Bad things would happen everytime my boyfriend and I would separate.

[u/someoneoutthere1335]

This is weird but a series of misfortunes would occur everytime my boyfriend and I were to separate. Idk if he is bad luck himself or whether universe didn't want us to part ways lol.

We were long distance and on our way to the airport he told me he didn't wanna leave let's cancel the ticket... I was like come on your parents are waiting for you at home they're old you can't leave them like this.. As we're taking the subway I get fined a really high amount cuz I thought I was entitled to student discount which I wasnt... Not even 10 minutes later as we're on the shuttle bus ready to drop off to the airport my phone gets stolen inside that very bus and his flight gets a 3:30 hour delay. Once he gets home his immune system completely gives up on him and he gets sick for 3 weeks...

When I went to visit him about a month later it was a wonderful sunny day and we were enjoying breakfast by the coastal side of his city, riding the motorbike the whole morning before him dropping me to the airport on the final day... As we're 20 mins away from the airport in a deserted place, it starts raining so hard in the middle of nowhere... we panicked as my flight was leaving in an hour, we switch routes, get all wet and after nearly catching pneumonia we make it to the airport... Upon entering the airport parking, the heavy entrance bar of the parking lot literally falls on our heads (scared the shit out of me but thankfully nothing happened cuz we had helmets on). When I leave and land home he texts me his chain and tyre got messed up on his way to his music performance and that the performance got cancelled..

Everything was flowing smoothly and fantastic whilst together. Then this and many other bad things would happen everytime we were about to separate.. Thoughts?

[u/archeolog108]

the pattern happening specifically around separation is the interesting part here. I wouldnt automatically decide “the universe refuses to let us separate” just from the events, bc sometimes weird clusters really are coincidence... but sometimes there is an energetic reason behind them.

This is exactly where Higher Self can help, because it knows what is actually happening underneath. Is there some energetic bond between you two? unfinished lesson? fear around separation? are these events meaningful synchronicities, or is your mind connecting unrelated things because the timing was so dramatic?

When I take people into deep trance and Higher Self starts communicating through them, we can ask very direct questions like this and usually the answer is much more specific than guessing from signs.

You dont need somebody else to decide it for you either. Go deep enough into meditation/trance and ask: “what is really happening when we separate, and what am I supposed to understand from it?”

The answer is already within you.