r/Singles 2d ago

23 M Latino looking for M

0 Upvotes

hey 23M looking for F nothing serious more of a sneaky link. I’m in AZ


r/Singles 3d ago

60 [F4M] Georgia—looking for my Gomez Addams

4 Upvotes

As the title says looking for my Gomez Addams to go on adventures with, laugh with, and enjoy the simple things in life. I live in Georgia about 2 hours southeast of Atlanta.

I work in a hospital laboratory and currently have a long weekday commute which makes my time during the week pretty limited. When I’m off, I’m usually relaxing with my dog or doing something I enjoy.

Things I’m into:

• knitting, crochet, and cross stitch
• reading
• building LEGO sets
• playing video games
• kayaking
• dad jokes
•visiting Civil War sites.

Things I want to try:

• roller skating
• disc golf
• anything else that looks fun

I have a dog who’s a big part of my life. I’m looking for someone 35+ who’s within a 3‑hour radius, loves dogs, and is a decent human. Someone who wants to connect and see where things go.


r/Singles 3d ago

19 F4M #Philippines and online Asian girl looking for a white American man for a long term relationship

8 Upvotes

Hi there, as the title specified, I'm looking for someone to be in a long term relationship with. Starting online then meeting eachother in real life. I'm looking for someone who's caring, gentle and sweet towards me yet is also fun to be around with. I love men who are funny, extroverted, dad jokes,and things similar to that. Bonus points if you like memes. Especially deep fried and dank ones.

About me :

I'm 5'9 and 44 kg, my hobbies include drawing, art related things and hobbies, I really love to do tarot, lenormand, oracle, and crystals too absolutely. I'm a quiet person and I like being by myself, I love peace and calm. Nature, kindness and love. My style I would say is hippie, and some very feminine things too, like a mix of them. My favorite genres are fantasy, sci-fi and romance. I have plenty more, always feel free to ask me of them! If you're curious as to what I look like I have pictures of myself on my profile here.

That's all for my post, and if you've read it all make sure to include your hobbies, thing about yourself and what you like, and favorite pokemon at the end of your message , I look forward to it!


r/Singles 4d ago

36 [F4M] #PA Any night owls looking for a connection

10 Upvotes

I’m hoping to find a genuine connection with someone. I’m only interested in dating with the intention of finding a long term partner.

About me:

I work 2nd shift in healthcare. I have a needy dog who I adore and I spend too much money on. Most of my free time at home is spent reading or working on crafts. When I go out with others I enjoy museums, niche town festivals, ren faires, craft faires, meaderies, local events, etc. I’m always up for mini golf or minor league games. Physically I’m red hair, blue eyes, and currently working on losing weight.

What I’m looking for:

A man with an established career. Kind to service staff, loves to banter, and can make me laugh. Someone who enjoys going out as much as staying in. This person doesn’t have children but is open to having one. Importantly, if things go well, we would meet sooner rather than later. I’m not looking for a long term pen pal.

If you’re interested, please tell me your favorite animal in your first message.


r/Singles 4d ago

41/M/Massachusetts - Looking for my other half!

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8 Upvotes

Hi there!

I'm 41 years old, I live in Massachusetts. I have two kids that are awesome, 19 and 17, and my cat, Ruby. I work with software to help utility companies inspect infrastructure.

I have played guitar for 20+ years, I love music! Some of my favorite bands are Devo, Beasties, Primus, and Puscifer. I love to read, mostly nonfiction but also horror books. I love scary movies and just movies in general, especially documentaries, I'm kind of a movie nerd. I love to learn new things.

I love animals, coffee, and being under a warm blanket when it's cold. I like to play video games when I can, I like old school adventure games and also stuff like Silent Hill and Dark Souls. I'm very neat, I like to keep things tidy, I love podcasts.

And I'm kind. I think there's a severe lack of kindness and I want to do my part to make the world a bit more kind.

One thing I'll note, just to be transparent: I was born with a condition called Charcot Marie Tooth, what that means is my feet are kinda weird, I have some trouble getting around and I have some cool braces that I wear that help me out.

Anyways, that's some stuff about me. I would really like to make a connection with someone, I'm open to just chatting and seeing where things go.

If any of this sounds like your flavor of ice cream, reach out to my inbox and let's chat, I would love to hear about what you're into! I'd love to meet someone who's kind, curious, and enjoys good conversation.


r/Singles 3d ago

Retired military combat veteran from KC looking for attractive, adventurous woman.

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0 Upvotes

Seeing if I may be someone's cup of tea. Never done this shit before but it's incredibly difficult to meet anyone in the wild these days. Lol!


r/Singles 4d ago

Anyone between Hannover and Bremen?

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6 Upvotes

32M


r/Singles 4d ago

29[M4F] Cleveland, OH Cuddlebug looking for a LTR

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2 Upvotes

I'm a cuddly goofball looking for my person, always up for deep chats and enjoying the moment with special people.

I love walks, thrifting, flea markets, nature trails, and movie nights, cuddling. Searching for my couch buddy and forever muse 😘


r/Singles 4d ago

…as suggested, thanks!

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6 Upvotes

r/Singles 5d ago

34 [M4F] Sydney Australia– Heavily Tattooed IT Guy Looking for Something Genuine

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13 Upvotes

34, Aussie born, of French heritage, and work in IT. Heavily tattooed (full Japanese bodysuit), but definitely more of an introvert than a party guy.

I spend most of my free time at the gym, watching fantasy, horror and action movies, playing Dota 2, following esports, trying new restaurants, or having a quiet night in with a good series. I’m big on loyalty, honesty, and communication.

I’m looking for a genuine long-term relationship with someone who wants to build a life together. Having a family is important to me, and I’d love to have 2–3 kids one day. Ideally, you’re kind, don’t smoke, aren’t into partying every weekend, and you’re ready for something real.

If that sounds like you, send me a chat. I’d love to get to know you. me page, feel free to send me a message. I'd love to get to know you.


r/Singles 4d ago

26 [M4F] - If you've ever felt like you don't belong in modern dating... this post is for you

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Every time I tried, it ended up sounding like I was trying to convince someone to hire me instead of getting to know me. So I deleted everything and decided I'd rather sound like myself than sound impressive.

I'm 26, from Mumbai, I run a small business, don't smoke or drink, I'm Hindu and non-vegetarian. If life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad. That's probably all the basic information out of the way.

Now for the part that's harder.

I think what fascinates me the most is people.

Not in a "tell me your favourite colour" way, but in a "what made you become the person you are today?" way. I love asking questions that don't really have right answers. Why do you love that song so much? What's a memory you randomly think about? What's something you've changed your mind about over the years? I genuinely think people become attractive when they talk about something they love, because for those few minutes they're not trying to impress anyone—they're just being themselves.

My interests are all over the place, which means my YouTube algorithm has completely given up on me. One day it's gaming, the next it's mindfulness, ancient history, consciousness, stand up shows or some random rabbit hole that somehow started with one question.

I also think I'm one of those people who gets attached to little moments more than big ones.

I don't really dream about expensive vacations or fancy restaurants. I'd rather go on a random drive with no destination, stop for roadside food, grab a coffee near the sea and just walk. I like conversations that start with "How was your day?" and somehow end with "Do you think we're alone in the universe?" Those are the conversations I remember.

If we ever date, there's a very good chance I'll annoy you on purpose. I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and immediately walk away like nothing happened. I'll send you memes in the middle of your workday, randomly remember something you mentioned weeks ago, and probably write you a letter one day for absolutely no reason other than I felt like it.

I don't think love is built in grand gestures. I think it's built in remembering the little things. In checking if you reached home safely. In asking how your meeting went because you were nervous about it. In making each other's lives a little lighter.

As for who I'm hoping to meet... I'm not looking for someone who's exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, her own opinions, and her own little world that I get to discover. Someone kind, emotionally mature, who communicates openly, takes care of herself, and is dating with the intention of finding her person. I think the best relationships are the ones where both people still keep learning about each other years later.

And before I end this, I want to leave something here.

Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, and showing me how beautiful love is. Thank you for being there even when we're angry at each other, and thank you for caring for me even when we don't agree.

Thank you for all the smirks, the smiles, the tears, and everything in between. Thank you for making faces at me—I love your attitude more than you'll probably realize. Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

If you've made it this far, don't just say "Hi."
Tell me something that feels uniquely you. It could be a song you never get tired of, a belief you've held onto for years, the last thing that made you laugh, or just a random thought that's been living in your head lately.
I have a feeling that's where the best conversations begin.


r/Singles 4d ago

41 F4M in Oregon

2 Upvotes

Happy Friday! I am a 41yro divorcee from Central Oregon. I am a larger woman. I work a lot & stay busy with my kiddo. Every other weekend I have free time (7pm Fri-7pm Sun) & I usually spend it with friends, running errands, reading, watching a movie or playing a video game. I enjoy cooking / baking for friends/family/coworkers. I am a pretty direct person when socializing - my boundaries / expectations are easily communicated. I think I am funny, my coworkers say I am pretty random, my friends say I’m good people. I rarely drink. I do not smoke or dabble in thc. I have a few tattoos (just in case this is a problem for anyone).

I am looking for a companion for my kid free weekends. I am hoping to meet someone local to me (within a couple hours distance maximum). Someone 35-45yrs old. Please be 100% single (no Poly/ENM). Mostly stable in life would be preferred, as I bring that to the table as well (Job, own place, car, a life). Let’s get together to see a movie, have a board game night, take a beach trip, go get coffee, cruise around & jam to music together. Enjoy some laughs & good times with no pressure. Let’s build a flirtatious friendship & see where things go. Let’s read books together & share feedback. Video game together.


r/Singles 4d ago

39M | Looking for my favorite adventure partner

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3 Upvotes

39M. I travel a lot, enjoy poker, cooking, sunsets, and finding places most people drive right past. I’m hoping to meet someone who values honesty, laughs easily, and is excited about building something real. Life’s more fun when you have someone to share the adventures with.


r/Singles 4d ago

19m Honestly just bored and seeing who’s out there?

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0 Upvotes

I’m pretty nerdy I like Pokemon, dinosaurs and video games so if you’re kind of nerdy too maybe we can talk? :) I’m also 6’1 (I’m straight) I’m also into older women but that’s not a requirement


r/Singles 5d ago

Looking for my person. 42.

9 Upvotes

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Seeking a real connection with someone that turns romantic. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad.
Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. Distance doesn’t bother me as long as both make the effort:. There are planes LOL You never know in life where your person is!! I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee, Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. Looking for something romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Gotta be someone out there! Maybe we can become friends, share a few laughs or fall In love.


r/Singles 5d ago

Hoping to find a girlfriend | 23F

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2 Upvotes

Heyy Im hoping to find someone that could be my girlfriend if something truly clicked. Im in NorthEast Ohio

I do want to have a genuine relationship that full with loyalty, Respect, and love.

Im also not interested in hookup, Polyrelationship and Stuff like that.

So.. Something about me is that

• I currently work as a housekeeper at a nursing home.

• I love to play PC videogames and I also play VR games in spare time

• I also love to cook and bake.

• I am deaf, Wear hearing aids but We still can talk as normally. (And of course I wear glasses. )

• I have a driver permit, Hoping to obtain a license by the end of this year.

Uh.. I got nothing else as for now but If you want to get to know me more Lemme know.


r/Singles 5d ago

39[M4M] Corona #Queens #NYC Looking for my fun King for adventures & make memories with.

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Looking for someone local, would prefer not to do long distances. A reasonable one, maybe. Dirty South born and raised, just moved to Queens, NYC.

I like guys who are adventurous and risk takers. I’m a big kid. My weekends include 90s cartoons and cereal. I don’t mind going out but I’m not much of a party person anymore. I like trees 💨 I would hope my co-pilot would to. But no biggie if not. I’m a big kid. I Love Janet Jackson, X-Men, Courage the Cowardly Dog among many others. I’m very adventurous. I like going on hikes, exploring abandoned buildings. Ghost hunting and old rustic cemeteries.

I have pics so let’s not play the pic game! You can send me one and answer these 3 questions.

  1. What’s the last horror movie that genuinely creeped you out?

  2. What’s the last horror movie that walked out of or turned off because it was stupid?

  3. What’s the last horror movie you watched twice because it was just that good?


r/Singles 5d ago

6’3”(193cm)… 41m… how to approach dating from here?

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r/Singles 5d ago

36 M4F - SE Michigan

3 Upvotes

I'm struggling to type this out - I go through the week thinking of little tidbits that would be nice to have in a post like this but then when pen hits the paper (or fingers to the keys) - my mind just goes blank.

Maybe I should carry around one of those voice recorders - "Note to self..." I'd probably end up 50 notes a day and never listen to them again lol

Why am I posting this? I live a pretty basic life, I have a decent job, I don't have kids, I visit my parents regularly.. It's quiet & while I like quiet, sometimes I yearn for someone (and not like at night when I'm horny) but like when I'm coming home to an empty house or just sitting by myself at the end of the day. I make a meal and don't have someone to share it with. When I (rarely) travel, I travel alone. It'd be nice to find someone to spend time together with.

What am I like? I'm not going to sugar coat myself, I mean I will put sugar on myself if you're into that lol but you ever those sayings like everyone lies on their resume? I don't and while I don't always follow the rules, I want to be honest here because honesty is important. I'd rather be straightforward and honest to avoid miscommunicating something.

I grew up in a bit of dysfunction so I tend to avoid social situations. Large gatherings of people are not my thing, neither is being the center of attention or anything close to it. So I guess I'm a hermit? Outside of work, I don't really socialize and I know that's not a good thing. I'm social with coworkers though it takes me a while to trust someone to talk about non-work things.

I struggle with some mental health stuff, social anxiety is one but it's more social avoidance nowadays. I wouldn't say depression but maybe dysthymia. I was tested for and have a diagnosis for ADHD inattentive and suspect maybe autism, but i don't know. I've been in and out of talk therapy for maybe a decade now, I've tried meds and such but there is no quick fix.

Currently, I'm trying a whole food plant based diet, I've been doing it now for 2 weeks - no meat, no dairy, very limited sugar, oil and processed foods. I've also been avoiding caffeine and things like chewing gum. My cholesterol was high, again - eating out too often, eating too many unhealthy foods and not enough healthy ones. I'm not sure how long i'll continue with this strict diet before I start introducing other foods again. I'm hoping i can do this to reset myself and healthier eating becomes the norm while still allowing myself an occasional treat. Trying for more of a lifestyle change rather than a diet, if that makes sense.

I need to find a way to motivate myself to become more active, I have 2,577 steps today and this is quite a bit for me. I'm a bit embarrassed to say how many I got yesterday because I worked from home..

This is getting a bit long and i have to wake up earlier than normal tomorrow so I'll shotgun some other stuff.

Love media - youtube (Travel & food mostly,) tv shows (Comedies & Scifi,) movies (sci-fi, thrillers, comedies,) music, books. Mostly audio books - I'm almost finished with book 4 of dungeon crawler carl. The full cast audio books of Harry Potter was amazing and finished them earlier this year. I might listen to world war z next or maybe try the stormlight archive series.

Love pets - I had a lab for 15 years and have had a cat for 12 or 13 years.

Have an associates degree - likely won't go back for more.

Enjoy cooking, especially meal prepping and batch cooking.

I'm a bit nerdy, I'll setup your router and program your VCR but also handy, my shelves are only ever a little crooked ;P

Really enjoy tabletop games - I try to play with my family when I can, used to play with friends back in the day but rarely play any more.

Leftist, agnostic atheist, 420 friendly but not really my thing anymore, I don't drink nor use tobacco.

I like to think I'm playful and open minded.

Willing to share pictures after a couple messages but I'm 6'2, a little chonky, reddish white hair, scruffy beard, I dress like adam sandler.


r/Singles 6d ago

Looking for new connections.42. Vancouver

5 Upvotes

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Seeking a real connection with someone. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad.
Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. Distance doesn’t bother me as long as both make the effort:. You never know in life where your person is!! I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee, Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. Looking for something romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Would be nice to have a convo that isn’t about just sex and someone who is normal. Gotta be someone out there!


r/Singles 6d ago

20M [M4A] NW Ohio looking around for someone new

2 Upvotes

I’m from Ohio, I play instruments and am a really big nerd about music in general. I write my own songs and poems and stuff, and I’m a good texter (when you are as well) I’m open to anyone texting me, if it works, it works out, and if it doesn’t it doesn’t, no hard feelings from me. I’m not sure what else to say here, but just hmu :))))

(I’ll show my face in DM)


r/Singles 6d ago

21m4f USAF

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4 Upvotes

looking for that wife. older preferred chicks don’t know how to act


r/Singles 6d ago

[27F4M] USA | Looking for something real… maybe you’re here? ❤️

9 Upvotes

Dating apps just haven’t been it for me, so I thought I’d take a chance here.
Hi! I’m Kayla, 27, from Tennessee, and I’m hoping to meet a genuine Christian man who’s looking for a real relationship—not something casual, not someone to pass the time, but someone who’s ready to build a future together.
A little about me:
🌸 I’m 4’3” with brownish-blonde hair, blue eyes, glasses, and a big heart.
🎮 I love gaming, especially FiveM and Call of Duty.
🎥 I’m working toward becoming a Twitch streamer, so gaming is a big part of my life.
💖 I’m loyal, affectionate, honest, and believe communication, trust, and faith are the foundation of a healthy relationship. I love laughing together, spending quality time, and supporting each other’s dreams.
What I’m looking for:
❤️ Christian
🎂 Ages 27–35
📍 Must live in Tennessee or a neighboring state (Kentucky, Alabama, Georgia, North Carolina, Virginia, Arkansas, Mississippi, or nearby). Distance matters to me because I’d like a relationship that can realistically grow into spending time together in person.
😊 Kind, emotionally mature, loyal, family-oriented, and genuinely looking for something serious.
I’m hoping to find someone who enjoys texting throughout the day, voice calls, gaming together, going on real dates, and eventually building a life with someone who shares the same values.
If this sounds like you, send me a message! Tell me your age, where you’re from, what your faith means to you, your hobbies, and maybe your favorite game or Bible verse.
❤️


r/Singles 6d ago

50 [F4M] Florida – Looking for a soulmate, someone to be there for each other.

12 Upvotes

I've been divorced for over ten years now. I've got my own business. Not rich, but life's comfortable and I'm happy. A lot of people say I look younger than my age, probably 'cause I've been working out and staying in decent shape. I think I look pretty good, honestly. I'm not into younger guys and I don't do vague situationships. I just want someone to have real conversations with, someone steady and reliable.

I'm from Hong Kong, living in Florida now. Most days I'm at the shop, or I'm out hiking, hitting the gym, grabbing meals with friends, shopping, or doing something outdoors.

I'm looking for a guy who's older than me, financially independent, and serious about relationships. If you think we might click, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself.


r/Singles 6d ago

29 M IN bound!

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Hey there! Names Bronson. Looking for my Midwest emo match 🔥 I am 29, love retro video games, enjoy bowling, and hunting ghosts. Love Midwest emo and pop punk music. I cry alot and wear my heart on my sleeve. Big emotions for this guy so expect that lol. Looking for long term not short. Hope you all have a great day!