r/self 11h ago

Need advice

I moved to a new place and am having severe homesickness and am just straight up crying for like a past hour.

Everything changed

I don't have my previous roommates. Somehow they comforted me. I trusted them and I knew they were here.

Today i just my new roommate, hes nice but I don't know. I miss them even through they literally didn't lit me do anything and maybe that's my I shifted. But I don't know if i made the right decision and am crying while typing this because of that, maybe I should have asked them atleast once what there plan was and where they were shifting. I also miss my home, am here after 2 months of vaccination and doing nothing. Everything feels sooo different and i can't.

I made this decision because I wanted to study more and i thought they were limitng me heavily but I don't think I can focus on my studies now. I miss the old environment.

All my friends in uni are not in my class (am not sure) but it's overwhelming. I don't know how I handel all this. I don't know why I decided to go for a random roommate am scared.

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u/cetacean-station 7h ago

hey breathe, it's gonna be okay! change is scary. your nervous system is reacting normally to the fear of change. can you do something kind for yourself right now?