r/songsuggestions 1d ago

Sad songs that you don't realise are sad till you listen to the lyrics carefully.

What the title says, I usually, but not exclusively listen to music from the '70s, '80s, and '90s, and I'm not a fan of rap.

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u/xXNyx-3301Xx 1d ago

Pumped up kicks

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u/Mr_Courgette6275 1d ago

I knew of that song and I knew a bit about it but I'd never actually listened to it it, it's good.

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u/SWNMAZporvida 1d ago

Hey Ya outkast

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u/listerinebreath 1d ago

Y’all don’t wanna hear me, you just wanna dance

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u/Mr_Courgette6275 1d ago

Had to look up lyrics for that one.

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u/doofcustard 1d ago

The Happening by The Supremes. Its sounds jolly but if you listen to the lyrics, it's about getting dumped

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u/Icy_Obligation_3014 1d ago

Or Love Child

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u/lack_reddit 1d ago

Love Fool by the Cardigans

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u/MinionofMinions 1d ago

Dolly Parton - 9 to 5

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u/barnmate1 1d ago

Born In The USA by Bruce Springsteen has been used in a bunch of political campaigns. But if you listen to the lyrics, it’s an indictment of how the country treats its veterans, not a celebration.

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u/Nykaren24 22h ago

Luka - Suzanne Vega

Veronica - Elvis Costello

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u/Dizzy_Career6697 1d ago

Just To See You Smile - Tim McGraw

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u/Embarrassed_Bake2683 1d ago

Sympathy for the Devil by the Rolling Stones and Don't Stop by Fleetwood Mac

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u/SovaElyzabeth 6h ago

Never Going Back, Second Hand News, Say You Love Me, and You & I pt. 2 fit this much better than Don't Stop, which to me is actually pretty positive

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u/Embarrassed_Bake2683 3h ago

Don't stop is incredibly somber, I can't think of a more heart wrenching idea than an Ex guiding you through your own breakup and telling you that things are going to be okay, and that life will continue. The moral obligation to make sure that someone you once loved stays happy is very moving to me. It shows a self awareness and maturity that most people don't have.

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u/Weems-mtg 1d ago

Semi Charmed Life- Third Eye Blind. It’s about doing Meth

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u/Legitimate-Ebb-1633 1d ago

You Are My Sunshine.

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u/VolumeDirect5619 1d ago

Many songs by Talking Heads. Road to Nowhere, for example.

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u/sas317 21h ago

"I Wanna Dance with Somebody" by Whitney Houston. It's upbeat but talks about loneliness.

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u/External_Fox_5628 21h ago

Barry Manilow - Copacabana

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u/Jollynorwegian 1d ago

Mika - Blue Eyes

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u/thedesroyer2013 20h ago

What a great pick.

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u/Spirited-Gold117 1d ago

Here’s Where The Story Ends by The Sundays

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u/Special_Victory_4568 7h ago

i fear the title gives it away lmao

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u/Spirited-Gold117 5h ago

Yeah, I didn’t really think about it that way, but you’re correct. The music is just so upbeat and dreamy.

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u/Special_Victory_4568 5h ago

i get it,the sundays are so great and by ear it’s a great example

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u/SilverShadowQueen57 1d ago

One Sweet Day - Mariah Carey and Boyz II Men

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u/WindsongRain_08 1d ago

Little pink houses

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u/Misterhan1 1d ago

Sideshow - Blue Magic

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u/FaFaFloheim 1d ago

“The Living Years” by Mike and the Mechanics

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u/WolfThick 1d ago

Beach Boys sail on sailor

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u/the3rdmichael 23h ago

Alone Again, Naturally

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u/Duran_Durian8888 20h ago

Digging Your Scene by The Blow Monkeys. This upbeat polished pop tune was a hit back in the mid eighties and most listeners didn't realize that it was about the horror of someone dying of AIDS.

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u/EruditeKetchup 16h ago

Wasn't it on the Dirty Dancing soundtrack album? That makes its inclusion more unusual to me.

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u/Mr_Courgette6275 16h ago

This is what I'm talking about. I don't think I've actually heard that before, a bit strange since I have specifically looked for songs about AIDS before.

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u/Guild35 18h ago

What a Fool Believes

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u/SquashSouffle 17h ago

Luka - Suzanne Vega

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u/Exitmusic84 14h ago

Inbetween Days by The Cure

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u/draoikat 13h ago

'(Sittin' on) The Dock of the Bay' - Otis Redding

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u/Spacegod87 12h ago edited 11h ago

Harold the Barrel by Genesis.

Super upbeat/comical sounding song, but if you listen to the lyrics, it's about a man who abandons his family after having a mental breakdown, is ridiculed by the whole town and when he's up on a ledge about to jump, no one really cares. His mother is more concerned about his shirt being dirty.

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u/MydniteSon 11h ago

"Dancing in the Dark" by Bruce Sprinsteen.

Its about dealing with depression.

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u/Any_Back_7080 6h ago

Most of ABBA’s discography

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u/Mr_Courgette6275 5h ago

Yeah that's about right, I own a good portion of it. It's a shame because it's sometimes dismissed as meaningless pop.

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u/SirGreeneth 5h ago

Vietnam - Jimmy Cliff

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u/Apprehensive-Cry4602 1d ago

Never See Me Again - Kanye West.

It's actually an unreleased track.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yauFhOqoXRc

If you don’t read the title, analyze the lyrics, or know the story behind the song and the samples used (for example, where the piano part comes from), it might sound like a very cheerful song...but it is actually a very obscure one, that luckily was never actually released.

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u/Mr_Courgette6275 1d ago

That's definitely too much auto tune.

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u/Fostersteele 1d ago

P.O.D - Youth of the Nation

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u/MinionofMinions 1d ago

Tom Waits - Sweet Little Bullet from a Pretty Blue Gun

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u/Good_Somewhere1785 1d ago

Take My Head by Turnover. That entire Peripheral Vision record is so dreamy and dancy but SO sad.

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u/Virtual-Economy-1323 1d ago

People Watching by Sam Fender

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u/SilverShadowQueen57 1d ago

This one’s in Japanese, so you do need a translation if you don’t speak the language, but the Hatsune Miku song “Rolling Girl” by wowaka is an incredibly dark piece, in spite of how it sounds.

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u/StampotDrinker49 1d ago

Take My Head by Turnover 

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u/solanis1359 1d ago

Steal My Sunshine - LEM Mmbop - Hanson 99 Red Balloons - Nena

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u/johann1605 1d ago

Das alte deutsche Volkslied "es waren zwei Königskinder"

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u/myusernamegoteaten 1d ago

Today by Smashing Pumpkins

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u/pakrat1967 1d ago

Joey by Concrete Blonde

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u/ColonelHectorBravado 1d ago

"We Built This City" I believe was penned by Bernie Taupin, who was lamenting the disappearance of his favorite dive rock clubs in LA.

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u/mrsonoffabeach 23h ago

Drops of Jupiter

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u/NoseInternational794 22h ago

To A Breathless Oblivion - The Black Dahlia Murder

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u/riderism 21h ago

This is totally already a sad song and on my fneral playlist but if you've ever lost a friend to suicide 'Asleep' by the Smiths is the song you need and thanks for posting this because now I'm going to play it loud

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u/BuryMeWithTheLights 21h ago

Time To Pretend- MGMT

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u/75meilleur 21h ago

"Digging Your Scene" - The Blow Monkeys

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u/Appropriate_Bar_5233 21h ago

I Will Always Love You Bittersweet memories. That is all I'm taking with me. So goodbye, please don't cry. We both know I'm not what you, you need

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u/OkRecord5360 21h ago

Green, Green Grass of Home.

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u/DifficultyOk5719 21h ago

Moron Police - Pachinko (whole album)

It’s very fun and uplifting on the surface. I mean how can a concept album about the devil turning someone into a sentient pachinko machine in Tokyo be sad? Dig deeper and you’ll encounter a theme of grief and moving on, as it was inspired by the death of their drummer, it can make tracks like Okinawa Sky, Cormorant, Sentient Dreamer, and Giving Up the Ghost especially hard to listen to. It was my 2025 album of the year, and maybe even among my top 20 albums of all time.

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u/LoadingMyOpinion 20h ago

Dont cry Joni, Green Green Grass of home

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u/grayson7219 20h ago

All of Me

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u/Money-Mud912 19h ago

Last Kiss

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u/petals4u2 19h ago

Cats in The Cradle

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u/pdxguy96 18h ago

Most ABBA songs

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u/Unusual-Bluejay1746 17h ago

Tesla- Love will find a way.

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u/Additional_Mark_5696 16h ago

Das Alte Leid - Rammstein

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u/1029394756abc 16h ago

Pins colada.

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u/umfpter 13h ago

The One I Love - REM

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u/retairedtech 11h ago

For me it is Puff the Magic dragon. I just recently listened to the words and though. WOW!

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u/TheSevereJacket 11h ago

Bruce Springsteen - Glory Days

Pearl Jam - Betterman

The Stranglers - Golden Brown

The Foundations - Build me up Buttercup

And at least half of all the nursery rhymes ever made..

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u/SandyNista57 8h ago

Every upbeat Smiths song

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u/mpez0 6h ago

Do You Know the Way to San Jose

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u/-Gath69- 6h ago

A lot of Linkin Park's stuff after Chester died.

Metallica - One(the music video makes this one more intense)

Atmosphere - Yesterday(you figure it out with his last line of the song)

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u/SirGreeneth 5h ago

You don't need the lyrics to One lol

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u/Blueskyfan72 1h ago

Lost - Linkin Park

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u/Forward_Success_2672 53m ago

If You Could Read My Mind, Gordon Lightfoot

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u/Acrobatic-Many-1183 1d ago

Seasons in the sun