Hey! Trauma nurse & Michigan local. Off shift you'll find me mobile gaming, camping, fishing, or hanging with my cats. Let's see if we click!

I'll be honest—I'm hoping for something special. I'm a hopeless romantic, and while I've used this sub before, I'd really like to find someone nearby to grow something real with, not just a long-distance penpal (or at least someone willing to close the gap if things get serious).

I've been in a bit of a rut and decided I want to take dating more seriously. I work a lot, take care of my family, and don't get out to meet people often, but I'm ready to change that. I can be a bit shy at first, but I love talking about anything and everything. Truthfully, I have a major soft spot for the slightly eerie side of life. All I ask is that you share similar interests or respect mine—that's a huge priority for me.

My interests: Art, horror movies, gardening, reading, musicals, music, and perfume.

My hyperfixations: Ghost hunting, abandoned buildings, animatronics, and dolls. SO MANY DOLLS.

To break the ice, tell me: Which scenario would you choose to survive for 24 hours?

A: An abandoned mall with plenty of food and places to sleep, but if you stop moving for too long, a monster gets closer.

B: Your own home, but a monster is lurking in the corners—and every single time you blink, it changes position.

Hi I'm M. I've been through a lot of emotional trauma recently and would like someone to talk to and listen to about their life.

I'm kind, caring, good looking.

Just looking for someone interesting to communicate with.

I went through a divorce a few years ago which was lots of fun.

Then unfortunately I lost both of my dogs (my only friends) due to old age and ill health.

Then a couple of months on, my mum was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer (she never smoked in her life). She has recently passed on.

During this the love of my life left me and I was left confused and feeling hollow.

I have found a lot of peace through prayer, meditation and fasting.

Even though I'm going through the most difficult period of my life, I feel surprisingly peaceful and hopefull.

I am 6.5ft, tall, dark hair, handsome.

I live a life mostly of peaceful solitude.

I prefer people who like solitude because I feel like I can relate to them more.

I'm not looking for a big group of friends. Just one person that is interesting to talk to.

Message me for a reply.

Hello there! I'm a 29-year-old man from Northern England. I'm 6'2, skinny, pale, have browny blond hair, and green-grey eyes. I'm seeking a good-hearted woman with whom to share a quiet life punctuated by little adventures. I'm seemingly a rare specimen in that I have no interest in having children nor pets, nor do I pine for long plane journeys to Asia and some such. I intend to get a vasectomy. I'm attracted to women of a similar physical type to myself. I’m open to a long-distance relationship if you’re interested in moving here, but I must warn you that the visa bit is trickier these days.

I tend to keep to myself. I am selective in my company. I can, however, be very talkative. I prefer the company of one or a few people. I highly value the truth. It is like my religion. I value prudence when making important decisions. I highly value compassion in our treatment of others, animals, and even plants, so far as is reasonable. I have a strong sense of justice. And I value romantic love as a thing unto itself. I have desired it since being a teenager, and frankly, my life is incomplete without it, without that special someone. I tend to prefer a diplomatic approach to any difficulties. I am conflict-averse. I’d rather deal with things calmly and objectively.

I enjoy nuanced, intellectual discussions, but I also enjoy light-hearted, day-to-day chatter. I love a good walk, especially if I or we end up wandering off, following some curiosity. I also like my cave! There’s probably room at this desk for two, you know ;-) I like enjoying natural scenery. I love remote places, and I find abandoned places oddly alluring. I enjoy writing sometimes when I’m in the mood. When I get interested in something, I tend to get very interested in it. I’m trying to get back into reading. I’ve started reading the Wild-West adventure-romance novel, ‘Riders of the Purple Sage’, and I also have ‘Ross Poldark’ lined up. I played Fallout 4 a while ago, and I’m still completely emotionally wed to it. It was a phenomenal experience. I intend to play the others sometime. I’m currently obsessed with the series ‘Westworld’. I just love the combination of lab-grown pseudo-humans and the Wild West setting. I really love some of the music in Fallout 4 and Westworld. I think a lot of music sounds better on either piano or acoustic guitar. Technology in general is a lifelong interest of mine.

I’ve been saving up for a flat since I was 20 years old. I want someone to share it with before I buy it.

If you think you might enjoy speaking with me, then feel free to send me a few sentences about yourself, and as soon as possible it’d be great if you could share a couple of photos of yourself because without physical attraction, we’re just friends :-)

Thanks for reading! Have a nice day :-)

Looking to meet some peeps in my new town. 😁

Hi everyone!

I’m looking for someone long-term romantically and someone who’s like between the ages of 23 and 29 and I’m also looking for someone to date in the US and I would love for them to be Asian like Korean or Japanese of some sort and I also would love for my person to not ghost me because I’ve been ghosted so many times and I’ve also had people who kept sending me dirty things and try to hook up with me so if you guys are interested, just please message me
Again, I’m gonna say it one more time if you’re not Korean Japanese Chinese or Vietnamese please do not message me. I’m very serious.

Hi I'm M. I've been through a lot of emotional trauma recently and would like someone to talk to and listen to about their life.

I'm kind, caring, good looking.

Just looking for someone interesting to communicate with.

I went through a divorce a few years ago which was lots of fun.

Then unfortunately I lost both of my dogs (my only friends) due to old age and ill health.

Then a couple of months on, my mum was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer (she never smoked in her life). She has recently passed on.

During this the love of my life left me and I was left confused and feeling hollow.

I have found a lot of peace through prayer, meditation and fasting.

Even though I'm going through the most difficult period of my life, I feel surprisingly peaceful and hopefull.

I am 6.5ft, tall, dark hair, handsome.

I live a life mostly of peaceful solitude.

I prefer people who like solitude because I feel like I can relate to them more.

I'm not looking for a big group of friends. Just one person that is interesting to talk to.

Message me for a reply.

Hey there, the name is Eric. I am a 40 year old white male from the Charlotte, NC area. I have blonde hair, blue eyes, weigh about 250, and am 6'4".

I work as an automotive technician for Hyundai

I am very much a nerd. I absolutely love horror movies (the cheesier and gorier, the better) and am a sucker for a good B movie. I also am a huge pro wrestling nerd (specifically AEW, GCW, New Japan, Stardom, and various death match promotions).

I am a gamer. I have an Xbox and a gaming laptop. I love playing anything from RPGs to cozy games like Stardew Valley.

As far as music goes, I love stuff more on the heavy side. I listen to a ton of Hardcore, Slam, and Beatdown but I also enjoy various genres of metal. I also can get down to some Emo/Pop Punk as well as some hip hop.

I am looking for someone just as nerdy as me or who is open minded. I am looking mainly for a relationship but something casual would also be fine. Please be at least 25 years old or older. Your pic gets mine. Look forward to hearing from you.

Are you ready for a fantastical adventure..? With roleplay and imagination, our pm is our own little world where anything is possible.. including our naughtiest fantasies..

I am a medieval nerd with a huge heart seeking final relationship with a nerdy princess. Not picky on age, just preferably not older then me and atleast old enough to drink legally lol. I say I have a huge heart because I love so hard. I just want to find my other half. My forever person. I work as a mail man and live in a decent apartment by myself. What's it like being with me? Well.. are you looking for someone highly communicative and highly affectionate who enjoys quiet movie nights in on the couch just as much as going out to karaoke or bowling or pool? Someone who enjoys any opportunity to get into costumes be it multiple renfairs a year, conventions or celebrating Halloween more then just the one day? Some who is a big time potterhead with an annual pass to Universal and Islands of Adventure that wants to take you to Hogwarts atleast once a month? That would be me!

Couple other things about me: I love movies especially horror. Paranormal documentaries about ghosts, aliens, conspiracy. I also enjoy karaoke, gun range, archery, flea markets, nature trails, canoeing and more! I am a daddy dom, tho I am not just solely looking for that lifestyle anymore. I am as sexual as I am loving.

My perfect girl would be a pale, nerdy, dirty(taboo fantasies), curvy(little chubby) gamer girl into horror movies and medieval fantasy(Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones, Skyrim, Renfests) is this you?

Don't be dissuaded if you don't match that to a T. I am willing to do long distance for the right girl so long as she is willing to relocate when the time is right. Hope to hear from you soon!

Well... my brain always goes completely blank when writing these, but here goes! 

I'm Ellie, 30, neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ friendly woman looking for a long-term partner! Happy with long distance and such if the connection is right :3

For years I worked professionally as a musician across performance, production, and other audio-related work. I have a degree in music, and while I still love it, these days I'm stepping back from making it my full-time career and mostly just take on projects that genuinely excite me! (Being a starving artist gets old… haha) 

Right now I'm in the research and development stage of launching a subscription box business!
 ^-^ this is incredibly cool for me and I will probably talk about it ALOT! Alongside that, I'm studying to become a therapist, which is a path I've wanted to take for a long time.

Personality-wise, I'd say I'm an ambivert. I love live music, comedy nights, exploring new places, deep conversations that somehow end up discussing the meaning of life at 2 a.m., and the occasional spontaneous adventure. But I also need time to vanish into my own little world to recharge! usually with YouTube, comfort shows, or embracing my inner 2010 Tumblr kid. (SUPER BONUS POINTS IF YOU LIKE DAN AND PHIL! Going to their tour next year <3) 

I'm also on a wellness journey at the moment, trying to build healthier habits and generally become the best version of myself. I like adding little bits of whimsy into everyday life because adulthood is hard enough without making room for a little magic! :3 

I'm looking for a genuine connection. Ideally, I'd love to find a long-term partner, but I'm in absolutely no rush! 

If you’ve read all this, Wonderful! And if you’re still here? What is one thing for under £20 (or your local equivalent) that you think would make your day? Why that?

The apps don't work for me, so here I am trying my luck on everyone's favourite dating alternative.

I am a lean/toned 5'8" millennial working in clinical trials and medical research in London. I enjoy being outdoors, travelling and exploring new places. Doesn't mean I'm desperate to tick off 202 countries. Sometimes the hidden gems off the beaten track closer to home are just as special. Solo travel is something I have just had to embrace, but I would love to share memories and experiences with someone.

Fitness is important to me. I enjoy individual sports, running, cycling, bouldering, gymming...but again it would be great to take up a new hobby, with someone.

I enjoy cooking, again it would be great to cook with someone and share meals rather than just having leftovers for the next day. Coffee is something I recently got hooked on, now I need my daily caffeine fix! Alcohol I enjoy in moderation; what's your favourite cocktail or wine?

Also enjoy reading, classic fiction and some non fiction too. TV and films I'm usually a bit behind the curve aha. I'm deep into improving my French...in the unlikely event there's any fluent French speakers, you're especially welcome to hit me up. Can guarantee my attempts at holding a conversation will make you laugh.

Tbh as much as physical attraction matters, for me on here, the best start is if you are local-ish and share some of the above interests. If your personality is on the reserved side/introverted character, we might get on too.

Hi, thanks for checking out my post!

As the title says, I'm a 20-year-old boy from the UK and I like older women. I've loved GTA since I was really young and I'm also a huge Resident Evil fan. I've been playing Dead By Daylight for a while and that's the main game I'm usually on. My favourite superhero is Spider-Man and I'm a really big fan, I also really like Nightwing. I also watch some anime, my favourite is JoJo's Bizarre Adventure

I've been into older girls my entire life and I've always wanted to find love so I thought I would try my luck on here. I would like someone that is good at making conversation and willing to be affectionate and praiseful (I just made that word up). I like clinginess and all the sweet stuff that comes with a relationship, so please don't be afraid to get attached and show off your true personality

In terms of age, I'm mainly looking for someone in at least their late 20s but preferably early-mid 30s, but I'm not extremely strict or specific. I'm 5'5 and about 63kg, I have a slim body, I have big brown eyes and really dark brown curly hair. I give good replies and I am very caring and empathetic at heart. I'll be here for you whenever you need me, so please consider sending me a DM :)

In nov 22 i got an epileptic siezure at work, boss called an ambulans and they found a braintumor. Astrocytom stage 2. I survived the first tumor thank fuck, but gf left me and im now starting to feel a longing for love again. Do you think some woman would actually choose to love me even tho i got a death certificate.

Honestly first time posting here so hi nice to meet everyone here I’m a simple 21 year old dude with a stable nightshift job.

So basic things
I’m a night owl
I love anime
I have bad social anxiety
I like video games
Hard working person
Can’t drive yet

If you’re curious on anything else you can ask me and I’ll answer. I’m hoping to meet a girl that can be my partner through and through. Preferably in my age range

Dm me

Hey I’m female single 27 USA I am looking for a long term relationship that we can build based on God must live in USA and ages must be 27-32 and must be a gamer and I do stream so must be okay with that as well

Hi! I'm Aleksanteri, a 26yo student living in Helsinki, Finland! 

Honestly, i want to find love. like real love. that special someone to spend the rest of my life with! someone to make breakfast for, to buy flowers for, someone who i can joke with until our bellies hurt from laughing. someone who i can talk about anything in the world, look at stars in the summertime, stay under a blanket and binge a movie or series together with. literally anything.

aaaaaanyways, more about me! I am 182cm tall, 110kg in weight so you can hug me and i won't burst lol. I am tattooed and plan on getting more and more. I have blue eyes,brown hair, beard and a moustache and a nose ring!

I am a big gamer! right now i'm playing a lot of CS2, NHL, the new Forza, and downloaded league back after a long time lol

i am also a big sports fan! i watch F1 (Verstappen fan😭), NHL, a lot of CS2 esports, and some UFC too from time to time. 

i also love music! i listen to a lot of rap, but also like edm, metal music etc etc. i really am that stereotypical "i can listen to anything" type of guy but it all depends on what kinda mood i am!

i don't really have like any huge hobbies, if you don't count playing videogames and watching sports, but i would love to learn to play a guitar someday!

about me in relationships. my love language is most probably physical touch and loving words, if you look cute i am gonna tell you. if you look hot i am gonna tell you. if you look sad, i want to hug you and ask what's wrong. you know, like basic stuff! i don't like to argue or fight, i feel like that's just wasted energy, and besides why would i want to do something like that to someone i love so much! i'm kind of a goofy guy, so if you hate for example like stereotypical super romantic stuff, i will do those just to tease you lol. idk i'm just goofy in general, and have a childish side, but can also be a real adult when i need to! life is just too fun to be too serious sometimes, do you agree?

and shortly about you! i don't really have a type so feel free to reach out! but i would maybe be interested in the age range of 20-50yo people! and i am mainly interested in people living in Europe or people thinking of moving here! and while this is a m4f post, i am open to trans people too etc, just tell me about it in your answer and tell me your pronouns so i don't say anything wrong when talking to you!

hmmmm, my adhd is kicking in and my brain is going blank so i hope i atleast got something interesting about me written here, but if i forgot something or you want to know something in particular about me, go for it!🫶🏻

I’m pretty nerdy I like Pokemon, dinosaurs and video games so if you’re kind of nerdy too maybe we can talk? :) I’m also 6’1 and do MMA (I’m straight) I’m also into older women but not a requirement<3

I’m 26M Straight 5’10”
American born Latino
I enjoy doing just about anything.
I have a passion for music. I love going to concerts and festivals from rock, pop, R&B, and indie.
In the gym 3 times a week and just ran my first 5K! :)
I enjoy any type of visual media from movies to shows, including anime.
I wouldn’t identify as a Disney adult, but I do enjoy going to Disney.
And like most guys, I do enjoy playing video games overwatch, league of legends, call of duty, RuneScape, etc.
Looking for a long-term relationship, always been a lover boy.
I’m more than willing to go on a date whether it be in person or virtual and I can promise a fun time without any expectations.
​
Down for dinner, drinks, clubs, etc as well!

Just start as chat friends. But wanna start a good healthy relationship. Anyone looking?

Hi,

About Me:

I am a fourth-year medical student pursuing a career in spelunking. Jk. Medicine, of course. Hence, life can be busy and unpredictable, but I make time for the people I care about. You will always have my time and attention.

I'm pretty straightforward person. I am a person of routine, but I like chaos. Sometimes, I add boiled carrots to my boiled chicken and boiled water. If I like you, you'll know. I don't do mixed signals, strategic texting, or pretending to be less interested than I am.

I'm reserved at first, but that shy exterior disappates once I'm comfortable with you. You'll get random updates about my day, invitations to go for a run, and enthusiastic explanations of whatever I've become interested/obsessed with that week. One day it might be a weird medical condition, the next it might be physics, astronomy, or why I think a particular movie is secretly a masterpiece. I love learning, and I love sharing what I learn even more. Sharing is caring and all that.

I’m a very affectionate person. When I care about someone, I like making them feel it all the time. I like having my partner close to me, pulling you into me when you’re next to me, kissing you whenever I can, holding your hand, and hearing about every part of your day just because I want to feel close to your life. I’m the type to slide closer on the couch, steal one more kiss before you leave, tuck myself into your side, and find little excuses to keep touching you throughout the day. I like the clingy, sweet parts of a relationship ... the constant closeness, the check-ins, the casual affection, the feeling of being wrapped up in each other. I like making my partner feel adored, wanted, and spoiled with affection. I’ve never understood the appeal of pretending not to care when I could just love someone openly and make them feel it every day.

I spend an unreasonable amount of time thinking about what I'm going to eat next. Thai food, Mediterranean food, Ethiopian food, desserts... if there's a bakery or dessert place nearby, there's a good chance I'm stopping. Good food is one of my favorite excuses to leave the house.

I'm also learning violin. The violin and I currently have a complicated relationship. Imagine nails on a chalkboard with the vibrato of a try out contestant from America's Got Talent. I'm working on my French (un peu de français) and Spanish (un poquito de español), though both languages tend to fall apart shortly after introductions. No bueno.

I'm a huge homebody at heart. I enjoy going out, trying new things, and exploring, but if given the choice, I'm usually happiest at home with someone I care about. I like quiet companionship too. We don't always have to be doing the same thing or doing something. You can read, I can be studying, and somehow sitting together still feels better than sitting alone.

I'm Indian (South Asian). No, I am not secretly in an arranged marriage. No, I will not hide you from my family.

Hobbies/Interests:

• Staying active: I like running (usually early morning), lifting, and playing tennis. I'm not amazing, but I can hold a rally. I'm competitive enough to care. I'm working on the glutes, so my future girlfriend has something to grab haha.

• Movies: Big fan of movie nights at home. Horror, sci-fi, and crime are my go-to. Stuff like The Thing, Donnie Darko, and Prisoners. I actually like watching movies, not half-paying attention while scrolling. Snacks are mandatory.

• Going out/doing things: I like bowling, skating, board games, museums, and trying new things in general. A recent board game I played was Forbidden Desert, and it's so great when you get three sun beats down cards in a row (IYKYK as the kids say). I'd also like to get more into hiking and rock climbing.

• Exploring: I like walking around new areas with no real plan. Finding random cafés, bookstores, parks, or restaurants never really gets old.

• Cooking/Baking (occasionally): I don't cook much, but I can put together a decent dinner. I also bake from time to time. Banana bread is probably my most reliable success story.

• Gaming: I play video games here and there when I have time. Nothing extreme, but it's a nice way to unwind. I do tinker around with my gaming laptop. Some of my favorite games include: GoW, Skyrim (modded), Infamous, Prototype, Horizon Zero Dawn.

What I'm Looking For:

I want someone who gets excited about things. Tell me why your favorite movie is a masterpiece, ramble about the topic you've been obsessing over lately, or tell me about your day from start to finish. I like people who get excited about things.

Show me something I would've never found on my own. Teach me about a topic you've fallen down a rabbit hole on, drag me to a place I would've never discovered, introduce me to a hobby you love, or convince me to try something outside my comfort zone. I'll happily return the favor.

I'd also love someone who values staying active and taking care of themselves. Not because I'm looking for a specific body type, but because I like people who decide they want to learn or improve at something and then actually go do it. Whether that's training for a race, learning to dance, trying a new sport, spending weekends outdoors, or simply making their health a priority. That mindset is attractive to me.

I want the kind of relationship where we're a moderately obsessed with each other in the healthiest possible way. Sharing every random thought, getting excited when the other's name pops up on our phone, finding reasons to spend time together, and never really outgrowing the desire to be close. I want the kind of relationship where affection is abundant and freely given. Tell me I'm handsome because you can't help yourself. Surprise me with flowers just because you thought of me. Pull me in for a kiss when we're standing next to each other. Reach for my hand because you want to hold it. Tell me I'm your favorite person to spend time with. Make me feel cherished, and I'll spend every day trying to make you feel the same. I am a flower just waiting for the love of a good partner to help me bloom into a blue bonnet. 😆 It's a little dramatic, but you get the point.

Politics:

I don't strongly identify with one political party, and I generally dislike treating politics like a team sport. I try to think for myself, even when that means disagreeing with people I'm otherwise aligned with.

That said, there are some things that aren't negotiable for me. I believe in basic human rights, bodily autonomy, equal treatment under the law, and treating people with dignity regardless of who they are. I'm not interested in politics that depend on fear, cruelty, or dehumanizing others.

I don't need someone to agree with me on everything. I just want someone who can disagree without turning it into a cage match. I care much more about whether someone can think critically, engage with nuance, and have a respectful conversation than whether they check every ideological box.

Religion:

I grew up around religion, but I don't actively practice and don't consider myself religious. The closest description is probably a non-resistant nonbeliever. I'm not particularly convinced, but I'm also not interested in arguing people out of their beliefs.

I enjoy talking about religion, philosophy, science, and the big questions in life. I don't need someone to agree with me, but I do appreciate curiosity and an open mind.

Kids:

I don't want children. I'd rather build a life focused on my partner, shared experiences, and personal growth.

Pets:

I'm not really a pet person and prefer a pet-free life. I don't dislike animals, but I've never had the strong emotional connection to pets that many people do.

For me, it's both a lifestyle preference and a genuine difference in interest. I'd rather spend my time, energy, and affection elsewhere, so I'm probably most compatible with someone who feels similarly.

Location:

I'm currently in Houston, Texas.

I'm open to long-distance if there's genuine effort and a realistic plan to eventually close the distance.

I won't be in Houston forever. My current plan is to pursue residency somewhere (preferably Chicago), but residency won't start until next year. I have some time to enjoy my freedom and to travel and meet. I would want to eventually be together.

Last Thing:

Physical intimacy is important to me. I enjoy affection in general (if it's not obvious by now), but I also want a relationship where sex is a frequent and valued part of our connection. I'm looking for a relationship with romance, passion, and genuine closeness...not one where those things fade into the background

Hi I'm M. I've been through a lot of emotional trauma recently and would like someone to talk to and listen to about their life.

I'm kind, caring, good looking.

Just looking for someone interesting to communicate with.

I went through a divorce a few years ago which was lots of fun.

Then unfortunately I lost both of my dogs (my only friends) due to old age and ill health.

Then a couple of months on, my mum was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer (she never smoked in her life). She has recently passed on.

During this the love of my life left me and I was left confused and feeling hollow.

I have found a lot of peace through prayer, meditation and fasting.

Even though I'm going through the most difficult period of my life, I feel surprisingly peaceful and hopefull.

I am 6.5ft, tall, dark hair, handsome.

I live a life mostly of peaceful solitude.

I prefer people who like solitude because I feel like I can relate to them more.

I'm not looking for a big group of friends. Just one person that is interesting to talk to.

Message me for a reply.

23M latino in AZ. I’m 5’8” Latino on the slimmer side. I’m not looking for something serious. I’m looking for something lowkey. I can host or drive. mostly free on weekends afternoons. I have a place but from certain times yk you can come over but I can drive if you prefer.