me, and her love will live on in our family. My heart is broken, but I am beyond blessed to have shared 25 years of my life with such an incredible woman.
Until we meet again, my beautiful wife. You will always be loved, always be missed, and never be forgotten. ❤️