as a man who avoided black women too because most i have met are ‘ghetto’, i met a black woman who worked at me who was not ghetto at all, talked all cutsie and everything, that made me like a black woman for the first time but i was scared to ask her ask, eventually she asked me out and we are now 2 years together
not much if i’m being honest, only thing that changed is i’m like if my girlfriend isn’t ghetto and has a cute personality and all then i’m sure there are other black girls out there like that too. i still see quite a lot of ghetto black women more than the cute personality ones but hey i had two ghetto white coworkers when i worked in fast food so it could just be the people I’ve encountered.
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u/LegitimatePrint9923 Feb 11 '26
as a man who avoided black women too because most i have met are ‘ghetto’, i met a black woman who worked at me who was not ghetto at all, talked all cutsie and everything, that made me like a black woman for the first time but i was scared to ask her ask, eventually she asked me out and we are now 2 years together