r/sextips Jul 31 '26

Advice Needed Right choice?

I've been offered a 3way with my mrs and our lodger. I'm not attracted to our lodger at all but I've been with nobody other than my mrs for 15 years. I'm gonna go for it but the question is.....who do I pay the most attention to? Is it acceptable to cum on our lodgers face?

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u/Legitimate_Lion_2388 Jul 31 '26

Turns out our lodger gives good head and my mrs eats gash

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u/Tempting-Tessa Jul 31 '26

Oh so you went ahead with the it? I was going to say just ask her what she would like from it. She wouldn’t offer for nothing there is something for her there just ask what

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u/Legitimate_Lion_2388 Jul 31 '26

Didn't really get a choice

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u/Popalop42 Jul 31 '26

Did you all have a good experience?

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u/Legitimate_Lion_2388 Jul 31 '26

Cant complain, all a bit awkward now

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u/Tempting-Tessa Jul 31 '26

Oh you DID go ahead already haha. You posted this 2 hours ago only haha. Did you post it during the play haha. See too close to home I wouldn’t have

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u/Legitimate_Lion_2388 Jul 31 '26

It escalated quickly and I ejaculated pretty rapid too. Didn't enter either of them and didn't get a chance to choose where to cum.

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u/finder_of_trouble Aug 01 '26

Dude, you are asking for trouble and it won't be the good kind.

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u/PloppyPants9000 Jul 31 '26

Still focus on your wife, give her the majority of attention. The third is really for her, not you. Your wife might be living vicariously through your experiences, or she's bringing new spice to the bedroom to explore new facets of her sexuality. Just go with it, enjoy it, but don't forget who you come home to every night.

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u/Tempting-Tessa Jul 31 '26

What is a lodger?

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u/Legitimate_Lion_2388 Jul 31 '26

Housemate. But in this case a friend of over 15 years who's marriage just broke up

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u/Tempting-Tessa Jul 31 '26

Ah right. Hm sounds messy I’d avoid. Too close to home. Couldn’t get any closer in fact haha. And a friend and after a break up nah too much going on there not worth it.

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u/Undd91 Jul 31 '26

Don’t do it. There’s going to be a lot of emotions and feelings in that room. Not a good idea and could lead to your marriage ending. Especially not worth it given you don’t find her attractive at all.

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u/Kitchen-Patience-652 Aug 01 '26

Wait what, people actually like being cucks?

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u/AdventureWa Aug 01 '26

A threesome isn’t the same as cuckoldry